Blackmail not D/s

[KinkyCollegeGirl]

I am not into the typical D/s relationship. I want to be coerced. I have thought about providing blackmail to become a slave. I want to experience humiliation and degradation by or in front of a group.

 

[John435]

I am not into the typical D/s relationship. I want to be coerced. I have thought about providing blackmail to become a slave. I want to experience humiliation and degradation by or in front of a group.

Have you tried it before?

 

[KinkyCollegeGirl]

no. i would have to find just the right person. someone very kinky who could arrange a group of guys/gals who would want to have a agirl that HAD to do whatever they demanded. i want it extreme but not harmful.

 

[desire30]

no. i would have to find just the right person. someone very kinky who could arrange a group of guys/gals who would want to have a agirl that HAD to do whatever they demanded. i want it extreme but not harmful.

I would love and couple to blackmail me over something do the same to me

 

[TomListens]

My D has VERY compromising pictures and videos of me. She uses them to remind me that I am fucked. Two days ago she sent an envelope to my office with a picture of me shaved and in lingerie. She knows that my secretary opens my mail. She laughed when I freaked out and said that was just the tip of the iceberg.

 

[Luci_nerdy_kink]

I’m into some crazy stuff… this is stuff I study for my “job” so I don’t usually do it for recreational purposes but…

I am a sucker for a damsel in distress you know

 

[Primalex]

Never worked out for me. The problem with blackmailing as a kink, in my humble opinion, is that it incorporates the loss of trust. You can red-light out of a CNC-rape, but you can't red-light out of your feelings towards a person. It's also an inverse trust process - the better I play the blackmail dynamic, the more your perceived trust in me has to drop, while I have to trust you more not to take it out of context or escalate it into a real legal problem.

In the end it's just another:"I don't want to be responsible"-trope. Virgins are kinda weird. "Please blackmail and rape me, that's so much better than having to admit to my sexual partner that I'm inexperienced and need guidance."

 

[Luci_nerdy_kink]

Never worked out for me. The problem with blackmailing as a kink, in my humble opinion, is that it incorporates the loss of trust. You can red-light out of a CNC-rape, but you can't red-light out of your feelings towards a person. It's also an inverse trust process - the better I play the blackmail dynamic, the more your perceived trust in me has to drop, while I have to trust you more not to take it out of context or escalate it into a real legal problem.

In the end it's just another:"I don't want to be responsible"-trope. Virgins are kinda weird. "Please blackmail and rape me, that's so much better than having to admit to my sexual partner that I'm inexperienced and need guidance."

I am of the belief that most people don’t know exactly what they want and sometimes they just kind of go to the extreme with their descriptions…

That way, they can just set a boundary somewhere within that extreme later.

So I’m seeing it pretty much the same way you are…

I would only be involved with this… if I understood the legal system very well and knew how to prevent it from going into an actual felony.

Which I do know how to do but… that is very dangerous behavior for inexperienced, people or people who are just looking for a fun time…

For people like me, this is a calling… not a hobby…

I’m not trying to speak on what this is to any of you… I just wanna make sure people are safe.

Most people just seem to want to be forced to let loose a little… because they get excited… from either stress or whimsical delight lol.

 

[cascadiabound]

My D has VERY compromising pictures and videos of me. She uses them to remind me that I am fucked. Two days ago she sent an envelope to my office with a picture of me shaved and in lingerie. She knows that my secretary opens my mail. She laughed when I freaked out and said that was just the tip of the iceberg.

Involving your secretary in your humiliation exposes her to a sexually charged situation in the workplace. This violates BDSM principles of consent and crosses a line in a work place situation that will become an HR problem.
Hard line nope.

 

[DirtyDaddy7In]

I am not into the typical D/s relationship. I want to be coerced. I have thought about providing blackmail to become a slave. I want to experience humiliation and degradation by or in front of a group.

I think I know just the right guy for you

 

[KinkyCollegeGirl]

such a great human being you are to offer that to me!!!~

 

[MissMandy86]

I am not into the typical D/s relationship. I want to be coerced. I have thought about providing blackmail to become a slave. I want to experience humiliation and degradation by or in front of a group.

Me to

 

[Littletoo]

You should turn on your DM's

 

[lil_jenni]

I've fantasized about blackmail CNC, but never roleplayed it. When we play, I prefer being physically forced, or at least it being a component. But as for fantasy scenarios, yeah, being blackmailed can be good jilling fodder.

 

[justyouraveragedaniel]

In a fantasy scenario, I love the idea. In real life, absolutely not.

 

[FrustratedDesires]

I am not into the typical D/s relationship. I want to be coerced. I have thought about providing blackmail to become a slave. I want to experience humiliation and degradation by or in front of a group.

I know exactly what you mean. i think all the time about someone hacking my computer and seeing the perverted things that arouse me. I could be owned!

 

[bamaguy64]

If the trust is there and clear boundaries are set up front, it can be fun. I'm more than a bit concerned about bringing it into the workplace or in front of family or non-lfestyle friends. Even if it’s agreed upon beforehand, something like that in today's workplace would destroy careers.

That said, in the controlled environment of a scene, playful blackmail leading to CNC would be fun. Certainly for an online roleplay.

 

[FrustratedDesires]

IF I ever would be able to meet someone from here fore real, I assure you the biggest reason why I would take a chance with someone online is because I would never pursue this with anyone in my real world. My rdeputation is very important to me. Having said that, what I most hope for for real would be very risky. I need to find a skilled organizer!

I realize finding someone for real play is a longshot so online role play is more likely, and things could even be more extreme in fantasy. But I hope real will come eventually.