breast sizes... does it even matter?

[frisky]

Thumbs down on implants here. The only type of cosmetic surgery of the breast I really understand a need for is reduction (usually because they are causing too much pain in the back). The 'perfect' body would be so boring. It's those little flaws that make everyone so unique.

To be honest, if I met someone who had implants I would be very careful and try to find out why they did it. I would definately support it if they had perhaps gotten past breast cancer and were simply fixing the damage, but if they did it to attract more people then I would be outta there quite fast.

I know I've been somewhat negative, but it comes down to this: Do what you want to do. If you are 100% in your belief it will make you happy, then go for it.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

I have always had a sincere passion for tiny breasts! Love them, Love them, Love them, Love them, Love them, Love them, Love them, Love them!

Big breasts, I just don't get it. And for me, ultimately, it's not about the mountains I climb, it's about the chasms I explore.

But still, small breasts, tiny breasts, even completely flat-chested... Love them, Love them, Love them, Love them, Love them, Love them, Love them, Love them!

 

[Halo_n_horns]

PS

Out of all of the literally thousands of sets of breasts that I have seen, I have only seen two sets of implants that I liked. Otherwise, I really wish women wouldn't do that to themselves.

 

[Bandit58]

OK, you asked, so here is my two cents. Ultimately, you will be the one that has to decide, but I'm going to join the chorus here in saying, "no" to the implants.

I am also small-breasted - a small B on a good day. I have nursed two children (and made PLENTY of milk with my little boobies, by the way) and mine did not get bigger, although I understand they do for some women. But they also are not sagging and I am mid-30's and a lot of my friends do sag at this age. I can go braless and it's no problem, it's even kinda' cute. I have a sister-in-law who is huge and would love to be flat-chested, even though her husband married her for her ta-tas, I believe- another story. Anyway, I always thought I would like large, lovely cleavage, but to be honest, there are so many girls running around with big fake ones now, it's kinda' nice to be different and real. My husband is like your BF, thinks what I've got is fine and that going under the knife is such a major thing, it should be reserved for those situations when it is necessary. He has told me that most guys just want to look at, touch, suck (insert verb of choice, here) boobs, they are not concerned with size, they just wanna' get their hands on 'em.

Bottom line, learn to love what you've got. I really do understand, some days I would love to have a large chest for guys to ogle, for those days there's wonderbra, but most of the time, I am perfectly content with my average-sized perky boobs.

Yup.....I'm a small B cup on a good day too, but also nursed two children for a year or so each while my more well endowed sisters-in-law suffered with breast abscesses and mastitis so bad they gave up after less than 6 months. I'm 46 years old and hardly ever wear a bra. My nipples are more prominent now, though I think it's because Gil likes to play with them every chance he gets!

He's been with women who have had implants, and is not impressed - he doesn't like the way they "stand up" on the lady's chest like two baseballs when she lies down. They don't feel right either, the "give" isn't the same he says. I used to wish I had more up top, but now I'm very happy with my small boobies (and they are connected to my clit, or so it seems sometimes!)

 

[phoenix6666]

It seems it's safe to say that the general concensus here is a resounding no. Here's my peso worth of opinion. But before I start, I should let you know that I'm a single male in his early 20s who has never been up to bat, so to speak. Never even dated a girl let alone all the other stuff. So what I know about sex, women and such comes from educational places, friends and porn. So bear that in mind when you read the rest of my reply.

I like big breasts. Nothing enormous like G or H or anything like that but D and DD, I do like. When I go looking for porn, I do tend to look for girls with fairly large breasts for their body frame. For reasons that someone else said they didn't like it, (looking fake, sticking out like balls) I do. Call me a pig or what you will, but I do. I don't know why, perhaps it's my age or lack of experience or whatever.

But ironically enough, the few girls that I really really like back in school, the girls that made me want to get to know them better and not just have sex with, all had small/no breasts. And when I imagine if I with a girl who wanted bigger breasts, my response is always "no but I would support whatever she decides." My reasoning is that it's too risky to mess with the body like that. If the risk was taken away, I personally would still oppose it because the girl I didn't fall in love with the girl just to get her boob job. I fell in love with her as she was.

It sounds like the guy you're with is loves you for a deeper reason than just physical beauty, which I'm sure you have too. And I don't think you have much about not being feminine. There a lot of women who are feminine with small breasts.

So after all this gobbledy gook, I'm going with the crowd and saying don't get implants. Besides, they'll probably make you stupider and the last thing this world needs is more stupid people. Present company excluded, of course.

 

[h_i_s]

Err ... only matters for me when i am shopping for a bra that will fit well.

i'm quite petite at 5'2", 98 pounds 32AA/23/34 (for those who may not realize, a cup size of 'AA' doesn't mean the cup size is double ... it means it is half a cup) ... 37 years old.

The question as posed here can best be answered by applying the "Baskin Robbins Theory". SOOOO many flavors to choose from ... some will not like them all ... some may like a few different flavors. SOME don't like ice cream at ALL!

Nothing wrong with small breasts .... some like them that way.

¸,ø¤º°sinn0cent°º¤ø,¸ proudly owned by, and devoted to INSIDEYOURMIND

 

[pink swirl]

Women are far more insecure about what their breasts look like than they need to be. Men like breasts, period. Size and shape are unique to each woman; men like them all, especially when they're allowed to touch them and suck them. Their appearance is far less important than the woman they belong to.

Far, far, far more important than what men think of your breasts, is what those breasts are capable of doing for the woman. Breasts are an incredible erogenous zone. The softness of the skin, the sensitivity of the nipples, the feeling of being caressed and squeezed and licked...those are the things that matter. Surgery will impact their sensitivity and for that reason alone should be avoided. Why would you want to do something that will make you feel less when your man is loving your breasts???

Finally, the dangers of surgery are too great to undertake. Breasts implants make it much harder for doctors to read mammograms. The implants show up white on the films; they can't tell if there's a tumor behind them. It's like getting an x-ray at the dentist while wearing one of those plastic mouth guards boxers wear. Useless. Don't endanger your health when your breasts are perfectly fine the way they are.

 

[bowtie4u]

Err ... only matters for me when i am shopping for a bra that will fit well.

i'm quite petite at 5'2", 98 pounds 32AA/23/34 (for those who may not realize, a cup size of 'AA' doesn't mean the cup size is double ... it means it is half a cup) ... 37 years old.

The question as posed here can best be answered by applying the "Baskin Robbins Theory". SOOOO many flavors to choose from ... some will not like them all ... some may like a few different flavors. SOME don't like ice cream at ALL!

Nothing wrong with small breasts .... some like them that way.

¸,ø¤º°sinn0cent°º¤ø,¸ proudly owned by, and devoted to INSIDEYOURMIND

I can feel for you (pardon the pun)

When I met my wife she was an A cup and she is age 44 and has growen to be a full B cup

We need some more pics of Itty Pitty Tittys

 

[bowtie4u]

I can feel for you (pardon the pun)

When I met my wife she was an A cup and she is age 44 and has growen to be a full B cup

We need some more pics of Itty Pitty Tittys

Sorry should be Itty Bitty Tittys, you get the drift !!

 

[Wolf of Mibu 69]

I would never want my woman to get fake breasts (she has absolutely no need for them though, but my opinion would be the same even if she did). Usually a C cup's enough for me, and I even used to not have a thing for huge breasts, but a certain someone has changed that. Heh.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

Recently our new neighbor mentioned that she's been looking into getting breast augemntation. She's a beautiful young woman with one child and married. She has a petite but long frame and a very natural beauty that she knows how to accent wonderfully without using a metric-ton of make-up. She also has a pair of wonderfully petite breasts and a supple bottom that both lend perfectly to giving her a balanced and well-shaped physique. Nothing on her is too big or too small.

When she brought up to us, with her hubby present, that she was considering getting her breasts done I was mortified, but I didn't let it show.

The two of them are "jack-mormons" and we had sensed that about them as soon as we met them. They wreaked of it and we immediately started letting them know just what kind of a couple we are. We've been working on them steadily to bring them out of their obviously ill-fated religious shells and have been finding that there's a sexually fun-loving couple in them that's just dying to get out, as is typical with every so-called "religious" couple that we've ever encountered.

Anyway, I immediately let her know just how ill my feelings towards breast implants are. Then I segwayed into telling her that since I'm an artist of erotica that if I were to do a nude portrait of her before the augmentation, and then after the augmentation, both of equal quality and realism, she would decide almost immediately that she would want to keep the beautiful breasts she already has.

Fortunately, now she's thinking about letting me do just such a portrait, which means that I'll get to see her naked beauty and compare it to how well I've already imagined her to look, AND, she's no longer seriously considering having the implants done.

It was truly a win/win conversation.

Tonight we're having them over for dinner. I'm looking forward to continuing the conversation about her posing for me.

 

[Undomiel]

I'm a 34b and a small one at that. It used to bother me growing up cause all my friends had bigger breasts than me. And our school uniform was baggy so it looked like I had nothing. Now I quite like them. And so does my boyfriend. Hehe. I wouldn't go for implants if you payed me.

 

[badmatt]

i'm small. 34a if i'm lucky. but i'm a fairly small girl in general; 120lbs, 5'5... small.
but i knew i would never have breast because i am my mothers child, so i had always planned on getting implants. now that i'm with my love (for good *fingers crossed*) this idea doesnt appeal to him. he thinks only vain people would do cosmetic stuff to their bodies. he finds it dumb and i think even slightly repulsive. i still would like to get them done. nothing big, just a large b possibly.
here is my question... are fakes that much differnt from the real thing? feeling wise, looks wise? are there any guys out there that just hate them and are turned off by them? i dont want that to happen here if i get them, but i know he's never had any personal experience with them to go by so it would be a new thing for the both of us. i would just hate to give up my life long hope of having a more femanin figure because of what he thinks about it just being out of vainity. advice?

okay, yes, they do feel and look a bit different, but every new pair of fakes I see looks and feels better than the last. Do they turn me off, HELL NO...I love women, size of tits really doesn't matter....well, except when you're trying to tittyfuck...other than that, it doesn't matter to me....now if he thinks only vain people do it, and you're not vain, doesn't that make him wrong?

 

[bowtie4u]

I'm a 34b and a small one at that. It used to bother me growing up cause all my friends had bigger breasts than me. And our school uniform was baggy so it looked like I had nothing. Now I quite like them. And so does my boyfriend. Hehe. I wouldn't go for implants if you payed me.

Good girl be happy with what ever size you have, O natural is the way to go!!

It is not the size of the boob but the nipple that counts

 

[toto11]

There are many men out here that prefer small breasted women. I have been with one woman that had implants and was not impressed. They were not natural looking at all.

If you are going to have the procedure done, do it for you not someone else.

 

[phoenix1224]

I can't stand fake tits!

I would personally prefer them to be small and real than big and fake for several reasons.

1. Implants don't LOOK right.
2. Implants don't FEEL right.
3. I'd never really cared all that much for the taste of plastic...

I say, if your boyfriend is opposed, think long and hard before you do it.

If you're doing it because you think your boyfriend will be more attracted to you- He's already told you his thoughts.

If you're doing it for YOU- Is your boyfriend sooo opposed to them that he might break up with you? And is that something that you're willing to risk? (I know that I personally would NEVER date a woman with implants- I'm just THAT opposed to them).

He might be opposed to you getting them for the reasons he gave you, OR he might be worried about the attention you might get from having them, OR he may be worried that you're going to wind up getting all wild and exposing yourself in public and, perhaps, even start sleeping around (I've had several female friends who did JUST THAT after getting implants... so it MAY be something that he's worried about).

I suggest talking to your boyfriend further before making your decision... But in the end, it IS your body.

 

[fieryjen]

I also say, only get them if you want them for yourself, not for a guy. I'm convinced that confidence is much sexier than a fake chest!

 

[PolishLover]

I personally love small breasts. They tend to be more sensitive to attention.

But that is just me, I know some men prefer large breasts.



-PL

 

[groverty]

Nothing is better than the real thing by the way, what ever size they might be.

I second this thought...unless you plan on becoming a stripper, I would stay how you are!

 

[Lowered]

I've dated many women with and without implants and I've got to say that I prefer a natural woman. Fakes are well... fake. You can See the difference and you can definitely feel the difference. They'll look good in clothes but other than that, they look fake and in the worst cases bad. Stop worrying about it because no matter how you are built, there are guys out there that will love you for your shape. It sounds like you already found someone who appreciates you. Don't do it.

Good luck with your decision!

http://loweryourexpectations.blogspot.com/

i'm small. 34a if i'm lucky. but i'm a fairly small girl in general; 120lbs, 5'5... small.
but i knew i would never have breast because i am my mothers child, so i had always planned on getting implants. now that i'm with my love (for good *fingers crossed*) this idea doesnt appeal to him. he thinks only vain people would do cosmetic stuff to their bodies. he finds it dumb and i think even slightly repulsive. i still would like to get them done. nothing big, just a large b possibly.
here is my question... are fakes that much differnt from the real thing? feeling wise, looks wise? are there any guys out there that just hate them and are turned off by them? i dont want that to happen here if i get them, but i know he's never had any personal experience with them to go by so it would be a new thing for the both of us. i would just hate to give up my life long hope of having a more femanin figure because of what he thinks about it just being out of vainity. advice?

 

[boston_bbw]

It matters if your the one stuck lugging them around and with the aching back...lol. I am too big now and would be afraid of what would happen if I ever had kids although I do want them.

 

[Needssome]

Up until 2 weeks ago today, I was on the complete other end of the spectrum. I wasn't even 5 foot 2 and I was lugging around DDDs (I'm an average weight). All of that changed however when I went in for a breast reduction/lift. I'm only in my mid-20s but I was a B by the time I was in 4th grade and already sagging somewhat by the time I hit high school.

Right now I don't know what size I'm going to be - I have to wait for all the swelling and bruising to go away and that's going to be another month and a half as it is. I agonized over the decision about whether I should do it or not, knowing that I may lose sensitivity (right now I'm still completely numb in certain areas and it may take up to a year for normal sensation to return - if it comes back at all) but having too many occasions ruined because I couldn't be on my feet for more than a couple of hours (I was always in major pain after shopping trips, or dances, etc.) kind of helped that decision out. Of course not being able to wear anything that buttoned up without it looking like a tent so that the buttons didn't pop and no strapless or spaghetti strapped dresses or tops (they don't make strapless bras in that size) also didn't help. Just trying to find a bra period was a major treasure finding expedition - finding one that fit well and didn't look like something my grandmother would wear was next to impossible.

I would have given anything to be smaller without needing surgery. I will now forever have the scars to remind me of my past. In some ways I'm excited - for once they stand up on their own (I don't really remember that ever happening before) but at the same time I feel a loss for the person I was. I'm hoping that my first Pilates workout that doesn't involve getting a nose-full of cleavage will make it all worthwhile!

 

[Guest]

I'm deathly afraid of any surgery. If you've got the guts, and REALLY want this, then I say go for it. You only live once Live it to the fullest!

 

[Hotpepperatl]

fakes suck

i'm small. 34a if i'm lucky. but i'm a fairly small girl in general; 120lbs, 5'5... small.
but i knew i would never have breast because i am my mothers child, so i had always planned on getting implants. now that i'm with my love (for good *fingers crossed*) this idea doesnt appeal to him. he thinks only vain people would do cosmetic stuff to their bodies. he finds it dumb and i think even slightly repulsive. i still would like to get them done. nothing big, just a large b possibly.
here is my question... are fakes that much differnt from the real thing? feeling wise, looks wise? are there any guys out there that just hate them and are turned off by them? i dont want that to happen here if i get them, but i know he's never had any personal experience with them to go by so it would be a new thing for the both of us. i would just hate to give up my life long hope of having a more femanin figure because of what he thinks about it just being out of vainity. advice?

It's obvious they are fake, and they are hard and get harder by the month. Real is where it's at, and your man will appreciare you for it or he is no real man.

 

[steak100]

smaller is better

married guy here, my wife is a 34a and i love em. would not have her change them. just wanted you to know and this lurker broke his silence to let you know that some guys just love those smaller breasts.