Do you prefer CFNM or CMNF

I prefer CMNF. Eventually NMNF but letā€™s take our time to that point. There is much to admire.
 
I'm working on a CFNM story, but I haven't worked out all of the details, yet. This is vaguely based on a real scenario of which I am aware, but which I have not experienced.
 
And knowing that you look at his excitement, he would loose all limits, he would become so uninhibited that he would fulfill all your sexually charged requests no matter how kinky they are.
You just described me! When I am naked with my SO, I have no limits. I love her to see my excitement. I am hers to do with as she pleases and she knows it.
 
I have seen a number of threads about CFNM/CMNF and most are just pic threads. I am curious about which is arousing to you and why? Would like to hear from women and men on the subject.
I was with a friend and we had naked women around us while we were clothed. It wasnā€™t any different then me being at a strip club.

It wasnā€™t until we got naked that the fun began.
 
Both. When something is good fun and sexy, there is no point prejudicing one choice for the other. According to the situation and whether I want to be pleased, or the guy I'm enjoying turning on deserves a treat, my choices vary in all things. And both have aspects that create frustration, such as CFNM needing the washing machine pretty quickly straight afterwards.
 
He wished that he could bump into a Domme,
To earn himself such a fine thrashing,
That he could relax and watch her having fun,
Giving her submissive a wonderful bashing...

MĆ©li šŸŒ· šŸŒ· šŸŒ·
Beat me, bind me, whip me,
Subjugate and strip me,
Tie me to the bed,
Spank me cherry red,
Tell me that I'm worthless,
Say it mean and mirthless,
Tell me you deplore me,
But please, don't just ignore me!
 
I was a dorky tomboy and it really freaked me out when I started to develop and got that sort of attention. I was so self-consciousā€”I remember being in awe of the ā€œgirly girlsā€ who seemed to slip into the role so naturally. Eventually I figured out how to perform femininity and even enjoy it, but I still find it exhausting. Being a middled-aged mom has made it a little betterā€”less pressure to ā€œput on a good showā€. Now I can go back to being a dork.

And yeah, men totally donā€™t get it.
That's an incredible explanation. I had honestly never thought that women had to "become" women and dive into that role, and that the role is very much shaped and determined my male (or female) desire...

I think men get much more insulated from that...
 
The idea of CMnf has always been a fantasy of mine. I like to feel powerless and embarrassed, this carries the beautiful blend of the two for me. I would be willing to naked as much as my partner felt like it. Just in love with this fantasy.
It's amazing isn't it? The vulnerability, availability, inability to cover up and the sensation of being touched at any moment, when undertaking some mundane task or chore. It really feels like a service in so many ways ...šŸ„°
 
I strongly prefer CMNM, actually. Especially in real life, since I'm a submissive gay. But I can appreciate some CFNM as well, as long as the F really is in command (which is not always the case!) and as long as it is not really all just about pleasing the M's sexual desires (which most of the time it is in CFNM porn).

Ignoring for a moment the fact that I'm "not free", I would never actively seek out an CFNM scenario. But since I am indeed "not free", I would accept if my owner were to push me into a CFNM setup. The extra humiliation from having to accept that would likely be an interesting experience.

Actually, I can also imagine a CXNMNF scenario, as long as the NF is as submissive as I am.
 
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Both are a fantasy of mine as I would love to participate in either or both. But on my sex bucket list is CFNM. There is something about it that rules the fantasy. And in my CFNM fantasy is it more than one female
 
CMNF! I have such strong fantasies about being nude and presented for a group of men. Maybe tied or positioned with my legs open, so they can feel and probe my pussy as they wish. Made to orgasm for their entertainment. So hot.
 
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