Do you like to be watched as you pleasure yourself?

I have masturbated for just about every woman I’ve ever been with. My wife loves watching me and controlling my orgasms.

I probably masturbate for her 3-4x a week. We practice orgasm control (she controls me) so she lets me edge and edge and edge myself into lustful bliss (she always tells me “no cumming” in an very sweet way).

After more edging she then sez “ok, times up.” Or “time for you to go to work.” and leaves me high and dry. I love it and she loves watching me so horny and frustrated…
 
I don't have a straight answer that always applies here....

I don't like being watched when I jerk off just for the sake of being watched. I am never going to say "I want you to watch me" the n have at myself for 10 minutes while she sits there looking bored.

But if the woman I am with wants to watch and is clearly enjoying the show.... hell I'll turn the event into a Broadway stage play with proper lighting and choreography. Watching her enjoy it and know that I am turning her on.... oh hell yes.

But she HAS to be really into it. Just being watched by anyone is not my thing.
 
I like watching and being watched. Most of the women I’ve been with over the years have watched me and I them. My wife will watch sometimes. Also have a jerk buddy that watches me when we play. And I like doing it on cam as well.
 
I have fantasized about someone watching me, but I have never done it. I think because I'm loud and probably look ridiculous when having an orgasm, not at all what guys probably expect or would even like :eek:
Don’t disparage yourself. I’d love to watch or just listen, loud or not. I doubt I’m the only one either
 
I touch myself in my hubby's presence mostly after I had sex with him and he ejaculated prematurely leaving me unsatsfied. This happens fairly often, and I touch myself either to reach a climax or to reignite him to do me again.
That's almost depressing. I kinda prefer she cums first, 2nd, and 3rd before I cum. It just... seems right.
 
Mmm a massive turn on for me, I used to really enjoy playing online for ladies, and one very sexy instance when I was on the phone and mutually masturbating with a lady when her husband got turned on and started to fuck her while we talked and she described what was happening and of course we all came incredibly powerfully :)
 
I don't mind doing it for my partners, but the idea of being watched is not a turn-on for me.
 
I love to be watched …. I think it’s a huge turn on … I do it online a lot and I want my wife to catch me just to see what would happen…
 
I have been watched on a number of times and it does give an extra thrill to proceedings. I also love to watch others bringing themselves off, male or female. I was often watched by my exwife and exgf's who were more than happy to let me watch, knowing that a "fun time for all" would result straight after their orgasm...
 
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