Disappointed.

[LadyVer]

And I see regulars on BDSM board as saints who put up with so many provocative, wrong placed or just plain old stupid threads and questions in good will and genuinely helpful way.

I dont see anyone being unreasonably attacked anywhere baring maybe GB, just as I dont see why you picked on DW. She may have exaggerated a bit but her point is valid.

I don't doubt what you're saying in the first paragraph. But it's been my experience that when I click on what appears to be an interesting bdsm thread, too often the op is not getting what he asked for. Instead he gets slammed for daring to ask what he asked.

People get unreasonably attacked across all forums. I understand what DW is saying. What I'm saying is that if she had clarified her point, it would have been helpful.

 

[DiablosWhore]

.......I understand what DW is saying. What I'm saying is that if she had clarified her point, it would have been helpful.

I could have written a fucking book, too, but I decided not to!

Where the fuck do you get off accusing me of "attacking" anyone? Who the fuck are you?

 

[Damned_1]

<-------------Sits in the corner, munching popcorn.

 

[LadyVer]

I could have written a fucking book, too, but I decided not to!

Where the fuck do you get off accusing me of "attacking" anyone? Who the fuck are you?

You seem unreasonably hostile.

 

[StrayKat]

I don't doubt what you're saying in the first paragraph. But it's been my experience that when I click on what appears to be an interesting bdsm thread, too often the op is not getting what he asked for. Instead he gets slammed for daring to ask what he asked.

I would have to ask you for an example, because all I ever saw is OPs not getting what they ask for if they ask in distasteful or condescending way. I only see people getting "slammed" when they are obnoxious. It usually has nothing to do with what they ask.
I am very surprised at how much acceptance and serious discussion just about every kink you can imagine gets here.
If you think people on this BDSM board are less than martyrs you should really check some other ones.

People get unreasonably attacked across all forums. I understand what DW is saying. What I'm saying is that if she had clarified her point, it would have been helpful.

People get attacked for a reason, whatever it may be. Unreasonable, I would disagree.
She could have clarified her point but that was up to her, she didnt have to. The main thing is she did have a point, and even if she didnt (in your opinion) how can you tell what exactly made her write what she did (you cant claim to know what caused it and what is going on in her head)?

Oh and I am done bumping OP so you ladies can open a new thread and I will gladly come over to discuss this or whatever.