Do your fetishes change over time?

[Rickstrasser]

Yes

 

[Justtina]

I would say so yes

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Oohh for sure...

I used to love watching men piss, that kinda faded..
I used to be more into D/s and for a few years was in a ddlg dynamic.
No longer interested in that.

I do have a penis worshipping fetish about a certain man's cock.
I do enjoy showing my body online here as an example of my exhibitionism fetish/kink....

 

[hilton1958]

I wouldn't say they change, its just that occasionally new ones get added, and they take prominence for a while, but the older ones remain, and resurface.

 

[LoveAllKink1972]

Oohh for sure...

I used to love watching men piss, that kinda faded..
I used to be more into D/s and for a few years was in a ddlg dynamic.
No longer interested in that.

I do have a penis worshipping fetish about a certain man's cock.
I do enjoy showing my body online here as an example of my exhibitionism fetish/kink....

We sure appreciate your fetish!

 

[Stopokochac]

The old ones haven't gone away, but new ones have developed

 

[Nylonian]

I wonder if anyone else has fetishes that change over time? When I was younger I used to have a panty fetish. Sniff my wife's panties while masterbating or eating her our with her panties on or even having sex while wearing her panties. Would rather see my wife in her panties then naked especially if she was wearing stockings. Stopped for years when I used one of her panties to masterbate and told her the next day I loved her new panties. Found out she had bought them for my step daughter who just turned 15. Wasn't until my daughters moved out that I ever thought about panties....lol. From then I have gone through periods where pubic sex or exhibition turned me on. Period where loved JOI porn and like to masterbate while wife watched. Then a period where fucking my wife while she was on the phone turned me on. And of course threesomes appeared there for a year or two. Now I like to think about eating my wife out after I came in her pussy or even eat her out with another guys creampie in her. Never happened, but I can fantasize. I even fantasize about her using a strap on dildo on me.

No. If anything, I'm collecting fetishes like fountain pens. My latest one is white satin gloves...

 

[clapper25]

I've had the panty fetish since I was 9. Since then I love panties and public flashing and exposure. I am also a voyeur of my neighbors and love traveling and voyeur the hotel or neighbor homes around. Always carry a good binoculars.

 

[Bicouple2play]

We think that our fetishes have stayed the same over the years and in the beginning have added new ones.

 

[mwmforfun]

It's the rare human whose sexual interests, turn-ons, sexuality, etc. remain static throughout life. It's all but axiomatic that every human being's sexuality (in the broadest sense) will change and morph.

Expecting otherwise, or having a partner who expects otherwise, can cause problems.

 

[Sign54]

yes, I find different things sexy than I used to.

 

[briancamdudetenger2018]

mine still does change from time to time but its depending on what they are

 

[Live4themoments]

mine still does change from time to time but its depending on what they are

Or who your partner is!

 

[KyleR215]

Yes, they do change.

But Kinda sorta.

For example, I was very big into lesbians. Then it was anal. Then it was pegging. Then it was orgy. Then it was….

My fetish changes periodically. It depends on the mood. I am into all my fetishes but which one is foremost in my mind at any given time can change from time to time or month to month.

 

[Dearelliot]

by quite a bit over time

 

[Easybi]

I think I've got so much "gayer" over the past few years from being disgusted with gay acts to constantly thinking about cock

 

[Isinlarsa]

Yes, they do change.

But Kinda sorta.

For example, I was very big into lesbians. Then it was anal. Then it was pegging. Then it was orgy. Then it was….

My fetish changes periodically. It depends on the mood. I am into all my fetishes but which one is foremost in my mind at any given time can change from time to time or month to month.

For me it's been a progression, moving to trying things I never even thought about as a young man.

 

[bjlatx]

I seem to be accumulating them as we go along.

 

[FoxtrotJulietRomeo]

It's the rare human whose sexual interests, turn-ons, sexuality, etc. remain static throughout life. It's all but axiomatic that every human being's sexuality (in the broadest sense) will change and morph.

Expecting otherwise, or having a partner who expects otherwise, can cause problems.

"Men take up with women, hoping they won't change but they do. Women take up with men hoping we'll change but we don't"

No idea who originally said that but it's been demonstrated MANY times...!!

 

[Isinlarsa]

"Men take up with women, hoping they won't change but they do. Women take up with men hoping we'll change but we don't"

No idea who originally said that but it's been demonstrated MANY times...!!

Well, going from a faithful monogamous wife to a hotwife is one example. Some changes are good.

 

[Guardianweekender]

When I met my wife (age 20), I had strong fetish of seeing her tiny petite body hate-fucked and used.

Some 27 years later, I still want her used like that!

27 years of unchanged and unfulfilled fantasy!

 

[mwmforfun]

"Men take up with women, hoping they won't change but they do. Women take up with men hoping we'll change but we don't"

No idea who originally said that but it's been demonstrated MANY times...!!

I don't know. I'm a man whose sexual interests have gradually evolved over the course of my life, moving through various phases.

 

[Live4themoments]

Or who your partner is!

So true! It seems like if my partner is hot and/or has a good personality, I will agree to almost anything and enjoy it!

 

[briancamdudetenger2018]

Or who your partner is!

yup

 

[andthighbootsforall]

Whether or not your fetish changes I would think depends on how significant it is to you. One of my first exposures into sex or porn was through looking at several of the adult magazines I found under my dads bed.

Back in the day the back of the mags had phone numbers you could call and pay to listen to someone chat with you that was supposedly dressed a certain way.

The options as I recall were you could speak with a “very sexy lady” dressed in either lace, latex, or leather. Personally I was always drawn to the picture of the girl dressed in leather and wouldn’t have thought twice about calling the other numbers.

I really like lace and latex, but leather gets my juices flowing even a half century later.

Would it be safe to say that ones fetishes could fall into different classifications?

I tend to think we have “core” fetishes and others that are somewhat on the fringe? It might even be the case where you thought something was a fetish, but you were really just experimenting with it for a time and grew out of it?

I think you can grow out of something due to bad experiences or over use, but I agree with several of the previous posters that your fetishes are sort of like a tool box that you just keep adding to.