Curious about thoughts on Cuckolding

[middlesex]

Interesting topic

 

[dizzyfeet]

I am new here, although I've been lurking for awhile. This thread has given me some insight into my last BF (very recent). He had a lot of suspicion about me going with another man (which I would never do) and yet his strongest fantasy was about watching me have sex with another man. Part of one fantasy that he described was that he'd ask me who was better and I'd reply that the other man was better because he was bigger. This would make him want to fuck me extra hard (angry sex?) I realized then that part of the turn-on for him was being humiliated. He would beg me not to fuck another man, but when he was aroused he would beg me to fuck another man and let him watch. He would also beg me to talk dirty, in the vein of what I'd be saying to the other man as we had sex, and/or what I'd be saying to my BF while having sex with the other guy. Unfortunately, it didn't do anything for me, and his insistence on talking about fantasies with other people while having sex with me, made me break up with him. We were only together three times and I was turned on by being with him - talking about fantasies distracted me from my pleasure.
Anyway, it's interesting to hear that other men have fantasies about being cuckolded too.

 

[Somehowyou]

I am new here, although I've been lurking for awhile. This thread has given me some insight into my last BF (very recent). He had a lot of suspicion about me going with another man (which I would never do) and yet his strongest fantasy was about watching me have sex with another man. Part of one fantasy that he described was that he'd ask me who was better and I'd reply that the other man was better because he was bigger. This would make him want to fuck me extra hard (angry sex?) I realized then that part of the turn-on for him was being humiliated. He would beg me not to fuck another man, but when he was aroused he would beg me to fuck another man and let him watch. He would also beg me to talk dirty, in the vein of what I'd be saying to the other man as we had sex, and/or what I'd be saying to my BF while having sex with the other guy. Unfortunately, it didn't do anything for me, and his insistence on talking about fantasies with other people while having sex with me, made me break up with him. We were only together three times and I was turned on by being with him - talking about fantasies distracted me from my pleasure.
Anyway, it's interesting to hear that other men have fantasies about being cuckolded too.

Man, this is something I have been wondering for a long time. There are two types of men. Men that get turned on by their SO having sex with other guys and men that won't admit that this Taboo is a bit of a turn on. I think it is some primal basic instinct that men have dating back to the days we all wore loin clothes. A primal urge. Woman don't seem to be turned on by this nearly as frequently. For example, there is no "Loveing Husbands" catagory. I think it stems from competition. You are competing with other males to plant your seed. When your partner is cheating on you, you desire her even more. You don't decide to cut her off like a woman might. You get an erection and all you can think of is planting your seed. The woamn on the other hand, is constantly searching for the alpha male (now a days we call this "marrying up"). She subconciously wants to pass on a superior genetic code. I think in modern times it all got twisted a little. Anyway, this all leeds to propagation of the species.

 

[cuppycakes]

Man, this is something I have been wondering for a long time. There are two types of men. Men that get turned on by their SO having sex with other guys and men that won't admit that this Taboo is a bit of a turn on. I think it is some primal basic instinct that men have dating back to the days we all wore loin clothes. A primal urge. Woman don't seem to be turned on by this nearly as frequently. For example, there is no "Loveing Husbands" catagory. I think it stems from competition. You are competing with other males to plant your seed. When your partner is cheating on you, you desire her even more. You don't decide to cut her off like a woman might. You get an erection and all you can think of is planting your seed. The woamn on the other hand, is constantly searching for the alpha male (now a days we call this "marrying up"). She subconciously wants to pass on a superior genetic code. I think in modern times it all got twisted a little. Anyway, this all leeds to propagation of the species.

I think that last line should be the subtitle for this entire website.

 

[dirtyduo]

Lol cuppycakes it should be. Op, if this is something that you approach your gf about and ever decide to do, you could try swingers sites to meet men, there are single men on them, and it's got to be safer than strangers at the bar. sls.com is a good one.

 

[shewantsmore]

i think most people go to swingers site for that reason anyway to have fun