Colorado Directory

[cricketbug]

hi and Welcome Ty

I know there are quite a few of us who are in college (myself included) or have family obligations around this time of year. it's hard for me to get away to the computer unless i'm typing something for a class

give it a few weeks to a month...we'll "pop" again!

 

[TyFz]

Ah the joy's of school, can't argue with that... I love and hate the holidays people seem to become nice for two months... but everyone gets really busy running around and trying to get things done... every now and then you need to stop and smell the flowers / Pine trees! Well Hi all.. enjoying the great weather were having right now.. cause it's going to get colder ..<weeeeee I love to ski / board>

Ty

 

[Slypry]

Come on, what happened to all those hot Coloradoan's that were posting earlier. Cat go your tongues? Let's see just how many fun-loving people there are out there?

 

[erosman]

welcome, Ty

I went to TX last weekend on business, and discovered that the Texan Litsters aren't so shy about meeting. We had a great time.

I've met a few Colorado Lit-peeps, but for the most part there seems to be more distrust among the ranks here in the colorful state. I am half of a we, and the other half is a fire-cracker of a lil lady. We love to get out and meet new people when our schedules allow. Give us a shout and we'll meet for drinks at a safe location.

 

[TyFz]

Safty

I'd love to meet some of the people form here. I'm a very out going person.. I love to do new things and try new things.. I wonder why TX people are more apt to play in RL?? I have been using the Internet for a long time now and I've always found it easy for a group of people to meet just have to start a trend and others seem to follow.. Maybe we should just start a dinner crew, different restaurants a month, we could do suggestions, make plans and see where the chips may fall.. I love trying new places, and this may be a good way to meet others?? who knows...

Ty

 

[tswyk]

TyFz -

Hiya!

I don't think that Texans are more apt to "play" - it's more that they have had great "den mothers" to arrange the Litogethers. Dinner is planned, then maybe dancing. Prizes are given for stupid things and it's just a big party!

Erosman and I have been to Litogethers in Atlanta, Nashville, Denver and now San Antonio - Lit people are just people - that's it. We laugh and cut up and enjoy each other's company. Friendships are formed - some last, some don't. It's just like RL.

Your "dinner" idea is great - I'm new to Denver, so I'd not be one to choose the place. But, all it takes is a date, a time and a place. For "safety's sake" the time and place are usually not posted on the board, but given out individually only to those who are KNOWN by someone else on the board. That's the first step. The second is to meet in a public place - everyone feels comfortable and safe.

I say someone needs to get the ball rolling - why not you?


t

 

[FredAstaire23]

Lizzy:

Westminster here too

 

[TyFz]

O.K. Well here goes...

O.k. it's the month of November, Most of us are thinking about $$$ and Christmas... I know a lot of us are going to be a little tight on fundage, But I have idea, We could start a Dinner tour. Nothing spectacular just a meeting place for us, and see where it goes. I know I'm stall a "Virgin" but I'm kinda into the Lit scene and would like to hear more imput from other more "experienced" members. I'm thinking that we'll start somewhere I know that can accommodate a few people and an open environment... Caldonia's on Parker and Illiff, on Sat the 29 it's two weeks notice, and its a really safe place. I'll take PM's on times and suggestions. O.k. there it is.. <maybe> Laters Colo.

Ty

 

[tswyk]

WAY TO GO!!!

At least it's a plan - may not work for me, but it's a plan. If we don't make it - and we probably won't since we both come back in town that night - make sure we hear the stories afterwards!

And next time - we'll do our BESTEST to be there!


t

 

[TyFz]

Wellpers

WAY TO GO!!!

At least it's a plan - may not work for me, but it's a plan. If we don't make it - and we probably won't since we both come back in town that night - make sure we hear the stories afterwards!

And next time - we'll do our BESTEST to be there!


t

Well I'd love to meet yas.. if you have an idea about a place that can handle a small party without notice let me know.. I know alot about south denver..... not so much about north denver... I'd like to plan partys around town... hit me with a PM er somthing... We can allways play after the holidays...

Ty

 

[NoLimitsCal]

springs?

Grew up in Denver now in Colorado Springs... interested in meeting any
local adventurous women or couple??

 

[TyFz]

Well now..

Hope you all want to come tonight, If you need directions let me know..

Ty..

 

[Foxfire21]

Lets try again after the holidays?

 

[FredAstaire23]

Re: Well now..

Hope you all want to come tonight, If you need directions let me know..

Ty..

I absolutely did, but flu bug caught me too. That and I am swamped with work. After the holidays would work though.

 

[fulvius]

get together

I'm definatley in; just post the time and place here and i'll do my best to be there. I don't have a drivers licence... so i can bus pretty much anywhere but if it's in the evening i'll need a ride home from someone afterwards because busses don't go to my house after 6 pm or so.

 

[TyFz]

Allright

Well this month is out.. to many things not enough time. I'll think of something next month and we'll all have to play!

Ty

 

[Biomagnetism]

Hello!

We are a twenty-something Boulder couple new to the boards, but not new to Literotica or Colorado!

Thought we'd just say hello to all you other Coloradans!

 

[Foxfire21]

Hi and welcome to the boards!

 

[TyFz]

Hi

Welcome, what took you so long to find us.. hope your stay is fun...

Ty

 

[Biomagnetism]

What took uus so long?

I don't know. We have been reading the stories on Lit for quite some time. Lurking a bit on the boards, but until now, never compelled to post.

We have recently decided to try and open up our sex lives to include other people and we have been using the Literotica Boards as a resource to learn how to go about just doing that.

We haven't been too successful, but we just started so I guess patience is the key.

There are personal ads sites, but you can't get anywhere without paying and it seems like they might be a waste of money anyway.

Anyway we came across this thread and thought it would be nice to say hello!

 

[TyFz]

o.k.

My first post my have gotten messed up.. So Here I go again.. I can understand, it took me forever to post a message, and then I found it to be fun and addicting.. So if your looking for some playmates a friend of mine sent me this. I'm not sure if its free or not I haven't had the time to look at it to much http://www.swinglifestyle.com/ Hope this helps.

Ty

 

[Biomagnetism]

Yeah...

We have an ad there. It is free to post ads, but to contact people it costs money. I understand that these sites are someones business, but there is not much of a promise that you even have a chance. I guess I don't have faith that the people on there are not just scammers of some kind. My issue though. In the end I guess we'll try to do a paysite, if all else fails.

We were talking about this today... That it is too bad that society has repressed so many people's sexuality. I am sure there are many people out there who are excited about the idea of group sex and other things, but it isn't something really talked about. We need to resort going "underground" to pursue it and it is rife with pitfalls.

We have friends that we are attracted too, but despite however close we might be, bringing up the idea of playing around with them seems like a bad idea. My girlfriend is insisting that our experience happen with someone we don't know, or rather someone we get to know.

I understand why she feels that way, but I think it would be nice to share the experience with someone we already care about and happen to be attracted to.

We are afraid though, of it going wrong and the friendship suffers because of it.

I don't know... I guess it doesn't have to be that way, but what to do?

How do others deal with this?

 

[TyFz]

I've been on both sides of that fence, I am a very sexual person and found that once I gathered a group of friends around me for that experience it became easier and easier to talk about with others who wanted to experience the things we did.

I'm not all to sure how it started but I'm sure it was a conversation between friends, about things we always wanted to try. We were all friends so a lot of the weirdness of meeting/flirting were long gone and we could talk openly. It turned out O.k. and we all are still friends. It's happened a few times but never really planned or set up just kinda spur of the moment. Good times.

On the other hand it was kinda creepy being a "New" guy in a married couple fantasy. I was asked by a friend, to help one of her friends. She had always wanted to be the girl in a boy girl boy sex type thing. So I thought this may be a great experience for me and agreed. It was fun and interesting we played all night long. Things got bad the next morning when I was approached by the lady and asked for seconds.. her hubby was in the room she just wanted me. I was o.k. with it but later this turned out to be a REALLY bad thing. He got mad at her for excluding him from the morning activities.. But it wasn't exclusion he was in the room, and could have joined, she asked him if it was all right if we did it. I'm sure you get the idea. Men get jealous, and it put a great strain on their relationship. I took on the guise of the bad guy and said "I initiated the whole thing" so they could feel better about what happened. Needless to say I'm not sure I'm into the new guy thing. It's a scary and uncharted area that can be great or really disastrous.

O.K. well that is what has happened to me, I've had other stories and opportunities. If I had to put a number to it I'd say seven out of ten times were good ones. The other times were emotion/jeloicy issues. It's sad that I can type more about the bad times than about the good ones.

If I wanted to do it and in your roles. I'd start with someone who you know you can trust but isn't a long time friend. It's a safe way to go. This may or may not be your cup of tea. If you like the experience then you have a basis to approach your friends with, and maybe they have had similar experiences or would like to try it. If you don't like it or it's not what you wanted, your close knit friends never need to know about it and life goes on the same as it was before the interlude.

I'm not sure I've never had a lady friend to go with, and I'm not the guy to go by myself. There are three or four partners clubs here in Denver/Colo Springs that cater to the experience. My roommate and his G/F of the time went with another couple and had a great time. They met a few other couples and did the voyer/exshobishonsit experience. After their first time they went several times after that. Again it may or may not be your cup of tea.

O.k. well I'm not sure if this will help or confuse but Hey it's all in fun and games right?
Ty

 

[draven_143]

Hi everyone from down pueblo way!

i hope i can meet some friends from here...

 

[Slypry]

Just thought I would once again say hello. Been looking in from time to time but haven't been here long enough to post. Still hoping for a lit together that I can attend (damn busy schedule). Still wanting to find out if there really are adventureous women in the springs or near there. For fun and froLICKing.