Death By Firing Squad

[Stella_Omega]

A nonconsensual slap is assault. Whether you slap a random stranger on the street, or a partner who has stated that slapping is out of bounds. Assault is what that is.

Would an s press charges against her D in that situation? She could, but probably not. Would the s lose trust for the D, decide he was an arrogant prick, and terminate the relationship? Maybe. Would the s appreciate the arrogance in this particular context, finding it hot hot hot? That could happen too. It depends on the individuals involved.

Maybe s would tell D he had no fucking clue what he was dealing with, and switch that bitch, toot sweet.

If I were writing it as a story, that's probably where I would take it-- I kinda have a fetish for putting the top on the bottom.

Delia Day, anyone?

ETA: Her article in Wikipedia is slated for deletion. I wrote most of it, so they informed me, but I have no particular connection to it. I dunno.

yeah, I can see why they want to delete the article. But thanks! I had never heard of her!

 

[DVS]

Delia Day, anyone?

ETA: Her article in Wikipedia is slated for deletion. I wrote most of it, so they informed me, but I have no particular connection to it. I dunno.

So, the jury saw her consensual 10 year relationship with her husband to be enough of a basis for acquittal of murder? Granted, we don't know the whole story but is that what we're suppose to take from this? This is an example of consent between two adults in a BDSM relationship as judged by a jury of her vanilla peers. Again, I say scary!

 

[JMohegan]

Maybe s would tell D he had no fucking clue what he was dealing with, and switch that bitch, toot sweet.

Haha, you're right. That could happen too!



I am heading out of town for the holiday. Best wishes to all for a happy 4th.

 

[Primalex]

I still think that the analogy of bringing a football to a basketball game is the best one. If you willfully break the rules in a material fashion, you aren't really playing the same game as everyone else.

Maybe it comes down to the question:
Are fouls part of a soccer game?

I would say yes, after all there are even rules how to handle them, what fouls even are and the punishment for them - yellow and red cards and there might be legal punishment, too - if you cross the boundaries way too much, like kung fu kicking the goalkeeper.

And others say no, because soccer should be a "positive and healthy" game and the fouls define what is not part of the game, but what can happen nevertheless and how to deal with it.

*shrugs*

I'll stick with my point of view.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Maybe it comes down to the question:
Are fouls part of a soccer game?

I would say yes, after all there are even rules how to handle them, what fouls even are and the punishment for them - yellow and red cards and there might be legal punishment, too - if you cross the boundaries way too much, like kung fu kicking the goalkeeper.

And others say no, because soccer should be a "positive and healthy" game and the fouls define what is not part of the game, but what can happen nevertheless and how to deal with it.

*shrugs*

I'll stick with my point of view.

Yeah, the idea that a foul makes the game not be that game any more-- that's not accurate, and also, mighty controlling.

Someone can pick up their ball and leave the field when something happens they don't like, but that's an individual decision. There will still be other people playing the game regardless.

But you have been talking about a completely different game-- Russian roulette or something-- and calling it soccer.

 

[Homburg]

Some people get off on dancing in that particular minefield, even when they care deeply about both their partner and the sustainability of the mutual engagement. Just as some people get off on breath play.

Risky? Sure. People take all kinds of risks.

Some people get off on cannibalism.

Risky? Sure. BDSM? Not so much.

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Maybe it comes down to the question:
Are fouls part of a soccer game?

I would say yes, after all there are even rules how to handle them, what fouls even are and the punishment for them - yellow and red cards and there might be legal punishment, too - if you cross the boundaries way too much, like kung fu kicking the goalkeeper.

I'm with you, sure, but I'm not talking about fouls. I'm talking about playing a different game from the other kiddies.

You invite your buddy to play golf and he shows up in lacrosse armour with a stick what has a net on the end, and then runs down the field juggling the ball before spiking it into the hole.

The ball went into the hole, right? Sure, but is it golf?

To use a different example, Zidane's famous headbutt from a few years ago - in my book, that wasn't soccer. That was assault. He wasn't playing the game. He was attacking another human. It was willfully stepping far outside the bounds of what constitutes soccer.