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Confessions: What are yours? (part 2)

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Leigh81 said:
ICT your personal ad is very impressive.
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Thanks, Leigh. :rose:
ICT all I need now is the guts to post it in my local BDSM community. :p

Beth87 said:
Ict I really don't understand when people use humiliation as part of sex. Not in judgy way just literally cannot understand how that would feel good. Don't get me wrong, I understand how physical pain can be good but I couldn't function if someone trash talked me. I'm not sure how that fits within realm of respect.

i guess because my biggest motivator in emotional sense is when I'm called good girl. I need reassurance and nurturing so it's totally aliens to me how someone could feel able I continue when being called worthless and various degrading terms. Maybe some wise lit people could explain to me..in friendly imparting wisdom way :)
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ICT it's a kink like any other. Some people get off on objectification/degradation/humiliation in the same way that others get off on wearing rubber or receiving golden showers.

IFCT it's not something I will accept from just anyone. I need to be in a relationship where mutual respect has already been established and I've explicitly submitted to my partner. I won't tolerate it outside of a sexual context or from someone I'm having "vanilla" sex with.

Funny story... Until late last year I had a long term friend with benefits. He is pretty kinky, but doesn't identify as Dominant and doesn't get off on objectification. We found ourselves in a group situation after a party with some good friends; one other male who identifies as a Dominant and 2 other women who identify as submissive.

I was giving the other guy a blowjob and he was talking dirty to me. Then I heard him call me "slut". I pulled back, looked up at him and said "I'm not your slut!" He started apologising like mad and I said "It's fine. Just don't do it again... Now stick your cock back in my mouth!"

He's such a great guy. He was still apologising when I ran into him at the pub a week later. :D

VelveteenFancy said:
ICT I'm really looking forward to St Patty's day and stealing kisses
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ICT I turn 40 this St Patty's day. IFCT there will be plenty of tequila and kisses to go round. :devil:
 
ICT I adore Arianthe. :)
IACT I'm not bi, but if I were, she would definitely be on my hit list. :devil:
IFCT I wish I could be at her birthday party to help her celebrate. :(:rose:
 
Wild_Honey_66 said:
ICT I adore Arianthe. :)
IACT I'm not bi, but if I were, she would definitely be on my hit list. :devil:
IFCT I wish I could be at her birthday party to help her celebrate. :(:rose:
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Mwah! :kiss::kiss::kiss:

ICT you would be more than welcome, as would many other Listers. :)
 
I would secretly like to see a close friend of my wife and I, in tight panties and wank fast and hard while she watched
 
ICT I saw a picture of my wife and her maid of honor at our wedding yesterday and I got a little chubby as I realized what a great down the blouse boob shot it was of her maid of honor.
 
Secret

I want an older woman to dominate me. No pain, but no power. Relinquished. Definite sex, with her in charge. Teases me. Taunts me.
 
smtst5 said:
ICT this past week has left me physically and emotionally spent.
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ICT I have been thinking of you a lot, lately.
IACT I have wondered how you were doing, but didn't want to bother you.
IFCT I am very glad to see you, if only briefly.

{hug}
 
ICT I'm a father and have spent my entire life putting up a front as a straight hetero when in all actuality, I enjoy sex with men as much as I do women. Spent my entire life on the DL out of fear of what my family would think of me.
 
ICT I can no longer go out and drink like I could say, five years ago… not that it was any better then. This is what I get for always wanting to stay in rather than go out.
IACT I'm not really into drinking mostly due to the fact that I'm an extreme lightweight.
 
ICT I wish I could sum up what I'm thinking in the moment of an emotionally charged situation, but I have to look at it from a distance.

IACT looking at it from a distance, I am kicking myself for letting it happen again (wish there was a smiley with an L on the forehead, haha).

IFCT I'll pick myself up and start building the wall again.
 
ICT that I have a stack of things I need to be doing.

IACT that I am enjoying the slow burn of Lit arousal a little too much right now.
 
emma_the_librarian said:
ICT I wish I could sum up what I'm thinking in the moment of an emotionally charged situation, but I have to look at it from a distance.

IACT looking at it from a distance, I am kicking myself for letting it happen again (wish there was a smiley with an L on the forehead, haha).

IFCT I'll pick myself up and start building the wall again.
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Emma,

Hang in there my friend. :rose:

If you wanna talk I am here :heart:
 
ICT I'm starting to lose hope on two fronts. Nothing I can do about those situations.

IACT my diet has been terrible this last week. This hopefully I can fix.
 
ICT- I hate making my bed
IACT - procrastinating does not make this task any easier
IFCT - I need a smaller bed because obviously I don't need one this big and haven't for quite a while
 
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