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Male4Strapon said:
Your wife is a keeper! Mine was like that at one time. Now I have to go to escorts for pegging because she refuses.
She would be amazed at the talents I have developed since she last pegged me lol
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Any idea why she stopped wanting to peg you?
 
Crios said:
Any idea why she stopped wanting to peg you?
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I do. We have discussed it and she gave her reasons which i do not believe at all. so I have my theories as to why.

I will try to be as brief as possible.

According to her (when we first discussed the lack of pegging) this was just something that was fun when we were younger but as we aged it was no longer something she wanted.
Since then she has added in subsequent discussions that I wanted it too much, which made her question my sexual preferences. She suddenly started applying ignorant labels and stereotypes that “only gay men enjoy receiving anal.”
This was never something that concerned her before when we did it so I believe this is just an excuse, even though I do have bi desires (she doesn't know) but those only began long after pegging stopped.

My theory is that she had marriage as a significant life goal. She was willing to do just about anything to eventually achieve that. Once we married, it was like a runner who stops running after a race. Marriage was her finish line.
The reason I suspect this is that it wasn't just pegging. Even regular sex became infrequent and kinkier elements became rare beginning almost immediately after the day we married. I don't remember the last blowjob I received. Sex is once every few months. Anything beyond that has long disappeared.
I think she just felt that sex was no longer a priority for her, she no longer felt a need to ensure that I was satisfied.

To be clear, I do not believe that she intentionally misled me, I believe it is completely subconscious. She just stopped trying basically.

I mentioned in another thread an embarrassing experience when her sister accidentally discovered that we were into pegging. Ironically pegging increased at that time but that was just to prove to me and her that this incident wouldn't impact our pegging. I suspected that and she has confirmed that, but the slide had begun long before that. So that incident was not a factor.
 
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Goldenfinger said:
Unfortunately it happens to the point that it’s a common stereotype with marriage. We seem to be getting kinkier as we age to offset the aches of getting older.
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Have to agree with that. I want to do more but the missus isn’t into real kinks. And, we are getting a lot less agile
 
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