Do YOU have the COJONES to do this???

Re: Re: I've thought about this a bit.........

TN_Vixen said:
Sparks, would you and Shebabe be up for posting a "couple" pic w/out the face?


Looking at the other site I wandered through the pics section and found a sparky2.

Could it be? Is it possible that the sparkmaster looks like this? Enquiring minds would like to know?

http://ganges.connections.yk.ca/thetoychest/PicPagePics/sparky_thumb.jpg

Oh I always thought he looked different, had a second head or something.



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Will we ever learn the answers to these questions? Would he admit it if the pic is his?

[Edited by Ezzy on 11-25-2000 at 04:56 PM]
 
Not even close, Ez

Sparky is a blond, no mustache, and no glasses either.
 
Re: Re: Not even close, Ez

Ezzy said:
just a little honest curiosity you understand


Curiousity killed the cat, oh no, wait, that's me. :D

(check your mail, nosy ;) )
 
Not in this lifetime.

I've voted about the average for the men. A little higher in some cases a little lower in others.

My thought is: Everyone has their own tastes no? I don't share my pic with many ppl. I have a "feeling" about ppl before I do. *shrug* Interesting site tho...
 
Whoa, point well taken Ez, that post came out all wrong. I (for the record) did not send Ezzy a picture of anything. I would never send a picture of anything other than myself. I only sent him one of Sparky's quotes concerning pictures, sorry for any confusion.
 
Lol sorry if it looked like I was saying you did...

I should just point out that Kitten Eyes did not send me a pic, not even her own (SOB SOB).

I would like to apologize to Kitten Eyes for impugning her character by inference and any other’s that I may have offended in any way during this thread.



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Sorry is a familiar song for us, isn't it?

It's not your fault Ez, I should have worded that post better.
 
Heehee, my favorite

Damn thing won't let you vote twice, ten just wasn't sufficient.
 
Wow Thump, nice errr... pic.

Why am I having such a hard time following this thread?? lol
 
I've done a bit of voting now, and I'm consistently way off the average. Usually vote much higher, but the few I did give lower scores to had surprisingly high averages. What the hell? lol
 
Hey....I got a 2.6 LOL!!!

Alright!!!

2.6 with a bullet!!!

hehehehehehehe
 
Ya gotta admit- it would make a great sociological study!

Thanks for all the replies. They pretty much echo what I thought.

I was just baffled as to why anyone would be inclined to do that. My first thought was similar to Sparky's comment - that they must think really highly of themselves (probably erroneously) and want confirmation. Like a mirror for their own self-aggrandizement.

Then there are the poor misguided souls (regardless of what they look like) who need some sort of validation and acceptance and probably can't get it in 'real life' so they look for it on the internet.

I can't imagine what strong egos and thick skin it would take, though, to subject themselves to the potential humiliation. Like Countess de Winter stated it would be a nightmare. (sorry didn't mean to traumatize you! lol)

Skibum and Doc Ollie- I did the same thing you did. I was much kinder in my voting than the majority. Kitten, you are so right. Nowadays people seem to thrive on being mean-spirited and cruel for the fun of it. I don't get that. It's been said that it makes them seem bigger and more powerful -in their own eyes- to belittle someone else. I guess it is just human nature to be judgmental (as well as voyeuristic!)

In any event, we could all do with a bit more of the sentiment from the folks in Charleston, SC who were just named most mannerly/polite city. It doesn't cost anything to say please, thank you, and excuse me.

So...thank you to 'Our Nitelight' for apologizing for his digression, but it wasn't necessary. And it was not a transgression either! (In fact, it was rather sweet and Sir Walter Raleigh-ish of you to come to the aid of the countess.) Rather, I am guilty- for hijacking nicky's football thread. So, I apologize for that.

And Thumper. As a long ago member (Gil) used to say...Oh shit! Oh dear! For the life of me I can't imagine why someone as fine looking as you would have any self-image issues. But you posted pics here anyway and I know all the gals here can't seem to stop singing your praises and have voted you high scores in their minds. I read a little farther and find out that you posted at the other site too! What? You don't get enough (ego) stroking here? C'mon over and let me pet that pretty fur right now!

lala- would that everyone had your kind of confidence level!
 
Actually....

BB I did it for a laugh....Ididn't think they would let the picture remain as it said no lingerie or suggestive poses...I knew it wouldn't get much of a favorable reaction after checking the other results...the only ones to get high scores were the women in sexy poses...sorta tells ya who was voting...interesting site though for observing human nature.

About my self esteem issues, that is a long and interesting tale for another time...I deal with it the best I can and the ladies here are angels for being so kind...I love'em all! Well I would like to love'em all...Yes I am a slut...:D
 
Interesting Results

No. I didn't submit but as a curiosity I voted on a number of the female pictures. My results were quite interesting compared to the tallied results.

I cast only one vote at the 1 level, a guy who I figured deserved a one (since there was no zero) for being too stupid to correctly identify gender on his submission.

Otherwise, I found those toward the middle I was pretty much in agreement. Those at the high end (8-9) I was generally 1-1.5 below the average.

The really interesting part was those who were in the 1-3 range of average. On those I was typically 2-4 above the average!

What does that say about my perceptions and expectations? Any comments? I asked so any response is fair so long as it's your honest opinion.
 
Re: I would...but I won't...

Thumper said:
I have no doubt about my narcissism...and I do enjoy the feedback. It is an ego trip and it does point up a very low self image. It has led to other problems for me that I will not go into here. Suffice it to say it is like a drug. A harmless one though....if it makes them feel good then I say go for it. There are photos right here in the amateur section from people seeking attention...

I think I have said enough here...maybe too much..

Thumper, I wasn't making it a personal issue here... and your comment about pics on the amateur section indicates that you may think I was. It is one thing to post a pic on a site where you are developing friendships and revealing a lot of information about yourself in order for those people to visualize you and another totally to post on a basically anonymous site where all you're doing is looking for feedback. I'm not saying there's anything WRONG with it, I just stated my personal opinion about the level of a person's self-confidence.

I apologize if you took what I said to be ugly and cutting to those who post on that site. It wasn't meant to be taken that way.

And, btw.. I voted on yours. *smile*
 
Oops!

I did not take anything you said personally. I was just commenting on my own reasons for posting my pictures here in the newsletter. I only posted on the other site as a gag. I couldn't resist;) Hey I am at a blistering 1.9 as of last night. While I may have a deep-rooted need to have my ego stroked I also have the ability to laugh at myself. What my friends think, that matters...what the general population thinks, I could not care less. I was only referring to those who have posted pictures on this site anonymously (non member/regular visitor) seeking feedback and even asking repeatedly for it. It is different from a regular who sends in a picture after letting the others get to know them a bit. I rarely check out the pictures unless I know someone who is going to post one...and yours....YUMMY! For the Big Kitty too LOL!

I am sorry if what I said was construed as a slam against those who post here...regulars or no...
 
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