Confessions: What are yours? (part 2)

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ICT your personal ad is very impressive.

Thanks, Leigh. :rose:
ICT all I need now is the guts to post it in my local BDSM community. :p

Ict I really don't understand when people use humiliation as part of sex. Not in judgy way just literally cannot understand how that would feel good. Don't get me wrong, I understand how physical pain can be good but I couldn't function if someone trash talked me. I'm not sure how that fits within realm of respect.

i guess because my biggest motivator in emotional sense is when I'm called good girl. I need reassurance and nurturing so it's totally aliens to me how someone could feel able I continue when being called worthless and various degrading terms. Maybe some wise lit people could explain to me..in friendly imparting wisdom way :)

ICT it's a kink like any other. Some people get off on objectification/degradation/humiliation in the same way that others get off on wearing rubber or receiving golden showers.

IFCT it's not something I will accept from just anyone. I need to be in a relationship where mutual respect has already been established and I've explicitly submitted to my partner. I won't tolerate it outside of a sexual context or from someone I'm having "vanilla" sex with.

Funny story... Until late last year I had a long term friend with benefits. He is pretty kinky, but doesn't identify as Dominant and doesn't get off on objectification. We found ourselves in a group situation after a party with some good friends; one other male who identifies as a Dominant and 2 other women who identify as submissive.

I was giving the other guy a blowjob and he was talking dirty to me. Then I heard him call me "slut". I pulled back, looked up at him and said "I'm not your slut!" He started apologising like mad and I said "It's fine. Just don't do it again... Now stick your cock back in my mouth!"

He's such a great guy. He was still apologising when I ran into him at the pub a week later. :D

ICT I'm really looking forward to St Patty's day and stealing kisses

ICT I turn 40 this St Patty's day. IFCT there will be plenty of tequila and kisses to go round. :devil:
 
ICT I adore Arianthe. :)
IACT I'm not bi, but if I were, she would definitely be on my hit list. :devil:
IFCT I wish I could be at her birthday party to help her celebrate. :(:rose:
 
ICT I adore Arianthe. :)
IACT I'm not bi, but if I were, she would definitely be on my hit list. :devil:
IFCT I wish I could be at her birthday party to help her celebrate. :(:rose:

Mwah! :kiss::kiss::kiss:

ICT you would be more than welcome, as would many other Listers. :)
 
I would secretly like to see a close friend of my wife and I, in tight panties and wank fast and hard while she watched
 
ICT I saw a picture of my wife and her maid of honor at our wedding yesterday and I got a little chubby as I realized what a great down the blouse boob shot it was of her maid of honor.
 
Secret

I want an older woman to dominate me. No pain, but no power. Relinquished. Definite sex, with her in charge. Teases me. Taunts me.
 
ICT this past week has left me physically and emotionally spent.

ICT I have been thinking of you a lot, lately.
IACT I have wondered how you were doing, but didn't want to bother you.
IFCT I am very glad to see you, if only briefly.

{hug}
 
ICT I'm a father and have spent my entire life putting up a front as a straight hetero when in all actuality, I enjoy sex with men as much as I do women. Spent my entire life on the DL out of fear of what my family would think of me.
 
ICT I can no longer go out and drink like I could say, five years ago… not that it was any better then. This is what I get for always wanting to stay in rather than go out.
IACT I'm not really into drinking mostly due to the fact that I'm an extreme lightweight.
 
ICT I wish I could sum up what I'm thinking in the moment of an emotionally charged situation, but I have to look at it from a distance.

IACT looking at it from a distance, I am kicking myself for letting it happen again (wish there was a smiley with an L on the forehead, haha).

IFCT I'll pick myself up and start building the wall again.
 
ICT that I have a stack of things I need to be doing.

IACT that I am enjoying the slow burn of Lit arousal a little too much right now.
 
ICT I wish I could sum up what I'm thinking in the moment of an emotionally charged situation, but I have to look at it from a distance.

IACT looking at it from a distance, I am kicking myself for letting it happen again (wish there was a smiley with an L on the forehead, haha).

IFCT I'll pick myself up and start building the wall again.

Emma,

Hang in there my friend. :rose:

If you wanna talk I am here :heart:
 
ICT I'm starting to lose hope on two fronts. Nothing I can do about those situations.

IACT my diet has been terrible this last week. This hopefully I can fix.
 
ICT- I hate making my bed
IACT - procrastinating does not make this task any easier
IFCT - I need a smaller bed because obviously I don't need one this big and haven't for quite a while
 
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