bicurious married male

[slarsit]

Wonder about Straight guys...

After reading all these posts for so long about so called straight guys wanting to suck a cock, you really have to wonder just how many of those people are all around us. For most of my life I received the best blow jobs in the world from some fine women and a few guys. It was only a couple of years ago I begin thinking about what it woud be like to be giving the blowjob rather than just getting it. Now, I really want to do it.
From the posts, it seems like us married guys who really want to suck a cock, just get overwhelmed with worry: First, just the idea of looking for someone who wants you to suck their cock is scary as hell. Add to that the fear of STDs that you could pass on to your wife etc. is not a pleasant thought.
I now for sure I have no interest in the guys on the boards who are just looking for the next new mouth. Those guys are dangerous.
At the same time I say this, I am aware of all the guys whose wives will not go down on them, my wife being one of them, and all I can say is somebody, is along with me, is missing a whole bunch of fun.

 

[desertplay68]

Hey everyone, this is my first post but i'm constantly on the sight. love to read about the guys wanting to suck there first cock. I am in the same boat and have been talking and sharing this idea with my wife for a long time. we have actually talked about getting another guy involved with both of us with me sucking his cock or each others and possiably going farther with my wife involved. Any way i'd like to get into a chat about this with any one else curious. Cant wait its like an extreme obseccion.

 

[ted_cinti]

yes......It's a good way to start, getting to know a little about the person. Then when your ready, meeting in public for coffee/beer/lunch with no strings attached, then take it from there.

 

[wyzrd]

I have been with two different guys (one on two different occasions) and they both started online.

Exchange chat and emails getting to know each other. From there it was a public place for the face to face meeting. The first time we meet at a restaurant and hung out for a bit. I had to work up my nerves and down a few drinks. He didn't know it but we were right in front of the hotel I was staying in. I reached the "now or never point" and invited him to my room. I finally had my first taste of cock and knew from that point it was something I wanted to pursue again. We meet up one more time and I took it farther and lost my anal virginity.

The second time I meet someone I was more sure about what I wanted. We meet and were probably there for less than 15 mins and back to his place. Straight to his bed and my straight to his cock. Getting him nice and hard so he could fuck me hard, and that he did.

All three instances were separated by about a year. Being married it isn't the easiest thing to find a person or a place. The main thing I learned was to just be patient and hopefully another chance will come around.

 

[scottmunger]

So would you guys say that most of the passion is out of your marriage?

 

[wyzrd]

So would you guys say that most of the passion is out of your marriage?

I wouldn't say passion. I think it is more the excitement is not there. Besides there are just some things that they can't do without a cock. Sure you can use toys, but like they say, nothing like the real thing.

 

[NightOfPassion2]

Not passion..but

Its not the passion thats out...maybe lust. Sooo if my SO decides that sex is something akin to a duty...and not for pleasure...certainly dony talk/explore/etc. And anything unusual is perverse....while my mind goes wild...

So I remember the time I crossed over..it had been a while since oral was done to me...was mastubating at a park....and then I thought....I wonder what it would be like to....hmmm..

It took a while...and stilll looking for that evasive FWB or the male sort (into cock play)...

B.

 

[stocking1]

it isn't that the passion is out of the marriage, i just wouldn't want to cheat. frankly, my wife loves gay porn, so she would probably give a hearty hell yeah to the idea.