Does phone sex still exist?

[Mr_BadExample]

I have this exact remote controlled vibe and yes it definitely adds, especially when you cam too and he gets to literally see what he is doing to you, as he does it

I must agree with you, I love the added excitement of watching as I control the toy; either in person or on cam. Keep playing!!

 

[Mikethick57]

I lost my phone sex partner 6 months ago. She up and quit, no notice and blocked me from contacting her in any way. Don’t know if I want to find a replacement...she was quite good and knew me oh so well.

 

[PaulieJay]

I have this exact remote controlled vibe and yes it definitely adds, especially when you cam too and he gets to literally see what he is doing to you, as he does it

Yeah Im really trying to find a partner & reach that level of play, even if cam is not involved (bonus if it is) but the inhancement of controlling a remote my voice and erotic imagination I know would make for an explosively good time

I lost my phone sex partner 6 months ago. She up and quit, no notice and blocked me from contacting her in any way. Don’t know if I want to find a replacement...she was quite good and knew me oh so well.

Yeah Ive lost a few phone friends over the years and now it seems so much more difficult to find new or willing friends sadly. This is absolutely my fetish & its been difficult

 

[PaulieJay]

Do you really believe there's an art to phone sex?

Some think phone sex is weird or it isn't really sex & some even believe that its something easy to do just talk dirty & moan. Others like me think there's an actual art to be able to form the right words, with the right voice, with the right timing, to have a person not only picture themselves having actual sex but can also actually feel it. Agree or disagree?

 

[StarGazer58]

What, like remote controlled sex toys? Because those definitely exist, for example: https://hertoysreview.com/remote-control-vibrator/

I was reading one time about these suits that each would wear to give the sensation of the couple touching and exploring each other through the internet. Very futuristic and I am sure years away. I have seen the remote control vibrators but have no actual experience. I have a buddy who told me about his wife wearing one while they were out and he could use a remote to turn it on and off. Says his wife reaction was a lot of fun to watch.

 

[StarGazer58]

I have this exact remote controlled vibe and yes it definitely adds, especially when you cam too and he gets to literally see what he is doing to you, as he does it

Now that would take camming to a new level. PM to Phone to Camming to controlling devices. It only seems to get better. Now just need more people to follow the lead and advance out of the dark ages of PMs to more real interaction. lol

 

[LoveLiving]

What, like remote controlled sex toys? Because those definitely exist, for example: https://hertoysreview.com/remote-control-vibrator/

Those are fun. Want to try some with me?

 

[SithLordSexyPants1]

I haven't had phone sex since before I got married 14 years ago. Had once or twice with other women while I was engaged.
Used to love having it. Wouldn't mind finding someone to give it a try with again.

 

[StarGazer58]

Some think phone sex is weird or it isn't really sex & some even believe that its something easy to do just talk dirty & moan. Others like me think there's an actual art to be able to form the right words, with the right voice, with the right timing, to have a person not only picture themselves having actual sex but can also actually feel it. Agree or disagree?

I would agree with you. Everything has to click to make it work for both parties.

 

[PaulieJay]

I would agree with you. Everything has to click to make it work for both parties.

Thanks for answering & yeah everything needs to click for the artistry to come thru

 

[DDBustyBrit]

Thanks for answering & yeah everything needs to click for the artistry to come thru

I concur with this too, I don’t do random hookups just for this reason

 

[PaulieJay]

I concur with this too, I don’t do random hookups just for this reason

Yeah I hear you, I dont mind random "one call stands" but its way way better to chat get to know someone - find out their likes/dislikes turn ons/offs etc & if a phone sex sessions comes up organically then great - Im big on regular convo with heavy innuendo thats always a fun start lol

 

[Annabelle36]

I've wanted to try "phone sex" but I haven't gotten to know anyone well enough to feel comfortable. I've had a few sexy chats here though.

 

[mancsman]

I keep asking the question does sex still exist?

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I've wanted to try "phone sex" but I haven't gotten to know anyone well enough to feel comfortable. I've had a few sexy chats here though.

I hope you find someone. It can be “off the charts hot” with the right person

 

[anniebaby10]

My hubby and I have had FaceTime sex a lot and it is great. He will put his lap top on his bed between his legs so I can see his cock and balls. I do the same so he can see my pussy, clit and asshole. Then we put on our earbuds and start. He can see my wetness and I can see him get hard. I spread my lips so he can see may clit really good and when I finger myself. It gets dirtier and nastier the closer we get to orgasm and he shoots a big load for me. Then I can sleep better when he is out of town. Same for him. Better than phone sex as you not only get the dirty talk but you get to see the orgasm as well.

 

[devilsanus]

My hubby and I have had FaceTime sex a lot and it is great. He will put his lap top on his bed between his legs so I can see his cock and balls. I do the same so he can see my pussy, clit and asshole. Then we put on our earbuds and start. He can see my wetness and I can see him get hard. I spread my lips so he can see may clit really good and when I finger myself. It gets dirtier and nastier the closer we get to orgasm and he shoots a big load for me. Then I can sleep better when he is out of town. Same for him. Better than phone sex as you not only get the dirty talk but you get to see the orgasm as well.

You sound like a really great wife! Taking care of that man, excellent work!

 

[StarGazer58]

My hubby and I have had FaceTime sex a lot and it is great. He will put his lap top on his bed between his legs so I can see his cock and balls. I do the same so he can see my pussy, clit and asshole. Then we put on our earbuds and start. He can see my wetness and I can see him get hard. I spread my lips so he can see may clit really good and when I finger myself. It gets dirtier and nastier the closer we get to orgasm and he shoots a big load for me. Then I can sleep better when he is out of town. Same for him. Better than phone sex as you not only get the dirty talk but you get to see the orgasm as well.

For me, there is a definite hierarchy to virtual sexual play. Alone -> PM -> Phone -> Cam with cam being the best. At least with a cam, you can both see and hear the other person and can interact with each other. Cool that you do that with your hubby.

 

[TornadoTys]

Or voice chat over one of the chat services? I don’t see active interest anymore or is it only me?

Now that most mobile phone contracts have unlimited texts and minutes. Surely this is a great opportunity to have chats to Lit members ! ?

 

[VoraciousValue]

I have this exact remote controlled vibe and yes it definitely adds, especially when you cam too and he gets to literally see what he is doing to you, as he does it

I have a male remote controlled vibe. I was able to get someone to control it once, and it was nothing short of mind-blowing.

 

[rodeoclown]

It does still exist and I enjoyed it a lot a long time ago. I find someone to chat with once in a while and it gets better the better we know each other.

 

[bookworm69]

Some think phone sex is weird or it isn't really sex & some even believe that its something easy to do just talk dirty & moan. Others like me think there's an actual art to be able to form the right words, with the right voice, with the right timing, to have a person not only picture themselves having actual sex but can also actually feel it. Agree or disagree?

TOTALLY agree. Great phone sex is an art form. It requires really, really listening to the other person ... their thoughts and desires, some of which are not quite articulated aloud. Also, there must be an equal sharing and participation of the combined imagery that constitutes the conversation. In other words, everything must "click."

 

[StarGazer58]

So who has actually had phone/cam/skype sex lately?

 

[PaulieJay]

So who has actually had phone/cam/skype sex lately?

One never kisses & tells lol

 

[MissManners78]

*Raises hand* I do. I'm so attracted to voices and love hearing them in my ear while I play.