Does size REALLY matter?

crazyboy2006

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Okay, I'm wondering. Does having a 4.5 inch penis really turn a girl off? Technically, it's 5 inches from base, but I don't count .5 inches considering it wont be going in.

What's considered TOO small? Am I?
 
it doesn't count

I've been with a guy that had about the same size as you... possibly smaller... but either way, it depends on the position. I mean doggy style is a bit harder at least for someone like me. but either way, not at all. also a few things you can do that any bigger can't do... use beads... just feed them in or wrap them around your erection, then when it goes in it's like a fancy dildo.

forgive me if that post seemed unnatural, this is my very first post.
 
different people have different preferences for sizes - me personally I can't take more than 6" comfortably, I've heard other women say they can barely take 4" or feel empty with less than 8", and of course width is a question too.
 
Search and ye shall find....

this question has been asked and answered by my count 4 billion times. Here are a bunch of threads to enjoy for opinions (the first 3 pages from a search). Eilan has answered this until death starts to look pretty darn interesting. Read on McDuff....

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=237178
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=463155
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=457145
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=443971
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=433242
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=425179
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=408054
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=406692
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=404474
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=390177
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=387479
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=372339
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=365859
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=357258
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=321307
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=321028
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=336980
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=220471
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=231245
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=228301
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=195224
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=187296
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=187791
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=173772
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=163021
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=157490
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=156351
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=149664
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=142089
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=237178
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=219310
 
OddWomanOut said:
I've been with a guy that had about the same size as you... possibly smaller... but either way, it depends on the position. I mean doggy style is a bit harder at least for someone like me. but either way, not at all. also a few things you can do that any bigger can't do... use beads... just feed them in or wrap them around your erection, then when it goes in it's like a fancy dildo.

forgive me if that post seemed unnatural, this is my very first post.

No, it was by no means "unnatural." This was very helpful. Thank you.
 
sunandshadow said:
different people have different preferences for sizes - me personally I can't take more than 6" comfortably, I've heard other women say they can barely take 4" or feel empty with less than 8", and of course width is a question too.

Yeah, I've read similar things, but they were on websites that I was skeptical about. Thanks.
 
rthnck said:
this question has been asked and answered by my count 4 billion times. Here are a bunch of threads to enjoy for opinions (the first 3 pages from a search). Eilan has answered this until death starts to look pretty darn interesting. Read on McDuff....

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=237178
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=463155
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=457145
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=443971
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=433242
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=425179
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=408054
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=406692
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=404474
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=390177
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=387479
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=372339
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=365859
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=357258
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=321307
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=321028
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=336980
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=220471
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=231245
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=228301
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=195224
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=187296
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=187791
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=173772
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=163021
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=157490
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=156351
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=149664
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=142089
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=237178
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=219310

Thanks. I didn't realize how many times this has been brought up. I only wonder how long it took you to post all the URLs. lol
 
You know, still throughout those threads, I still haven't found a response from this "Eilan."
 
crazyboy2006 said:
You know, still throughout those threads, I still haven't found a response from this "Eilan."
Weird. I found a comment from this "Eilan" in the first five threads.
 
Eilan said:
Weird. I found a comment from this "Eilan" in the first five threads.

So, YOU are the famous "cock question answerer." I didn't really do a thorough search. I just kind of skimmed through.

So, please tell me what you think... even though you've probably done it a hundred times.
 
Size matters to some girls, but not most. Women take many things in a relationship much more seriously, and your dick size(of which your's is not unusual)is way down on their list. Of the women that do like them big, some really enjoy it more but many are just superficial and may not have ever had really good sex, and don't even know it. With your equipment you are easily capable of making most women happy.
 
Story size.

I am in no position to answer this but I have noticed that in most stories posted here size, when mentioned, is usually in excess of seven inches and nine is not uncommon. Flat chested women don't appear very often either!
 
Oh..I'm not flat chested, and my husband is 4-5 inches around and 9-10 inches long (depends on how fired up I get him as to how much I get from him). He didn't know how long he was 'till I got him really hard and measured what he'd been stuffing in me. Kinda gave him a real clue as to why I was screaming.

I've been in few relationships, compared to most people I know. When I found this one I married him. He's got me pretty well wrapped up, cause he knows in very many ways he's hard to replace. It's not superficial though, not even now that I'm mad at him currently. If all that were holding me here were his cock size, I've got a toy that surpases him. Smaller works, I think all and all it's the whole package that has me bound to him. He's a large man and can hold me down when I play/fight with him. There's no mistaking who's stronger, physically. Usually he's a perfect fit...in life, in sex it's just to nice that's he's bigger than I can handle :)
 
I find that 6 inches is good for me. I like a guy to get full penetration and I like to be completely filled. Anything larger then that and you have chances of bruising the cervix, which isn't much fun. I prefer a wider penis though then a long one, it feels so much better in my mind.
 
Alistair E said:
I am in no position to answer this but I have noticed that in most stories posted here size, when mentioned, is usually in excess of seven inches and nine is not uncommon. Flat chested women don't appear very often either!

Um....that's because the stories here are fiction.
 
Hard_Rocker said:
Size matters to some girls, but not most. Women take many things in a relationship much more seriously, and your dick size(of which your's is not unusual)is way down on their list. Of the women that do like them big, some really enjoy it more but many are just superficial and may not have ever had really good sex, and don't even know it. With your equipment you are easily capable of making most women happy.

You don't need a dick to give a woman great orgasms - ask Mr G his Try This & Report Back thread is one of the most popular on the How To boards.

Try This & Report Back
 
The Real Question

The real question isn't "Does size really matter?"

The real question is whether you're going to feel any different even if everybody tells you it doesn't matter.
 
lick her really good- size won't matter

crazyboy2006 said:
Okay, I'm wondering. Does having a 4.5 inch penis really turn a girl off? Technically, it's 5 inches from base, but I don't count .5 inches considering it wont be going in.

What's considered TOO small? Am I?



BECAUSE TOO BIG HURTS.... trust me .I kno :p w
 
cloudy said:
Um....that's because the stories here are fiction.

A point that seems lost on some Litizens. The stereotype of the woman who prefers a man with a large dick because her hubby is too small, so she stops having sex with hubby.....I mean, come on, it happens, but not nearly as much in RL as in smut. Neither does the racial cliche that is attached to it. Especially if the men act like jerks because they think that merely having big cocks makes them alpha males. Though I can see why pansy behavior by the hubby might make him less attractive, too, but that's also a cliche. Most men would not act wimpy like that, just because they have small dicks. It's a silly stereotype, nothing more.

I'm not a woman or the world's greatest expert on women, but I can gather that a happy medium in both size and conduct would please most women best.
 
If you think good sex depends on penis size, your mind is too small, not your penis. :p
 
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