Converting a prudish wife - anyone done it?

[Dmiller85001]

Wondering if anyone has truly transformed a prudish wife (think traditional, Christian values) into someone sexually liberated. If so, I’d love to hear about it.

Not talking about dating reserved girls and introducing them to the joys of sex - that’s easy. I’m talking about converting someone who has moral objections to anything beyond monogamous marriage, including porn.

-Dave

 

[MH2024hot]

Always a challenge!!

I've written about it on here. It's more about converting on the subject of porn and erotica (not monogamy, although I'm working up to confessing that I masturbate to the thought of her getting pleasure from another guy. But that's a big step).

In short, married 20 years to very religious Catholic wife who is active in church, sex once every two to three weeks, traditionalist who thinks porn is evil...but over last two years I have:

- gotten her to a sex store, and she was fine with it
- made her cum a few times using a bigger dildo (she always likes to say she only needs me and yet there she was, moaning like a dirty girl enjoying extra girth and length)
- Had her watch me fuck a porn star sex toy pussy (fleshlite type, modeled after a porn star, unboxed it in front of her so she could see the dirty brunette on the cover of the box) Balls deep, unloaded it in several times.
- arranged a massage in our hotel resort (hot guy massaging her and next day a hot lady massaged me) then after they left we fucked hard, told her I was aroused watching her get a massage. During my massage, she could see I was very erect against my shorts.
- this was a big deal: told her without any real apology that I enjoyed jacking off to porn last 20 years, and mentioned 2 girl one cock videos, women masturbating, and I even said how I started enjoying her pussy more after watching women spread theirs and masturbating while I watched and rubbed my cock, etc. even how I liked to do it, like all over my chest or standing up and spurting all over a towel or her panties.
- on vacation, I brought a collection of dirty pics and I masturbated to it and shot a load all over them while she watched and encouraged me. Then then I fucked her hard and she came repeatedly
- told her I masturbate to AI pics of her
- I did this all while our church group was doing a series on how porn and erotica was evil, etc, so it was a challenge. But we had lots of discussions and I challenged conventional ways about thinking about pleasure and sex.
- had her listen to an audio recording of her using a sex toy (which I secretly recorded) while giving her an erotic massage. Told her I like to listen to it and jack off now and then.

It's not perfect now, still a struggle at times but making headway.

 

[Cuckson2007]

Always a challenge!!

I've written about it on here. It's more about converting on the subject of porn and erotica (not monogamy, although I'm working up to confessing that I masturbate to the thought of her getting pleasure from another guy. But that's a big step).

In short, married 20 years to very religious Catholic wife who is active in church, sex once every two to three weeks, traditionalist who thinks porn is evil...but over last two years I have:

- gotten her to a sex store, and she was fine with it
- made her cum a few times using a bigger dildo (she always likes to say she only needs me and yet there she was, moaning like a dirty girl enjoying extra girth and length)
- Had her watch me fuck a porn star sex toy pussy (fleshlite type, modeled after a porn star, unboxed it in front of her so she could see the dirty brunette on the cover of the box) Balls deep, unloaded it in several times.
- arranged a massage in our hotel resort (hot guy massaging her and next day a hot lady massaged me) then after they left we fucked hard, told her I was aroused watching her get a massage. During my massage, she could see I was very erect against my shorts.
- this was a big deal: told her without any real apology that I enjoyed jacking off to porn last 20 years, and mentioned 2 girl one cock videos, women masturbating, and I even said how I started enjoying her pussy more after watching women spread theirs and masturbating while I watched and rubbed my cock, etc. even how I liked to do it, like all over my chest or standing up and spurting all over a towel or her panties.
- on vacation, I brought a collection of dirty pics and I masturbated to it and shot a load all over them while she watched and encouraged me. Then then I fucked her hard and she came repeatedly
- told her I masturbate to AI pics of her
- I did this all while our church group was doing a series on how porn and erotica was evil, etc, so it was a challenge. But we had lots of discussions and I challenged conventional ways about thinking about pleasure and sex.
- had her listen to an audio recording of her using a sex toy (which I secretly recorded) while giving her an erotic massage. Told her I like to listen to it and jack off now and then.

It's not perfect now, still a struggle at times but making headway.

These are some serious steps, hope you can get her to fullfil your desires cuz she sounds like she is getting more loose

 

[Tigersman]

I don't know if you are capable of designing computer software, but if you are then you might consider designing subliminal messages and embed them on your wife's computer. The messages should be short and geared towards what your fetish is.

 

[MH2024hot]

These are some serious steps, hope you can get her to fullfil your desires cuz she sounds like she is getting more loose

Thanks. Been an interesting year, that's for sure. when I really unloaded my porn habit on her and had to defend using erotica (basically arguing that it's ok for us to do it together) in the face of a zillion sermons on porn, it seemed. It was either that or I was about to graduate to sex clubs overseas and legalized massage parlors, I was at my wits end. I figure would just go and watch, masturbate and maybe get some hand jobs, be a regular client. But I would prefer doing naughty stuff with my wife.

As of late, I've been itching to jerk off to porn with her again, been a while. She's fickle though so I have to play it by ear.

Oh, I also keep tabs on her by reading her diary. I know it sounds horrible but I don't care. It helps me gauge what's going through her mind, like if she mentions what I've told her I liked about sex and then I can figure out what I need work on, potential boundaries and such. It's helped. The ends justifies the means to me. I'll continue to snoop.

I remember telling her I looked at porn like 20 years ago. All crying and tears and me saying I wouldn't, praying together. Ha. Then fast forward to me spewing cum on Sunny Leoni pics in our hotel room while she verbally encouraged me. What a contrast!