Do you like to be watched as you pleasure yourself?

I often like to stroke my cock while the lady and I have engage in our post-sex cuddling and kissing. Sometimes she'll just watch me stroke for a few minutes while she whispers encouragements in my ear like "I love watching you stroke that big cock". It's definitely put me in the mood for a round 2 before.

Hey, CA, that was me last night. I'd been lying on the bed while my woman rode me to a long-drawn-out-mega for herself, but I was no-where near [age thing]. So when she came off and lay her head on my chest, I stayed as I was and played some with my pole which stayed at total pump-up, my whole junk ringed in steel giving it some splendour, her juices all over cock, balls, ring, hair, and my hand. She and I enjoyed the show a while. ;)
 
I enjoy being watched, but really when it's mutual. When we can both pleasure ourselves, and the other playmate is enjoying both watching and masturbating, the excitement I feel from my own body is matched by the excitement I feel for her. It can be amazing. Especially when we talk about our thoughts of what each other is doing.
 
same here being told and telling what to do to yourself
 
Yes I want my wife to watch me jerk off. Over another mans shoulder as he's fucking her.
 
My wife loves to watch me ......she sometimes will give me head and then tells me to jack off while she watches....and she wants me to tell her who or what I'm thinking about while I'm stroking . Turns me on tremendously !!!

I love it when my wife tells me she wants to watch me jack off. She knows I will do it whenever she asks. I've told her I will do it any time, anywhere she wants. I've suggested she invite a friend or two but, I don't think she is going to do that.
 
Do I like being watched during sex or whatever? No....... I LOVE IT! One two or more. My kink, I guess. :D
This very much includes masturbating with an "audience.." :D
 
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Watching each other masturbate is something my BF and I love doing and it definitely gets us in the mood.
 
Side by side,both masturbating at the same time has always been one of my favorites.
Even hotter is when the girl lays next to me,she's clothed,I'm naked with an arm around her while I stroke myself.
 
One of my favorite things to do is masturbate in front of my husband while I'm completely naked and he's nicely dressed. (A suit is best.) I don't want him to do anything except watch. I love feeling vulnerable and exposed while he's so buttoned up and in control. It's very hard to convince him not to join in however.
 
it would be so much fun to masturbate with another woman right in front of me
 
Men OR women....Do you like to be watched as you masturbate? By the same sex, or the opposite sex? What have been your experiences?

I really enjoy being watch by woman. Something about watching her squirm or even touch herself while I stroke my cock, really turns me on.

I used to stroke my cock for a women on cam, while she was at work. Because of the location of her desk, she couldn't do anything but watch. The hungry and desire filled look on her face was so exiting.
 
Not watched, but doing it over the phone can be pretty cool. It's not an exhibitionist thing though. It has to be with a friend, or at least someone I know or am getting to know. I had a phone partner but that's not going on anymore so I'm looking for someone else to get to know and eventually do it with now that she's not doing it anymore. It wasn't all about the sexual nature of it either, as weird as that sounds. She and I kind of developed a deeper connection that way. And I'm not just looking for someone to listen or jill off for me and that's it. It would have to be someone I think I can trust and talk to and all that. So it's kind of specific for me in that I only want that specific thing. And it has to be with someone who's not more than a year or two older than me. So it's not like I just want someone to listen to me, you know? It has to be a connection. That's the only way I would enjoy it. And I don't want to be watched at all. That never excited me to be honest. It's just never been about that for me personally.

So those are my personal feelings on the subject.

I guess there's something related I could talk about too, which is that I've done the "guided" thing a number of times over the phone and online and that's fun so I know there are several women who like to be listened to or at least observed in some way, whether it's being watched, listened to, or just chatted with online. So a lot of people are into things like this. Many don't admit it. I did it with friends many times and never said anything to anyone else we knew. It was just our special thing. I think that goes on more than most people think.
 
of course i do. who can watch and not reciprocate. it's better the more that join in.
 
Love stroking in front of a woman. Most times I like it when she brushes her fingers up and down my thigh. Turns me on so much surprised I haven't pulled my cock off my body from stroking so hard.
 
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