Crying during and after an orgasm..

[Oblimo]

Orgasms give me the munchies.

 

[DeluxAuto]

ba-dum, ching!

The cure for just about anything..

Threesome?

 

[Scareltt]

So nice..

Maybe just happy and content AND a really good Orgasm,,,,, are bodies are different as we age.....and I can say that as I am 53 years old...... relax and enjoy and hats off to the hubby!!!!

You’re very kind, thank you..

Sometimes I get so caught up that I forget it’s about enjoying the ride.

 

[Hal9000_]

Sometimes the crying happens about 9 months after the orgasm.

 

[Scareltt]

True..

Sometimes the crying happens about 9 months after the orgasm.

That has happened twice.. Those were tears of joy!

 

[Notcastor]

I've cried a few times during some O's.

Watching Bambi from the balcony?

Or that weekend at Rikers?

 

[Notcastor]

Anyone want to help me unpack this one?

Last night, my husband and I were playing together and with my Womanizer on my clit and my husband fingering me I came. Right before my orgasm washed over me I was overwhelmed by the sudden urge to cry and I did. I cried long and had.

To my husbands credit he just held me until I fell asleep..

Has this happen to any other 40 something women?
Does it hit you often?
Or do I need to be taking a deeper look inside myself, and my lifestyle choices...

I’ve only had one “cryer”. ( no, not Zumi, I always gag and blindfold him) . I thought it was a bit strange, but I think I reacted in a supportive way.

Coincidentally, I was planning on breaking up with her, so though the weekend was sexually awesome, the crying orgasms made me feel like Vince Vaughn.

 

[IrezumiKiss]

Watching Bambi from the balcony?

Or that weekend at Rikers?

Actually, it was a lovely surprise last Friday nite; a woman texted me to meet her at a bar, where she bought me a drink.

She wished me a good weekend; then after leaving, she texted me to meet her at a restaurant, where she bought me dinner.

After bidding me a good evening, she sent me directions to what turned out to be a hilton, where she’d booked a nice suite for us.

A very good seduction effort on her part, i must say.

http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lxpj6grFIe1qcaomb.gif

I’ve only had one “cryer”. ( no, not Zumi, I always gag and blindfold him)

ugh. eww. yuck.

Flattered I'm in your fantasies, Lanciepants, but...let's not go there, mmmkay?

Hey, I mean, I'm always down for people expanding their sexual horizons and shit like that, but I think you should stay in your lane with your original masturbation fetish:

https://i.ibb.co/r63zjbc/pic0061-tn.jpg

 

[RoryN]

try orgasmic migraines if you don't like crying. actually, don't because i know i've cried from migraines before. so maybe try them if you're big fan of screaming in agony instead of feeling that nice, warm rush of endorphins overtaking your brain.

^^^

This. A woman I've known most of my life got these when she came. She had a myriad of physical issues, and orgasmic migraines was one of them. https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/sex-headaches/symptoms-causes/syc-20377477

Crying is nothing. Cry away.

 

[Scareltt]

Awful

^^^

This. A woman I've known most of my life got these when she came. She had a myriad of physical issues, and orgasmic migraines was one of them. https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/sex-headaches/symptoms-causes/syc-20377477

Crying is nothing. Cry away.

“orgasmic migraines”? That sounds awful, I am so sorry to read about that..

 

[Scareltt]

True..

Sometimes the crying happens about 9 months after the orgasm.

I’m not immune to that eithe..

 

[agedmac]

Anyone want to help me unpack this one?

Last night, my husband and I were playing together and with my Womanizer on my clit and my husband fingering me I came. Right before my orgasm washed over me I was overwhelmed by the sudden urge to cry and I did. I cried long and had.

To my husbands credit he just held me until I fell asleep..

Has this happen to any other 40 something women?
Does it hit you often?
Or do I need to be taking a deeper look inside myself, and my lifestyle choices...

I have be-friended several 'mature' women here on LIT (they help me think through my stories, generally about mature women having sex 'on the side'). The first time a woman 'fools around', the emotions of what just happens often leads to intense sexual and personal release, including long, sobbing cries. They all say that the guy should do as your hubby did the first time you cried after an orgasm...just hold her tight! Some times a woman just needs a release and if it goes all the way to an orgasm, it makes sense to me that tears will occur.

As an aging male, erections are hard to come by, and the release of an orgasm for me sometimes just grabs me and pure emotion occurs....sometimes with growling and groans......and sometimes with tears of......pain? (not joy).

 

[despete]

Hey, I mean, I'm always down for people expanding their sexual horizons and shit like that, but I think you should stay in your lane with your original masturbation fetish:

https://i.ibb.co/r63zjbc/pic0061-tn.jpg

Reported.

 

[bigsam5778]

My first real g/f (we lived together) would sometimes cry when she came. It was so beautiful. Usually her orgasms were very strong. She was one of those rare women who would orgasm during fucking.

And for the last 10 years or so I would cry when I came sometimes because it was so intense, and sometimes emotional. Most often when I come with my present partner, it's thinking about what she would do with another man.

 

[Biggs_Darklighter]

Most of the bitches cry when I'm done but I doubt they had orgasms.

 

[Saint Peter]

She was one of those rare women who would orgasm during fucking.

 

[AlotLikePsyche]

I cry sometimes during orgasm. Usually because the closeness and connection are such a welcome relief from my usual sadness.

 

[silver gurl]

She was one of those rare women who would orgasm during fucking.
K

That’s what I was thinking.

I think someone is doing it wrong.

 

[AlotLikePsyche]

My first real g/f (we lived together) would sometimes cry when she came. It was so beautiful. Usually her orgasms were very strong. She was one of those rare women who would orgasm during fucking.

And for the last 10 years or so I would cry when I came sometimes because it was so intense, and sometimes emotional. Most often when I come with my present partner, it's thinking about what she would do with another man.

This is one of the most vulnerable, and lovely posts I’ve read on this site.

 

[hogjack]

I ALWAYS CRY. Then I pay the other $5. Just like me pappy did it.

 

[Saint Peter]

That’s what I was thinking.

I think someone is doing it wrong.

What type of man would allow that to happen?


Unreal.

 

[Sonofawhore]

I grew up jerking off and crying

 

[AlotLikePsyche]

What type of man would allow that to happen?


Unreal.

I think he meant during intercourse.

Isn’t it pretty rare for women to orgasm from intercourse (alone)?

I dunno. I never come from just fucking, and I never blamed my partner for that. I just assume it’s a shortcoming of my own body/ability.

 

[Sweet_Cupcake]

Anyone want to help me unpack this one?

Last night, my husband and I were playing together and with my Womanizer on my clit and my husband fingering me I came. Right before my orgasm washed over me I was overwhelmed by the sudden urge to cry and I did. I cried long and had.

To my husbands credit he just held me until I fell asleep..

Has this happen to any other 40 something women?
Does it hit you often?
Or do I need to be taking a deeper look inside myself, and my lifestyle choices...

I am not 40-something, but I have cried many times before, during, after orgasms. The reasons have been various, but all good for me -- such as huge happiness, overwhelmed by intense passion, or the magnitude of the wondrous experience, emotional connection and even gratitude for him and what he gave me.

The best reaction from a man is to first make sure there is no pain or discomfort (physically or emotionally) and then carry on with the fabulous experience -- be that next round or post-coital bonding.

For me, it is a lovely thing when it happens and I never had a partner who was distressed about it at all. It's all very, very good.

 

[silver gurl]

I think he meant during intercourse.

Isn’t it pretty rare for women to orgasm from intercourse (alone)?

No?