Do you take sexy pics with your lover?

Kenny9990

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My wife and I have just started using our digital camera to take nude pictures and pictures of us in various sex acts. It is a big turn on to both of us and "livens" up a sex life which needs some help.

We pretty much take pictures of everything we do but she doesn't like face shots very much.

I wonder--how common is this? Do you and your
lover(s) take sexy pictures? If so, what are your rules and limits?
 
Well if I had one I certainly would. Of course only if it's alright with her.
But I'd prefer erotic photos by a professional. I think those can be a huge turn on, you know, like black and white pics, with profssional lighting in a nude but erotic pose.
Stuff like that. Obvious hardcore pics are kinda boring. They are just for masturbation, lol. :)

Snoopy
 
Taking pics can be loads of fun. It's foreplay in a way. The only rules and limits we have....if one of us doesn't feel comfortable with or like what we're doing we stop.
 
I guess I'm one of those few who don't like the idea. No matter how much I trusted the person taking the pictures, the thought of them somehow getting into the wrong hands has always been enough to stop me. :(

S.
 
sheath said:
I guess I'm one of those few who don't like the idea. No matter how much I trusted the person taking the pictures, the thought of them somehow getting into the wrong hands has always been enough to stop me. :(

S.

Yes there is that thought... but if you don't trust your SO enough you wouldn't go that far anyways, right?

Me and my SO are both exhibitionists, so we love taking pictures.

I love taking pictures of myself *sexy pictures* i love showing off... i just don't have the right equipment as in the camera and such :p

The turn on is there because of all the other ppl watching, and seeing you and your naked body or not so naked.... whichever.
But i just love the feeling of knowing that someone else would be enjoying the pictures as much as i, taking them. :cool:
 
sheath said:
I guess I'm one of those few who don't like the idea. No matter how much I trusted the person taking the pictures, the thought of them somehow getting into the wrong hands has always been enough to stop me. :(

S.

Yeah, I feel the same way. I love my honey, and we have been together for over a decade now. But there are two places I won't go:

1. Tattooing his name on my person.
2. Letting him take nude pictures of me.

It's in part about having them fall into the wrong hands at some point. My hubby is not malicious and he would feel protective of such pictures, but he is also sort of an airhead about that sort of thing.

The Poodle
 
We have taken a few nude photos of each other. The "shoot" was a lot of fun. She liked me telling her what to wear and how to pose. However when we got the pics back, I thought she looked amazingly hot, but she wasn't happy with them. I have wanted to try it again, but since she didn't enjoy how the pictures turned out, we haven't done it. If she is ever willing to pose again, I would do it in a heartbeat.
 
Getting the wife infront of a camera with her clothes on is Ni-on impossible, anything else would be a real mission impossible.

:cool:
 
ny11011 said:
What if it was promised they would be handled with out hands? I mean is it just the hands that bother you? :rose:

Well...I never thought of it that way, but I suppose...if I were shown the result of those pictures being handled without hands, and the results were sufficiently...ummm...arousing...then I might consider it. :D

S.
 
Keep them with/in your camera.

Assuming a digital camera, just keep them on the media (Smart Card, Memory Stick, etc.).

You don't have to download them to the computer to see them; most computer photo programs can preview in the camera.

If you have a media reader then the media appears like another disk (drive letter). You can browse them fine; just don't drag and drop them anywhere.

(You can also open for editing on your compter, and after editing, save the updated copy back to the same folder & name. Most cameras don't care that you changed it.)

You can edit the photos in the camera (like deleting bad ones, rotating, sometimes croping) so the media won't fll so fast.

Carry the media with you; put it in the stong box, what ever you feel comfortable with.

My Canon A40 has a cord that connects to the TV so I can see better than the 2" viewscreen. Imagine a close-up on a wide screen TV!
 
My wife lets me post just about anything we do except her face. I don't blame her, although sometimes it's hard for those we're showing to see just how much she's turned on by the thought of people looking at us while getting kinky.

Just respect her wishes and you'll both have loads.....pun intended.....of fun.
 
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Kinda funny...I hate most pics....but have never minded my SO taking pics of our fun. We have never taken pictures of sex acts but he loves to take pics while he has me in various bondage. We both get a kick out of sharing them too. But that is just us.

I think the bottom line is whether you are both comfortable...if so...go for it and enjoy.
 
We take pics all the time. Some just for fun and others in a controled situation. The controled ones are with the make up, hair, outfits, and lights. We then save the best posed shots and many of the candid to CDs. Before the digital camera we had hundreds of prints. We have scanned them and they are now also on CDs. It is a history so to speak. We have pics now from the past 15 or so years on file.

Photography is my hobby and my SO loves to pose.

We do very little stills of sex acts. That is what the video is for. LOL Videos are much harder to do. To do right they take planning and you have to discuss what you want in them. You also have to remember they are not so great when there is only one camera angle your working with. Some things just don't look all that great at certain angles. Video is best done when someone else is behind the camera. For many that is very hard to do. Some find it more exciting. I have found that once a couple relaxes a bit and starts to get heated up they forget that someone is actually standing/kneeling/laying there shooting a video of them.

A word of caution. Never host your pictures on the internet. Even though your site is password protected and you think they are safe, they are NOT. I have known 2 ladies who's pics were hosted on what they thought was a secure site for their eyes or the eyes of their guest only. They found out that their pics were showing up on various adult sites and it took quite a bit of time getting them removed. While they did get them removed, they will never know how many people downloaded them and if they will ever return to adult sites because of it. Keep your pictures on some type of media that you control.
 
Interestingly we've never gotten into stills. But when video cameras got affordable, we went wild . Don't know what was more fun, making the videos or watching them later together.
 
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