Bicurious Guys PM thread

[Ck4597]

I would be interested too!!

 

[wetsawdust]

He wants to wait until after 9pm, his roomie will be gone by then. I'm like, dude, I am old.....I'm hoping to have a glass of bourbon in my hand and reliving the day by the fire at 9pm. Plus, the kids are here. They're teens, and don't need me for much, but you just know that if I duck out, they'll start wondering where I am. Then you know who gets involved. Mess. So we're trying to find a compromise.
This is getting to be a bit of work, but I'm hoping we can make it pay off for both of us. Worst case, I just sit here enjoying these forums tonight.

 

[Curiousmn]

He wants to wait until after 9pm, his roomie will be gone by then. I'm like, dude, I am old.....I'm hoping to have a glass of bourbon in my hand and reliving the day by the fire at 9pm. Plus, the kids are here. They're teens, and don't need me for much, but you just know that if I duck out, they'll start wondering where I am. Then you know who gets involved. Mess. So we're trying to find a compromise.
This is getting to be a bit of work, but I'm hoping we can make it pay off for both of us. Worst case, I just sit here enjoying these forums tonight.

Did you meet up with that guy?

 

[mizuno1]

I'm always open to chat. Besides some random experiences when younger, I've not acted on the fantasies I've had for many years. The urge just keeps growing ...

 

[Smileyouronnow]

I'm always open to chat. Besides some random experiences when younger, I've not acted on the fantasies I've had for many years. The urge just keeps growing ...

I noticed you joined in 2012. That's a long time to fantasize without any interaction with another guy.
You don't sound uncomfortable with the idea of chatting with someone about this.
I'm guessing you've chatted with someone about this before?

I also had a few random experiences in my younger years. My last experience was about 25 yrs ago. How long ago was your last experience?

M.

 

[One_ping_only]

I noticed you joined in 2012. That's a long time to fantasize without any interaction with another guy.
You don't sound uncomfortable with the idea of chatting with someone about this.
I'm guessing you've chatted with someone about this before?

I also had a few random experiences in my younger years. My last experience was about 25 yrs ago. How long ago was your last experience?

M.

Hmmmm 25 years is a very long time not for nothing!?!? Most of my experiences were before I met my wife 25 plus years ago as well but I have had a couple of liasons the last few years with a couple of men.

The last was a couple of years ago and I'm craving to go at it again more and more TBH.

 

[saintcero]

My last M2M action was about 10 months ago. I find I need to indulge myself again and soon

 

[mizuno1]

I noticed you joined in 2012. That's a long time to fantasize without any interaction with another guy.
You don't sound uncomfortable with the idea of chatting with someone about this.
I'm guessing you've chatted with someone about this before?

I also had a few random experiences in my younger years. My last experience was about 25 yrs ago. How long ago was your last experience?

M.

Yes, I've been lingering here a long time. I guess I'm patient lol

Seriously though, comfort is a big issue. Recently (the last couple of years) I've gotten more comfortable with the idea and have engaged in multiple conversations with others. Some are still ongoing. But you're right - I struggle with taking action on this as once I do, there's no going back. And I have no problem admitting my struggle with it - I frankly find power in it.

My last experience was about the same time ago as yours. In the last couple of years, the urge has returned with a force and I'm closer than ever to acting on it.

 

[One_ping_only]

My last M2M action was about 10 months ago. I find I need to indulge myself again and soon

You and I both. We'd both satisfy one another's cravings ahem ahem if we're close to one another but you and I know we're probably not !?!

 

[saintcero]

You and I both. We'd both satisfy one another's cravings ahem ahem if we're close to one another but you and I know we're probably not !?!

You = east coast
Me = central Texas
It’s not looking good

 

[Smileyouronnow]

Yes, I've been lingering here a long time. I guess I'm patient lol

Seriously though, comfort is a big issue. Recently (the last couple of years) I've gotten more comfortable with the idea and have engaged in multiple conversations with others. Some are still ongoing. But you're right - I struggle with taking action on this as once I do, there's no going back. And I have no problem admitting my struggle with it - I frankly find power in it.

My last experience was about the same time ago as yours. In the last couple of years, the urge has returned with a force and I'm closer than ever to acting on it.

I agree with you about comfort being very important. Ultimately, if I am comfortable with a person then I can relax and open up.

Meeting someone and them wanting to jump right into bed would be a turn me off for me. It would imply that they're doing this a lot with lots of people every chance they get.

Doing that, is so risky on so many levels.

I think comfort can lead to friendship and
friendship can lead to possibly more. Having a special buddy with the same interests, a family and the same limitations might possibly lead to more.

Having a regular trusted buddy can minimize most of the risks in doing anything with someone.
That's the kind of guy I would like to meet, which is why I haven't played in 25 yrs.

Not an easy find. You and I are like unicorns.

 

[Erodicus]

I am fascinated and aroused by the diversity of all intimate body parts of both men and women. The voyeuristic excitement of checking out the endless variety of sizes, shapes, textures, colours, arousal levels of people's sexual assets never fails to make me horny. Does anyone else have this "omnisexual" interest? If so, feel free to PM me.

 

[wetsawdust]

Did you meet up with that guy?

That night fell through. I chickened out. I'll be honest.....i was terrified on many fronts.
Last night I had some social business downtown. He lives on my way home (I walked, even in that dogshit cold temps....just bundle up, no big deal), and he's like "I'll be home by 9:30.". So I finished my evening with friends, started walking home. Got to his house, was all set to keep walking home, but I was just buzzed and horny enough that I walked towards his door. I saw him in the window, I walked up, he let me in. I said I needed to head home in 10 minutes. We instantly started making out, clothes came off, and the next thing you know we were in a hot 69. He's a little bigger, but man, my hands sure enjoyed exploring him. He gave likely the best head I've ever had, and I was able to fully take him in my mouth with no trouble. Neither of us came (likely a little bit of nerves), but the ice is broken. As I left, he said "Good night, daddy", which was pretty fucking hot. He's cute and young, but knew exactly what to do. Which is good, because I was a little drunk and clumsy.
Oh, and he lives a block and a half away. Which is kinda terrifying and exciting. I think we're gonna have a lot of fun together.

Where in MN are you?

 

[Curiousmn]

That night fell through. I chickened out. I'll be honest.....i was terrified on many fronts.
Last night I had some social business downtown. He lives on my way home (I walked, even in that dogshit cold temps....just bundle up, no big deal), and he's like "I'll be home by 9:30.". So I finished my evening with friends, started walking home. Got to his house, was all set to keep walking home, but I was just buzzed and horny enough that I walked towards his door. I saw him in the window, I walked up, he let me in. I said I needed to head home in 10 minutes. We instantly started making out, clothes came off, and the next thing you know we were in a hot 69. He's a little bigger, but man, my hands sure enjoyed exploring him. He gave likely the best head I've ever had, and I was able to fully take him in my mouth with no trouble. Neither of us came (likely a little bit of nerves), but the ice is broken. As I left, he said "Good night, daddy", which was pretty fucking hot. He's cute and young, but knew exactly what to do. Which is good, because I was a little drunk and clumsy.
Oh, and he lives a block and a half away. Which is kinda terrifying and exciting. I think we're gonna have a lot of fun together.

Where in MN are you?

Southwest metro. How about you?

 

[wetsawdust]

Southwest metro. How about you?

SE, between Rochester and La Crosse.

 

[mizuno1]

I am fascinated and aroused by the diversity of all intimate body parts of both men and women. The voyeuristic excitement of checking out the endless variety of sizes, shapes, textures, colours, arousal levels of people's sexual assets never fails to make me horny. Does anyone else have this "omnisexual" interest? If so, feel free to PM me.

Totally get that! Looking at different women has always been a turn on for me. I just want to see all the boobs and ass! Over time, cock has gotten into the picture. Seeing all the different sizes and shapes, like you said, is so hot. And seeing how big and thick some cocks makes me so envious and horny. I'll be honest, I like when I see a 'regular' cock in porn, which frankly looks tiny compared to most. But it makes me feel better about the little guy I'm rockin.

 

[Wageslave]

I don't think I'd want to die wondering

 

[Arngrim]

Less curious and more pretty sure.

 

[AndyJacker]

Looking for mature guys in a similar situation in the Tyler area … ready to try some of the things mentioned here, especially oral and Frottage.

 

[Vitriolhack]

I am fascinated and aroused by the diversity of all intimate body parts of both men and women. The voyeuristic excitement of checking out the endless variety of sizes, shapes, textures, colours, arousal levels of people's sexual assets never fails to make me horny. Does anyone else have this "omnisexual" interest? If so, feel free to PM me.

What others find sexually attractive is a subject of interest for me.

Trying to understand why we are attracted to more than just the other sex for reproduction is very interesting.

 

[Smileyouronnow]

Bicurious 22 male here wanting to chat

Hi there youngbutbroken, are you looking for a fwb ? Is that your goal here?

 

[Vitriolhack]

Evening all, how are we doing?

 

[wetsawdust]

I agree with you about comfort being very important. Ultimately, if I am comfortable with a person then I can relax and open up.

Meeting someone and them wanting to jump right into bed would be a turn me off for me. It would imply that they're doing this a lot with lots of people every chance they get.

Doing that, is so risky on so many levels.

I think comfort can lead to friendship and
friendship can lead to possibly more. Having a special buddy with the same interests, a family and the same limitations might possibly lead to more.

Having a regular trusted buddy can minimize most of the risks in doing anything with someone.
That's the kind of guy I would like to meet, which is why I haven't played in 25 yrs.

Not an easy find. You and I are like unicorns.

I am having tons of guys badger me for instant gratification. I don't play that. I have a family, so I gotta be a little careful. Also, I wanna like the person I'm fooling around with. The idea of entering a dark room, having my way with some faceless guy and then leaving without saying anything doesn't really do it for me. I understand why people like that, and it's fine....but that's not me. I move very slow, and it's a turn off to many. That's why I move slow. Plus, it's kinda hot being chased.
I'm chatting with a gay guy up the street who is around my age. He has made it very clear he doesn't fuck with married guys. Yet, we've been chatting for a week solid, just getting to know each other, sharing ideas. I'm respecting his boundaries, but we can tell there's enough there that would allow us to get along swimmingly. I'm legit angling for us to just be guy pals.

 

[Arngrim]

I am having tons of guys badger me for instant gratification. I don't play that. I have a family, so I gotta be a little careful. Also, I wanna like the person I'm fooling around with. The idea of entering a dark room, having my way with some faceless guy and then leaving without saying anything doesn't really do it for me. I understand why people like that, and it's fine....but that's not me. I move very slow, and it's a turn off to many. That's why I move slow. Plus, it's kinda hot being chased.
I'm chatting with a gay guy up the street who is around my age. He has made it very clear he doesn't fuck with married guys. Yet, we've been chatting for a week solid, just getting to know each other, sharing ideas. I'm respecting his boundaries, but we can tell there's enough there that would allow us to get along swimmingly. I'm legit angling for us to just be guy pals.

I’m with you on the slow burn. I don’t understand the instant gratification type, honestly. Meeting up with someone and just dropping trou would have about the same effect as rubbing one out to one of a billion porn videos. Not saying I need to “date” the person, but at least knowing a little about them, their personality, and their turn offs and turn ons, goes a long way. I’m a pleaser in the end of the day, and that takes many forms with different types of people, which can’t really happen to maximum effect if I’m flying blind.

 

[wetsawdust]

I’m a pleaser in the end of the day, and that takes many forms with different types of people, which can’t really happen to maximum effect if I’m flying blind.

EXACTLY.