Can the men you are having sex with "find the clitoris"?

[DynamicFigure]

Really? What do some guys require a roadmap? Maybe an app. Maybe they should’ve paid attention in high school health class. Let your fingers and tongues do the walking as the old yellow pages commercial used to say. It’s not that hard to find.

 

[cheetah2]

http://nakedoldladies.com/nudelady/naughty-naked-mature-clit-pics.html

maybe this will help

 

[xXxplorher]

I'm gonna be serious here... seriously...

I am invested. I have ALWAYS been especially invested in the idea of pleasing a woman. Since as far back as I can remember my fantasies (or daydreams) have always been about her pleasure, as opposed to my own. I can't be pleased unless I'm pleasing her. It needs to become reciprical, of course, but it almost always starts with her.

However, that brought me no closer at all to understanding a clitoris from afar.

And given access, I still performed cluelessly. Early and often. Almost exclusively.

A man just can't know how to approach that by default. He's gonna make assumptions that are mostly untrue. Based on his own inherent instincts and... purposeful progression. He doesn't know to 'lay off' a little, or 'not quite now'. We wanna hit the bullseye button and kill on command... "Now? How about now? NOW?!"

Nope.

Best advice I ever got was... "Forget about whatever you want out of me and just lick it like a cat would a bowl of milk". That helped. I never would have thought to do that on my own. While in hindsight it feels impossibly ignorant that I would never have considered that... what an idiot. Like. DUH!

Which is really the most important point to make here: Don't be afraid to ASSIST him in some way.

Yes, that can be complicated. Men have egos to obey (or they used to anyway). You might need to be clever in how you HELP him help YOU (some certain movies are smart in the way they use secondary relationships to illustrate the subtext for our central characters, eh? Copy that? Try using THAT sorta shit on a clitoris and you're gonna be golden. But i digress.) Just know... you are helping him help himself. Consider... did you always know how a cock might most enjoy being sucked? And if so, are you certain that you're right about that? How can you be?

A clitoris is completely foreign to a man. Until he's been indicate an avenue to approach it with correctly and the light bulb will suddenly go 'bing, bing, bing, ding!' From that point forward it's an endlessly enriching education to absorb.

And evey damn girl is different. Each and every one of them. Fantastically free from one another.

Only awaiting to be... uncovered ; )

 

[hulmule]

Nothing better than eating pussy. my hands between her thighs. fingers pulling her belly back, opening the lips up, then a couple of fingers start rubbing and , pulling the hood back to expose it . Blow on it, flick it with my tongue , suck it lightly, mouth her whole pussy. Boy i miss that

 

[DayDreaming2407]

The men I've been with could not. And then when I directed them to it and said "right there," "that feels good," or "just like that". Then they'd still move or do something else.

I need to pick better men.

 

[desibabe2705]

I've never been with a guy who hasn't found it. Yea, some aren't very skilled as to what to do with it, but all of them have found it. But then again, not all women know how to blow well either.

 

[Dishrag]

Nothing better than eating pussy. my hands between her thighs. fingers pulling her belly back, opening the lips up, then a couple of fingers start rubbing and , pulling the hood back to expose it . Blow on it, flick it with my tongue , suck it lightly, mouth her whole pussy. Boy i miss that

Why do you say miss darling?

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

My late husband was the first to find it on me..
After I'd been with many sexual partners before him..

Ironically, he was a virgin when we met, yet, was the only person that has ever given me an orgasm...

I've had some guys go down on me, or attempt to pleasure my pussy... But either it was me not into it, or them just being bad at it...

 

[erinsplaytime]

Most guys need a little direction, but I guide them and keep them on task it is quite enjoyable.

 

[J64stephenson]

It’s not like you need a map. You just got to get up in there and start pushing buttons. Hold her legs up and put the flat part of your tongue at the bottom of the pussy and lick all the way to the top nice and slow over and over and If you hear your lady go oh shit that feels good keep doing that. And if she’s not soaking wet and vibrating around the bed you're not doing it right.

 

[Xxllrs69xx]

I can’t believe it’s still an issue for men…

Perhaps try having a look during a session with the lights on or even during the day.