Curious, never had a gay encounter

To those of you that are curious, let me just say that being with a trans person is an excellent option. It's like hanging out with one of the guys they just wear dresses and will suck your dick! It's also an excellent option for lesbians wanting to play with a man, and I've experience in both areas, as well as play with couples and small groups. Bit of self promotion! :D

And, while I'm kinky as hell, I'm also one to practice safe sex, being very selective in my partners, desiring people with whom I can develop long term relations as opposed to one night stands. Not that if we met and clicked that I wouldn't jump your bones! With a condom of course!!!

If I sound like your cup of tea or have at least piqued your curiosity check me out and hit me up. I'd love to chat and get to know you!

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Kisses,
Jenny
 
There and loving it..

I acted on those same feelings and found that part of my life that I had been yearning to explore for years. It brought me so much pleasure to give pleasure to another man, to see him tremble and shake, hear his moans and intimate whispers afterward. It was a lifelong desire that once fulfilled left me anxious for another. I am still searching for that next experience and will not deny it any longer.
 
There and loving it..

I acted on those same feelings and found that part of my life that I had been yearning to explore for years. It brought me so much pleasure to give pleasure to another man, to see him tremble and shake, hear his moans and intimate whispers afterward. It was a lifelong desire that once fulfilled left me anxious for another. I am still searching for that next experience and will not deny it any longer.

Good for you. It sure is like opening a flood gate, once you try it. The toughest part is identifying that the desire exists. From there, one needs to ramp up our efforts to make it happen. Nothing in this world is risk free, but we do need to be careful in making our dreams cum true. Choose wisely and be as safe as you can.
 
I feel just like everyone else on here. Love to daydream and explore porn but the few time I've reached out to real people have been a disaster. Would like to hear about how people managed to have positive experiences. Anyway it's great to see so many people feeling the way I do, helps me to feel less lonley and shy.

IT AIN'T JUST YOU...!
MAAAAAAAAAAAAAN, look heah, there is MORE BULLSHIT HERE than ANY CATTLE RANCH IN TEXAS.
But thats ok bcuz it still doesn't negate the fact that if you ever connect in sex with someone, its STILL A NUMBERS GAME. Ok yea, you will see me ranting over one thing or anotha concerning sex...but ya never gonna see or read me saying why oh why, oh why... Becuz I know its a numbers game. The main--, but by no means the ONLY reason, one reads me bitching is becuz someone trying to convince someone else if they would only do what 'they' did back in 1968 and it worked like a charm, Man it was like I had her under a spell".
You want to know how to manage to have positive experiences???
HERE IT IS:
Go out and get in someones line of sight, smile at them. I can't and won't try to tell you how many times that one simple act has paved the way for a partnered wet dick experience. Then open your mouth and speak. You don't have to be fucking Shakespear or Don [fucking] Juan. You don't have to be a smooth talking conman with movie star looks and cash like Bill Gates, (although that wouldn't hurt).
Be genuine, be real, be good at listening as well as hearing...
Being genuine and being real are two of the most important things you can remember to do or be and its because WOMEN are the best bullshit detectors in the world. When you are out and you see these gorgeous women with these guys who--, yeah they got a big dick and the kinda smile that over powers the lights in the club but empty inside and only need a 'toilet paper girl' for the night or a couple hours; it isn't becuz those girls don't know who and what he is--, its that the girl doesn't care. Sometimes he is what she thinks she needs, sometimes he is what she thinks she wants. Either way she isn't someone he is going to keep--, at least not for any real length of time.
But since neither you nor anyone else here is going to seriously assess what I've given you and consider using any of it.. I will just ask the Mod's to erase this post.
 
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IT AIN'T JUST YOU...!
MAAAAAAAAAAAAAN, look heah, there is MORE BULLSHIT HERE than ANY CATTLE RANCH IN TEXAS.
But thats ok bcuz it still doesn't negate the fact that if you ever connect in sex with someone, its STILL A NUMBERS GAME. Ok yea, you will see me ranting over one thing or anotha concerning sex...but ya never gonna see or read me saying why oh why, oh why... Becuz I know its a numbers game. The main--, but by no means the ONLY reason, one reads me bitching is becuz someone trying to convince someone else if they would only do what 'they' did back in 1968 and it worked like a charm, Man it was like I had her under a spell".
You want to know how to manage to have positive experiences???
HERE IT IS:
Go out and get in someones line of sight, smile at them. I can't and won't try to tell you how many times that one simple act has paved the way for a partnered wet dick experience. Then open your mouth and speak. You don't have to be fucking Shakespear or Don [fucking] Juan. You don't have to be a smooth talking conman with movie star looks and cash like Bill Gates, (although that wouldn't hurt).
Be genuine, be real, be good at listening as well as hearing...
Being genuine and being real are two of the most important things you can remember to do or be and its because WOMEN are the best bullshit detectors in the world. When you are out and you see these gorgeous women with these guys who--, yeah they got a big dick and the kinda smile that over powers the lights in the club but empty inside and only need a 'toilet paper girl' for the night or a couple hours; it isn't becuz those girls don't know who and what he is--, its that the girl doesn't care. Sometimes he is what she thinks she needs, sometimes he is what she thinks she wants. Either way she isn't someone he is going to keep--, at least not for any real length of time.
But since neither you nor anyone else here is going to seriously assess what I've given you and consider using any of it.. I will just ask the Mod's to erase this post.
Makes perfect sense to me. I've tried all the bullshit and little of it worked for me. Those times it did weren't very memorable, and I accept all the blame for that.

It is a numbers game and often just the luck of the draw. A smile, kind word, interest in what the other says, paying attention and being perceptive if body language are excellent ice breakers and can pave the way for deeper connection. Sexual or non-sexual, it's all the same. If you know there's interest in pursuing a relationship, it's easy to cut bait. No harm, no foul.
 
Finally have the courage to act upon my wants and needs. Hard to find the right solution to the equation.
 
some of these posts made me a little sad as there are so many place, I started well under age (completely my choice I had seen my brothers porn mags of girls sucking cock and I just knew that's what I wanted )so I found cock at a public toilet. It was really bad of course now I go to bars, saunas or just meet online. guys it is so wonderful to be free I hope you are able to find what you crave best wishes all
 
You got to put yourself out there if you want to experience your desires. At some point you just have to take a chance. It's been my experience that many bi-curious males are more turned on by the fantasy then making the effort to physically fulfill the desires. That's ok too. I'm not knocking anyone. Just an opinion based on personal experience. It's very frustrating when you're willing to make the effort but others just want to chat.
 
You got to put yourself out there if you want to experience your desires. At some point you just have to take a chance. It's been my experience that many bi-curious males are more turned on by the fantasy then making the effort to physically fulfill the desires. That's ok too. I'm not knocking anyone. Just an opinion based on personal experience. It's very frustrating when you're willing to make the effort but others just want to chat.

It is an all too common occurrence when a curious guy bails out, never to be heard from again. Like you said, it is frustrating, but everyone has to do it their way. Chatting is fun, and so is using your imagination, but, as you say, there comes a time when you have to act. I am certainly glad that I did. Having said that, I can't wait for this pandemic situation to straighten out so I can get back out there. It's time to suck cock again!
 
hey...

I feel just like everyone else on here. Love to daydream and explore porn but the few time I've reached out to real people have been a disaster. Would like to hear about how people managed to have positive experiences. Anyway it's great to see so many people feeling the way I do, helps me to feel less lonley and shy.


ya wanna hear how people manage to have positive experiences? they got to the point where they understood that it is a numbers game bruah. the more numbers of 'tries', you initiate, you assist in a manipulation of the odds in your favor.
 
Not interested in chatting, I'm just chiming in to encourage you to give it a whirl. Otherwise, you'll never know. My only regret is that I waited so long.
 
I'm 60 and have been married 35 years. I've always thought about doing things with another guy. Maybe some day it will happen.
 
I'm 50'ish. Never touched another man. The thought gives me butterflies and makes me nervous. But it also makes me a bit breathless and very hard. The more I think about it, well, you know.
 
Had only one time i sucked a cock and now i want more and go further with it. It was very enjoyable, now i see why ladies like to suck cock. Mwm 68 in idaho.
If any of you guys want to chat just send me a message. Am on kik, and google chat and email we can share photos .
 
Brave

You got to put yourself out there if you want to experience your desires. At some point you just have to take a chance. It's been my experience that many bi-curious males are more turned on by the fantasy then making the effort to physically fulfill the desires. That's ok too. I'm not knocking anyone. Just an opinion based on personal experience. It's very frustrating when you're willing to make the effort but others just want to chat.

I think you’re right, I was a curious guy who was probably turned on by the fantasy… had a few failed attempts to hook up (on both sides, yes I didn’t turn up on a couple, stupidly) but that made me think I should finally just take the plunge so I went somewhere where I would turn up as would others - a sauna. It was amazing, a bit scary maybe but friendly, forward, open, respectful and importantly, felt safe. Never looked back. But also never made progress in hookups or bars…not sure why. For now am enjoying some online chats, looking forward to the real thing when ‘normality’ returns!
 
hey...

Finally have the courage to act upon my wants and needs. Hard to find the right solution to the equation.


one of two things is incorrect in your statement:

1.) "Finally have the courage---,
OR
B.) "Hard to find the right solution---"


Either you were dis-ingenuous in your first sentence---,
OR,

You're being lazy at ATTEMPTING the second sentence.

YOU ARE the right solution.

This is a crazy and fuckd up world and I don't give two shits and a bad fart what the physicists say: 1 plus 1 still equals one or more CRAZY fucking nights.
 
Good for you. It sure is like opening a flood gate, once you try it. The toughest part is identifying that the desire exists. From there, one needs to ramp up our efforts to make it happen. Nothing in this world is risk free, but we do need to be careful in making our dreams cum true. Choose wisely and be as safe as you can.
Me too let's get together
 
I'm still waiting for my first .
So many promises, so much disappointment
 
I have always been curious. I fantasize about being with another guy all the time. For me I would like to meet another first timer who would be willing go give it a try and we could meet up once in a while and have some fun together. I am in south Jersey just in case the right guy happens to see this.
 
I have always been curious. I fantasize about being with another guy all the time. For me I would like to meet another first timer who would be willing go give it a try and we could meet up once in a while and have some fun together. I am in south Jersey just in case the right guy happens to see this.

Might want to enable your pms.
 
Bi MWM in Maryland

Early fifties MWM Looking to explore my bi side with a younger fit guy....
Very playful, curious, and open minded
Hoping you see this and get in touch!
 
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