Bi Women......HELP PLEASE

[Nocturnal Angel]

Oh yeah..the Olive Garden is generally packed with snobby housewives and gay men, Coffeehouses (Starbucks anyone?) are more our speed (I met my GF Miranda at a Barnes and Nobles with a Starbucks)
Lisa
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Coffeehouses, yes. good places to be comfy. but Starbucks? $20 for coffee? it's good, but not that good. it's coffee. you can go to dunkin donuts and get a good cappucino and bring it to a park. that's relaxing. and not a million dollars. and i think you are on the wrong board to be rubbing it in our faces about your girlfriend! this topic was started by a woman who was frustrated because she couldn't find someone and you are sending her to starbucks. LOL... i sound mean..i'm not it's just the way the words are coming out... all sarcasm...but seriously... maybe we should just meet at a busstop.

 

[Buffytasamoto]

Coffee Anyone?

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Lol... yeah, but for a $5.00 cup of coffee (Geeze, not even I would pay $20) you could meet someone who might actually have a job and won't be tempted to be constantly borrow gas money from you, etc. (Think along the lines of the best place to meet, say, a Doctor, is at a hospital? Or a Lawyer near a courthouse?) What will you find at Dunkin Donuts? Okay, you'll find plenty of policemen, but ...what are we looking for again? Hee Hee!
Look at it like fishing. You shooting for catfish or one of those big fish with the sword-snout? If catfish then you need to find you a muddy ole Bayou, grab some worms, cane pole, float, hook...and a bit of patience. You want a swordfish you're gonna have to buy fancified gear, rent a boat, head out to the Gulf a good ways and ...well, let's just say it's not cheap!
Of course advertising here is not a bad start. I mean, you know you'll be finding people who can actually READ (always a plus!), and they are at least clever enough to know how to use the internet to get to this place...believe it or not you just eliminated a bunch of people already by that point! Heck, I've met many people over the years via online, and I LOVE IT! You don't like someone, just "Click". Try that in a bar somewhere...
Oh..and Airports are much more fun than Bus stops
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[24bigirly]

Hey...

Lisa...No hard feelings babe? Your original post just came across as harsh to me and I'll admit when I read it, I was in a shitty mood. You make a fair point about the profile and while I am not convinced to update mine yet, I am giving it a thought. And hey, if you have been a moderator in the past for this sort of thing, then I guess I should take your post as constructive criticism. Listen girl, I am here for help in trying to find out another side of my life, not to disagree with a woman who has experience that I can learn and benefit from.

Noct....Hi! I love reading your posts because you are so down to earth! While I agree Starbucks is expensive, maybe buffy has a good idea with the barnes and noble. You don't have to be drinking coffee and there are some comfy chairs and tables there. Might be an idea!

 

[Buffytasamoto]

Barnes and Nobles

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BTW...I travel a LOT, and I always have my trusty laptop with me...and there's not that many places I can go and sit, open up my laptop and surf AND sip on a latte (actually, I'm much more partial to Cafe Du Monde's "Cafe Au Lait" in the French Quarter in New Orleans, but hey...)
I am most happy to offer what I can for you, Bigirly. Goodness knows not everyone's gonna go out and buy a copy of "Lesbianism for Dummies" (side note..there actually IS a book similar..I sent a copy to a friend of mine a year or so ago).
Might I suggest a few movies? "But I'm a Cheerleader" is one of my favorites, as is "Better Than Chocolate". Check out "A Girl Thing", and if you don't have showtime go and rent "The L Word", which to me is as awesome as it comes!
You wish to find out about a side of your life you've never been to? Dear, it's just like swimming....It's deep, it's dangerous, yet I guarantee you'll end up getting wet
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[sexfiend73]

I have been searching for a long time too...

Hi all just a head's up. My wife and I have been looking for someone to join us in a threesome or even just to meet with my wife and go dancing. We can't seem to find anyone who fits with us. We have gotten close once but in the end they left us high and dry.

So anyone interested in a good looking young couple in North Central PA? Trust me my wife is hot. She works out everyday and takes great care of herself. We have had some experince with a friend of hers but we want more and her friend moved away. So if anyone wants a taste of my wife's sex then PM me!

I think where we go wrong is being a little picky. We are looking for a single bi / lesbian under 40 and is good looking. So if that is you please help us out!

 

[BallinaB]

Been laying low

I'm glad to see everyone is getting along. Count me in for Starbucks, Barnes & Noble. Where?

 

[baremama]

"24BiGirly" just SCREAMS "Hey, I'm a guy pretending to be a girl", esp given your lack of profile info
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Wow...."Buffy" .....thanks for your incredible insight....and welcome to Lit darling! Regardeless of what my Lit name "SCREAMS" to you, the "Vagina" between my legs "SCREAMS" female babe. As far as my lack of a profile goes, I prefer to intrigue people with the info I have given them and hope that it warrants them to inquire further about me. If I tell people everything they need to know about me in a profile, then I feel too much judgemnet can be passed before someone can get to me and I will have no way to express myself other than the few words listed. Soooooo, thats my feeling on profiles and my ever so masculine name. "Nothing personal, really," I have my period and your post rubbed me the wrong way! Anyway....."clitoral stimulation" anyone?
Joni (aka....24bigirly)[/QUOTE]

I'm raggin' here too!!! YUCKKKKK!!!

Baremama

 

[Angel Pia]

Been looking too

I'd love to do the Starbucks thing too. I'm in Pittsburgh, but I can travel anywhere I want to for free on my off days and I'd love to come and meet ppl too. I don't know how to approach a woman anymore and I'm always afraid to say anything because I have a slight tendancy to have crushes on straight women....

 

[Buffytasamoto]

Barnes and Nobles

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Well, Last night would NOT have been a good time to pick. Lol!. We went to the Barnes and Nobles in Baton Rouge, LA and had the greatest of time with the release of the "Harry Potter" book party though.
I'm still pretty tired..we visited, we partied, and we finally got back to the hotel between 3-4:00am. I'm the first awake this morning, lol!
Thank you for your oh so wonderful post, "Baremama", It's so nice to know that you've got your period going for you (Took me a while to figure what the f*ck you were trying to say there..you like quotes a lot, don't ya)
Ok, so when they are NOT having a Harry Potter book release..that's when you wanna go to meet people, lol!


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[baremama]

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Well, Last night would NOT have been a good time to pick. Lol!. We went to the Barnes and Nobles in Baton Rouge, LA and had the greatest of time with the release of the "Harry Potter" book party though.
I'm still pretty tired..we visited, we partied, and we finally got back to the hotel between 3-4:00am. I'm the first awake this morning, lol!
Thank you for your oh so wonderful post, "Baremama", It's so nice to know that you've got your period going for you (Took me a while to figure what the f*ck you were trying to say there..you like quotes a lot, don't ya)
Ok, so when they are NOT having a Harry Potter book release..that's when you wanna go to meet people, lol!


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Those weren't my quotes.

Baremama

 

[BiBlonde80]

Commiserating but...

I've been actively bi for about 4 years. Since then I've had a longterm relationship with a guy and two shorter with women. Unfortunately the women atracted to me were often butch lesbians whose protective intsincts were triggered by my all too girly appearnace. They found themselves very disappointed because I a very independant do-it-myselfer and not too much into the emotional clingyness of a lesbian relationship. I had always thought myself against any kind of poly amory, but with my newest boyfriend we have toyed with the idea of a 3rd. It has been amazing at how receptive "girly girls" in straight bars. Most women have some degree of curiosity if you pose your advances delicately enough, If experience is what you want... I'd stay away from other "curious" usually read bi but only as an untested theory. Trying something that new... hell even with a guy its just more fun when SOMEONE knows what they're doing. DO NOT accept that because you're a girl too you'll know what that theoretical "she" will like.... someone else's vagina is just as much a mystery as asomeone else's penis. If you're cute and girly you can go to a gay bar and get picked up. There are just as many lesbians who just want a good time as there are men looking for a good time. Have fun... get some experience, get COMFORTaBLE with that aspect of your personality and you can just about pick up any girl (single) anywhere.

La