Do your fellow literoticans know this about you?

[Silverlily]

but now I've gotten out of the closet!! lol

<weg> We shall tie you up and put you back in!

purrrr, Mistress Hecate's zoo. Kitties don't normally like collars, but I am willing to learn. May I play with Merelan too?

 

[ShyGuy68]

<weg> We shall tie you up and put you back in!

Well if you try that, you might find yourself over my knees, and your butt being spanked with one of Hecates crops!!!

 

[Silverlily]

Yes, a fitting punishment for such naughty behavior. If I say I'm sorry, can I still have the spanking?

 

[ShyGuy68]

Ohh I'm sure something can be arranged!!

 

[Expertise]

Height, April. I would have guessed 5'8" or 5'9" from the pic.

 

[Guest]

 

[Silverlily]

I was only kidding I was calling Merelan a doll.

You can join us in Hecate's kitty play place, if you'd like.

 

[Savage Kitten]

Is there a non-sexual application to BDSM?

I think if 'non-sexual' referrs to not having intercourse...sex.. then I believe the answer is Yes.. i've spoken with a woman who owns and operates a BDSM business in Altanta GA and she 'said' there is no sexual activity between her Dommes and male clients... she said it was a side that the men who went there was curious about.. need to explore or expierence more.. that it helped them get in touch with their inner person

correct me if i am wrong.. I have found that if the person (male or female) plays a dominant role in their professional life that they are more apt to be submissive sexually... and if the person (male or female) generally does not have much control over their life (social and professional) they are the ones who tend to have the more aggressive nature... sometimes a closet Dom.. sexually... and when the roles are revealed to these people there is usually a sense of relief... and outlet for flustrations

I also believe that people that are able to be switches (both Dom and sub) are so greatly in touch with their own personality and sexuality

which is something I don't think she touched on...

besides myself I think Merelan, Hecate, possibly Killer MuffMuff, and Nicole have the 'switch' type of personality

 

[Nicole]

Besides myself I think Merelan, Hecate, possibly Killer MuffMuff, and Nicole have the 'switch' type of personality

Savage do you have a camera on me, or have you been talking to someone???

Ummm ... Okay the truth is out, I do have a Small Dominant side, but only if I want HIM to be more dominant with me, I fight back and make him have to discipline me, that sort of thing.

Wow you people do pay attention don't you??? You never cease to amaze me.

Take Care

 

[Always]

depends on who it is you're playing BDSM with. sometimes, certain people invoke the dominant side, or the submissise side. no real experience,so i can't really say.