Homburg
Daring greatly
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Netzach said:My hands are remarkably effective at pain play. And far more suited to fisting, unless you're some kind of mega size queen.
*still popular at parties*
Of course, it is just a different aesthetic. I am discussing why the visual aspect of large hands has such potent connotations for some. The size of the hand is useful for some aspects, awful for others. I can give a really good sensual massage because I can cover a lot of surface area. I can get into deep tissue work fairly easily because I have strong fingers and thumbs. My hands look strong, thus they look like they can cause pain. *shrug* It's appearance, just like a proper waist to hips ratio on a woman is an indicator of capacity to bear children.
And fisting is SUCH a no-go here. Fisting is something I watch (with enthusiasm).