Do you ever wonder about your wife

[MysteryMan2014]

The wife has told me some things but not all. I also found out some of her past by overhearing conversations she has had with her friends. One of the things I find interestingly erotic is when we discuss her past and I ask her things I have already asked her, the answer changes. Like how the number of her one night stands has gone up. Or things she has done but previously said she didn't. Knowing she is holding back just really fuels the fantasies!!

 

[Kolejdayz]

Sounds like my wife - just changes the subject or just refuses to answer.

Do you ever make guesses at what she did?

 

[Kolejdayz]

The wife has told me some things but not all. I also found out some of her past by overhearing conversations she has had with her friends. One of the things I find interestingly erotic is when we discuss her past and I ask her things I have already asked her, the answer changes. Like how the number of her one night stands has gone up. Or things she has done but previously said she didn't. Knowing she is holding back just really fuels the fantasies!!

Yes "confessions" are sexy, but saying there is something to confess but not confessing is even sexier

 

[MysteryMan2014]

Yes "confessions" are sexy, but saying there is something to confess but not confessing is even sexier

Love knowing a bit of the tale that indicates there are so many more possibilities,, and so many more actual stories to be told!

 

[Kolejdayz]

She denies that she has never been with more than one guy at a time. But I bet she has . . .

 

[jchtlit]

Do you ever make guesses at what she did?

I did and think that I may be spot on.
For one she and a girlfriend used to vacation in europe evry year when they were young sharing a room and going out to clubs to have fun.

 

[Kolejdayz]

I did and think that I may be spot on.
For one she and a girlfriend used to vacation in europe evry year when they were young sharing a room and going out to clubs to have fun.

I also thought that Cindy may have been with women, but some how not a fit

 

[Kolejdayz]

I also thought that Cindy may have been with women, but some how not a fit

bump . . ,

 

[Robert58]

Every once in a while she lets slip something I didn't know about. When we were first married she worked at a university. She was in her mid twenties. She would tell me about a professor her dad's age who kept hitting on her. She had no interest in some OLD man. What she didn't tell me was the two younger professors who ask her to have an affair. She never would admit much more except that she did make out with one of them. Iv'e always wondered what else she did, forty years later she still won't tell me.

About ten years ago I found out she was screwing a friend of hers. She admitted the affair but won't give me many details. Just the basics, BJs, screwing etc. Leaves lots of room for my imagination.

 

[Mu5tang]

Yes "confessions" are sexy, but saying there is something to confess but not confessing is even sexier

I have asked mine about her sexual past several times. She has told me several things. But, even after giving her permission to be fucked multiple times by her married co-worker while on 3 separate business trips.... she still says there are things she won't tell me about her past.

 

[jchtlit]

I also thought that Cindy may have been with women, but some how not a fit

I thought so too until I saw her sharing an outdoor shower with our neighbor at the nudist resort.
They had just finished gardening and decided to shower together to save the hot water.
Something about them soaping each other was a sight to behold.

She always denied that there was something sexual between them.

 

[anniebaby10]

She says there are things she will never tell me

same here....what is in the past is gone.

 

[saintcero]

My wife cheated, confessed due to guilt and then cheated again with the same guy years later. The guys wife discovered the affair the second time and told me.

When I confronted my wife about it we talked a good bit, no yelling or anger displays but I ultimately told her she needed to decide which one of us she wanted. She asked for three days alone to think about everything. That sounded reasonable so we decided she would leave town for a while.

Days later she returned and said she wanted to be with me. I then told her that there could be no more sneaking around and that if she had any problems we would address them as a couple. She agreed.

She hates talking about her cheating and her story changes over time. Now she says she doesn’t remember leaving town. Those three days have just disappeared from her life.

I thought she spent those days with her cousin but now I have to consider that she spent them with her lover instead and she was trying to determine which cock she liked best.

 

[Mu5tang]

I thought she spent those days with her cousin but now I have to consider that she spent them with her lover instead and she was trying to determine which cock she liked best.

How does that make you feel towards her? Was she originally cheating just have an experience or was she looking to replace? I kinda agree, those 3 days was something, and for her not to talk about it, too many secrets.

 

[saintcero]

She cheated for emotional support initially and it grew into something physical over time. I was a crappy husband and she would have been right to leave me. Hooking up and running around is on her.

She had her adventure and carries guilt about it. I use this platform to vent some but I’ve matured a bit and would be ok with her having experiences that make her life complete.