Do you prefer fucking or making love?

[CelticFrog]

It entirely depends. On several things, even.

1) How much time do we have?
2) Are we making up?
3) Did he bother planning anything out?
4) Are we both feeling well and well rested?
5) Is our son asleep?
blah blah blah...
there are so many variables that this is an almost completely impossible question to answer.

Generally, J and I end up bucking like funnies (as my previously prude mother has so eloquently put it) but oft-times we start out with nice, slow lovemaking. The pace generally starts off nice and slow (when it's 'normal' sex... about 1/2 the time) but by the time we're finished, we're panting and gasping for breath because we've become ferrets on crack.

Pig sex. Great stuff, when you're not even talking, yer just rootin' around!

Ang

 

[Meat Whistler]

Either, both, and yes please. It's been so long, I'd take whatever I can get.

 

[Noor]

I like both, depending on my mood and partner but if I could only have one I would prefer making love.

I think it has more to do with the depth of feeling than the speed of the sex.

I prefer intense sexual experiences that involve my mind, body and heart but somedays with some guys I just want to fuck.

Its like eating a 5 star or getting a quick bite, having a quick shower or a long luxurious soak in a nice deep bath tub.

 

[ldlarry52]

Hard fucking or sensual love making. Personally, I prefer down and "dirty" hard fucking. My wife likes to be fucked hard, too. But, she likes to be warmed up first.

Out of love and a desire to please her and meet her needs I enjoy giving her the soft touch, kissing and holding her in ways she enjoys.

We both know what the other wants and we mutaully give to each other.

Last night she wanted some cock and said so much. Once the little one was put down she comes into bed strips down and we begin to cuddle. Soon I pushed her down for some cock sucking. She happily slid down and began sucking me. Once I was hard she began to take me deeper and deeper till she had all seven inches. This was a first for her. She new it was turning me on because I got harder and as she went down I put my hands on her head a pulled and held her down. That was hot "dirty" sex.

Next, I gave her the fuck she wanted. It varied from slow to fast and hard. I took her hands into mine and with our arms extended we fucked slow and sensually.

I finished with a good hard fast fuck filling her with cum.

You can have hard fuck and sensual during the same "session". Or just one. If I am choosing it's usually down and dirty. But, soft and sensual is good to.
LDLarry52

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

both at different times

 

[love2xxx]

Being greedy here & say both.
But in a way i think with JUSt sex anyone can do that in some way or another as a functional

But MAKING LOVE involves emotions & feelings from someone very very special which can be so magical with a partner you truely love,and you can see that they share those same emotions which can be priceless.
So Id choose making love because with the right partner you can have the hardcore sex aswell when you feel like it.

Hours of fun when you have someone who starts off slow playing with you looking deep in to your eyes kissing you with so much passion, then we would hold each other sucking & licking each other then all of a sudden it would get down right dirty thenafter a long hard fuck or two we would end up back to the slow love making. so you can have it all.

Ohlala!!Im so lucky.
N

 

[ozraven]

When you have sex do you prefer fucking or making love? I prefer hardcore nasty sweaty hardcore fucking, slow love making isn't really for me, how about you guys?

This is one of those polls where this is not enough options..........

 

[sweetjulia]

wow i can't believe how controversial such a simple question was. to me it wasn't a matter of choosing to satisfy a partner or to satisfy oneself solely. it was a simple a matter of which do you prefer chocolate or vanilla, yes there are many choices in between but honestly doesn't everyone really have a preference. to those who say no they don't i say "are you sure, you have no favourites?" if so i don't believe you could be particularly discerning.

and me? yes like most of the other postees of this opinion, i too enjoy a good hard pounding best, the slow lovemaking is only a lead in to the hard stuff for me.

 

[Gods_Favorite]

wow i can't believe how controversial such a simple question was.

Neither can I.

 

[Carnus]

To me it is a very mood dependent thing.

Waking up and feeling someone warm and sleepy against you is a wonderful inspiration for making love softly and tenderly. Slowly waking them with light touches and a kiss, then gently pulling her closer and slowly enjoying each other until you both look in each others eyes and exlode together.

Walking in the door from a long day at work and seeing your SO leaned over in a short skirt and no panties is an inspiration to fuck, grab her by the hips as you lean her over the arm of the couch and pound her until you both scream and the people next door call the cops.

Or just sex,, that I am a bit horny, but not really in the mood for some hardcore action, but don't want to cuddle, lets just get each other off good sex.

Carnus

(no real answer)

 

[BirdsWife]

if so i don't believe you could be particularly discerning.

And I don't believe you could be so incredibly rude.

How hard is it to understand that some of us are so discerning that we enjoy a little variety in our lives? Sure chocolate is great, but I'd get sick of eating it every single day.

 

[Eating_Scarlett]

You know, even when my boyfriend and I are having crazymonkeydonkey sex, and the whole neighbourhood is getting the benefit of our sexual soundtrack, and the bedroom walls are shaking... even when he's fucking me so hard my body entire body is vibrating and my teeth are clanging together....

I still consider that "making love" to him.

 

[ReadyOne]

You know, even when my boyfriend and I are having crazymonkeydonkey sex, and the whole neighbourhood is getting the benefit of our sexual soundtrack, and the bedroom walls are shaking... even when he's fucking me so hard my body entire body is vibrating and my teeth are clanging together....

I still consider that "making love" to him.

It's the person, not the act!

 

[Ms_Lilith]

Both. When I'm in a long-term relationship, I have to have both. When I'm having a tryst or fling, fuck me hard every time.

 

[Eating_Scarlett]

It's the person, not the act!

Can you make the distinction between fucking and making love when you're in love with the person you're sleeping with? Even when he/she is just slamming you, aren't you still making love?

 

[lovechild27]

Even when he/she is just slamming you, aren't you still making love?

I would say so...

this is controversial because you cant just pigeon hole sex into one catagory. Even raunchy fucking is still an act of making love and uber romantice, slow sex isnt always everyones idea of an ideal 'love making' situation. Its putting everyones sexual preferences into a stereotype that many wouldnt agree with.

 

[mjl1960]

It is all about passion....true passion comes with love...fucking is just that....

 

[Lady Tango]

I'm not sure if there is a differnce. For me "fucking" embraces intimacy, foreplay etc. I love the tenderness and warmth my partners brings to my bedroom but I also know that he is aware that for me to reach orgasm I need a good hard fuck! However, in some circles "fucking" is interpretated as sex without feeling but for me it is the climax of a truly wonderful sexual experience between two lovers.

 

[stuntcock]

It highly depends on the mood/person I'm with. I'd say I end up engaging in both about the same, but they both have their place.

edit: love the avatar peechy!

 

[A7inchPhildo]

Gods_Favorite,

I guess after reading and some of the respones your poll could have been worded differently if the Question was Hey it is saturday night and the kids are at the inlaws what would be your first thought on the kind of sex to have? or something to that nature then I would have picked hard and fast, that is the most commonly desired by me.

 

[nazguy]

both are kinda fun, depends on the situation,

but I love meeting my lady somewhere unexpected, taking her deep into the forest and making love for hours.

and of course its always so hot when driving in jeep we pull over off the road for a quick hard fuck just out of site of traffic.

WHEW!

 

[hotforhim]

I don't feel like overthinking this. My first reaction to your question was that I prefer hard nasty fucking, probably because
1) This fits the mood I am in, not just this minute but in my life in general right now and
2) Because I am not really getting it, even though I have expressed I would like it.

So right now a good hard fucking sounds more desirable to me, but like most of you I can appreciate both at one time or another.