Big girl

i had found the other threads like this one.. was big girls just hiding or something??
i dont care what im refered to cuz im know im cute and one hell of a person to be around those who know me love me and thos who dont wish they did LMAO jk

xoxoxox
 
Re: BBW ladies v. Big Guys

iammebutnotme said:
While the subject's been brought up, I want to throw the 2 cents in for the guys who are bigger'n normal and can't seem to make it w/ the ladies. B/c the only person i know best is myself, i'll use myself as the example (hehe). It's not that i'm not clean, or witty, or charasmatic, or funny, or smart, or sensitive, or caring, or what-not. I'm a nice guy, who also happens to be big. It runs in the family, i don't mind it, i'm happy w/ who i am in all respects, and yet if i'm not this bean-pole prep, i'm not in any way shape or form desirable as a sexual being. I find this lack of reciprocity rather disheartening, as the big girls demand attention even though they're "overweight", "chunky", or just plain "big"., while the big guys are left to fend for themselves.

Comments?

An interesting post. The big guys are not left to fend for themselves. You are just as accepted especially on Lit as you should be in RL..It is good that you are comfy with yourself because that you have to be to get anywhere in life! :) If you look on the Amateur pics board there is a thread entitled Big Handsome Men Experiment. Alot of the bigger guys have posted there. It is a good place to introduce yourself. There are women like me that like a man that has meat on his bones..I hope this makes sense..my brain is not functioning good yet this morning.>LOL
 
Re: BBW ladies v. Big Guys

iammebutnotme said:
While the subject's been brought up, I want to throw the 2 cents in for the guys who are bigger'n normal and can't seem to make it w/ the ladies. B/c the only person i know best is myself, i'll use myself as the example (hehe). It's not that i'm not clean, or witty, or charasmatic, or funny, or smart, or sensitive, or caring, or what-not. I'm a nice guy, who also happens to be big. It runs in the family, i don't mind it, i'm happy w/ who i am in all respects, and yet if i'm not this bean-pole prep, i'm not in any way shape or form desirable as a sexual being. I find this lack of reciprocity rather disheartening, as the big girls demand attention even though they're "overweight", "chunky", or just plain "big"., while the big guys are left to fend for themselves.

Comments?



I can assure you..there are women who LOVE the bigger guys (such as myself);) I would consider my own body to be Reubenesque..I wear a size 13 and am really busty. I just think everyones' idea of a BBW differs so much I don't use the term at all.
 
hate the term bbw why should size have to be involved when to me they are just beautiful women ..I used to be a jerk when i was young never would of dated a big girl but when I was 18 I fell for someone who was plump and ever since then if she does not have some meat on those bones I won't pay her any attention ..they can keep there stick figured women I prefer to be with real women..:rose:
 
knightstalker said:
hate the term bbw why should size have to be involved when to me they are just beautiful women ..I used to be a jerk when i was young never would of dated a big girl but when I was 18 I fell for someone who was plump and ever since then if she does not have some meat on those bones I won't pay her any attention ..they can keep there stick figured women I prefer to be with real women..:rose:




I like you. :D
 
Re: BBW ladies v. Big Guys

iammebutnotme said:
While the subject's been brought up, I want to throw the 2 cents in for the guys who are bigger'n normal and can't seem to make it w/ the ladies. B/c the only person i know best is myself, i'll use myself as the example (hehe). It's not that i'm not clean, or witty, or charasmatic, or funny, or smart, or sensitive, or caring, or what-not. I'm a nice guy, who also happens to be big. It runs in the family, i don't mind it, i'm happy w/ who i am in all respects, and yet if i'm not this bean-pole prep, i'm not in any way shape or form desirable as a sexual being. I find this lack of reciprocity rather disheartening, as the big girls demand attention even though they're "overweight", "chunky", or just plain "big"., while the big guys are left to fend for themselves.

Comments?

Hey there, Iamme...

I have heard things like this said before on the boards, and at one point I actually took a little action about it. If you look at my sig line, there's a link to a thread called "the big handsome man experiment." If you read the first post in there, it goes into detail as to what I was talking about.

BTW, I haven't ever really gone for the beanpole type, and I know lots of women who don't either. Take care...
 
Those Big girls who demand attention have a healthy self esteem levels. Believe there are plenty of women who are beautiful and dont see themselves as such
 
Hey I live in near Seattle in the summer, and in Savannah for the rest of the year, and I have nothing against BBW girls. I think they are just as beautiful, and I'm alittle overweight myself. But I don't think there is anything wrong with it at all.
 
gingerann said:
Believe there are plenty of women who are beautiful and dont see themselves as such


That is so true..and we don't see ourselves as such until someone comes along and makes you feel like you are beautiful and then you start working on your self esteem and you start feeling just as beautiful as they tell you you are! :)
 
WildOne is beautiful

WildOne is beautiful,
Along with all of the other woman who post here, and on the other BBW threads.

Elizabeth, where have you been hiding? :confused: I could of hoped to of found your post in BBW_Pics, or BBW Lovers threads some time ago, your post count shows you have been here for a while. Will, thnank you for joining in.

Wellcome to all of the new people, and fairly new. :)

Remember all, your body reflects your inner beauty. If you feel good about yourself you could make a set of rags look good, while if you fell shitty then even a $5,000 desinger evening gown will look ugly on you. And it shows in your posture, the way you carry yourself, your smile, and so much more. I am attracted to a beautiful, sincere smile, not the clothes.

a dozen :rose:s to each and every woman here.

Mike_F
 
Re: WildOne is beautiful

Mike_F said:
WildOne is beautiful,
Along with all of the other woman who post here, and on the other BBW threads.

Elizabeth, where have you been hiding? :confused: I could of hoped to of found your post in BBW_Pics, or BBW Lovers threads some time ago, your post count shows you have been here for a while. Will, thnank you for joining in.

Wellcome to all of the new people, and fairly new. :)

Remember all, your body reflects your inner beauty. If you feel good about yourself you could make a set of rags look good, while if you fell shitty then even a $5,000 desinger evening gown will look ugly on you. And it shows in your posture, the way you carry yourself, your smile, and so much more. I am attracted to a beautiful, sincere smile, not the clothes.

a dozen :rose:s to each and every woman here.

Mike_F



Well..I hadn't been coming around much in the last few months. But thanks for the very warm welcome. :)


Oh..here's a pic.
 
Re: Re: WildOne is beautiful

Elizabeth said:

Well..I hadn't been coming around much in the last few months. But thanks for the very warm welcome. :)

Oh..here's a pic.

Elizabeth, you are beautiful, and very sexy. Don't let anyone tell you any different!
 
Elizabeth and beauty

Elizabeth,
I don't get here verey often now days, yet when I do, I am glad to be greated with a warm welcome such as yours, and welcome back.

I have to agree with Piper,
Elizabeth, you are beautiful, and very sexy. Don't let anyone tell you any different!

And that smile just captures my attention.

Nice seeing you again Piper

Mike
 
knightstalker said:
hate the term bbw why should size have to be involved when to me they are just beautiful women ..I used to be a jerk when i was young never would of dated a big girl but when I was 18 I fell for someone who was plump and ever since then if she does not have some meat on those bones I won't pay her any attention ..they can keep there stick figured women I prefer to be with real women..:rose:

Well said Stalker of Knights, I feel the exact same way. :D

Wintermute
 
Re: Re: Re: WildOne is beautiful

pipercatt said:


Elizabeth, you are beautiful, and very sexy. Don't let anyone tell you any different!

Listen to Piper. Pipercatt is good. Pipercatt is wise. :p

Pipercatt is hot as hell and I'd bang her in a Chicago minute.

;) :D

:kiss: :heart: :rose:

Wintermute
 
What I have to say about "big girls" is...

...that we're incredibly beautiful. Our grace cannot be hidden.
 
Re: Those who choose to see it...

porphry said:
...will recognize our inner light shining forth.

Beautiful words. Beautiful pictures. A beautiful woman. This is Porphry...

:rose: :heart: :kiss:

Wintermute
 
Porphry - thanks for the beauty

Porphry,
Thanks for sharing the inner and outter beauty that is you. :rose:s, :kiss:s, and hugs to you.

Hope to chat with you some time soon.

Mike_F
 
Fantastic Elizabeth!!

Elizabeth said:




Well..I hadn't been coming around much in the last few months. But thanks for the very warm welcome. :)


Oh..here's a pic.

Great pic!!:D :rose:
 
Re: YAY! Another BBW thread!

porphry said:
BBW's have got it going... [ahem] on!
hey porphry...don't look now, but I'm sneaking up behind you!!!:D :p :rose: :kiss:
 
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