Birthday Celebration Help

[BostonGirl]

My husband's birthday is coming up and I want to do something amazing to him. He is incredibly romantic and has set the bar pretty high. I want to repay him for all the really romantic/sweet/sexy things he has done for me over the years. The only idea I have come up with is to get a hotel room near his work and surprise him with a request for a nooner. Although I think that would be really fun, I'm wondering if anyone has a better idea? Something sexy would be great but so would something romantic - or maybe a combination of the two. His birthday is on a Wednesday and he can't miss work so that limits me a little. Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated.
Thanks!

 

[Cathleen]

I was just about to say tons of things you could do in Boston then noticed you're in Chicago now.

Is your husband from Boston? You could try a 'Boston theme' weekend. 'Move' his birthday to the weekend for the celebration if you can. There are tons of websites that have ideas for lovers - google.

One idea I saw here (I think), is write little notes about what you'd like to do 'to' him or for him and then put them into balloons... throughout the evening he can pop them. If you set the scene in your bedroom with candles etc and wear something sensual it could be pretty and romantic.

What are his likes? Favorite meals, books, movies, etc.

 

[SweetErika]

Does he have any fantasies or preferences you haven't explored a whole lot (or perhaps he may want to explore more)? If so, you could stick with the hotel room idea, but for the evening, and play that out. Or, you could do the nooner AND the evening; tell him to come back or meet you in the bar or something at a certain time after work. Consider dressing and acting a certain part, maybe hitting on and picking him up in the bar, or acting out/adapting a Lit story.

Since you have a little time, you could nonchalantly initiate a conversation about fantasies, or each write a few down and exchange them, saving one or more of his for his birthday. Variations could be asking him to pick out some stories or lingerie of interest, look at porn or AmPics threads together and see what gets him fired up, etc.

If roleplaying/fantasies aren't his thing, how about pampering, waiting on him, new toys, doing new or rare acts, learning some new techniques, etc.?

I realize these are sexy ideas, but I think anything you do that shows time, effort, and thoughtfulness is also romantic because you're showing him how much you listen, think of, and value him. Perhaps you can also add in some romance by doing things like leaving little love notes or thoughts for him to discover the week before and day, stretching out the celebration. And/or write him one or more love letters, or get him something meaningful to keep. Little things like packing him a special lunch with all of his favorite things and notes that week might be really romantic to him. Coupons for continuing sexy, romantic, and fun activities (e.g. one year I gave my hubby a day of doing everything he liked, including hockey tickets, even though it's not my thing) might be nice.

 

[stageleft]

advice

i have to agree with sweet erikas comments...i love my g/f dearly & its so difficult to confess deep fantasies & desires for fear of causing upset & offence.my g/f offered to treat me in a simalar way & convinced me to relay my most intimate wishes.im so glad i did as my g/f was far from offended & i had the most memorable,exhilerating sex on earth which she also enjoyed immensly.our love-life has also benefited greatly since.

 

[BostonGirl]

Thanks!
Great ideas! Keep 'em coming!
I did go ahead and get a hotel room near his work - whether I do the nooner there or meet him there after work or have balloons waiting or coupons for his favorite things I'm not sure yet. These are all good ideas and I think I'll have to do all of them for him at some point but I'm not sure which one to do for his birthday yet. Thanks for the good suggestions!