Dominants Hands ...........

Netzach said:
My hands are remarkably effective at pain play. And far more suited to fisting, unless you're some kind of mega size queen.

*still popular at parties*

Of course, it is just a different aesthetic. I am discussing why the visual aspect of large hands has such potent connotations for some. The size of the hand is useful for some aspects, awful for others. I can give a really good sensual massage because I can cover a lot of surface area. I can get into deep tissue work fairly easily because I have strong fingers and thumbs. My hands look strong, thus they look like they can cause pain. *shrug* It's appearance, just like a proper waist to hips ratio on a woman is an indicator of capacity to bear children.

And fisting is SUCH a no-go here. Fisting is something I watch (with enthusiasm).
 
DeservingBitch said:
Lube is all you need to make it happen. Assuming your Dom likes the idea as well of course.
Lube.. and relaxation helps me. although, I've only made it to Master's thumb.. almost to the wrist.. his hands are just too wide.. and Malin's just to the fingers... but it helps me to use slow, steady breathing, and to go slow at first, even though all I want to do when I feel that beautiful pressure is push against it and force him the rest of the way in..

Homburg said:
Of course, it is just a different aesthetic. I am discussing why the visual aspect of large hands has such potent connotations for some. The size of the hand is useful for some aspects, awful for others. I can give a really good sensual massage because I can cover a lot of surface area. I can get into deep tissue work fairly easily because I have strong fingers and thumbs. My hands look strong, thus they look like they can cause pain. *shrug* It's appearance, just like a proper waist to hips ratio on a woman is an indicator of capacity to bear children.

And fisting is SUCH a no-go here. Fisting is something I watch (with enthusiasm).

I agree.. the way they look is a great turn on..for me it's the strength.. knowing that they can protect.. knowing that he could hurt me if he wanted to..but chooses to inflict the pain I need..
 
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Homburg said:
Of course, it is just a different aesthetic. I am discussing why the visual aspect of large hands has such potent connotations for some. The size of the hand is useful for some aspects, awful for others. I can give a really good sensual massage because I can cover a lot of surface area. I can get into deep tissue work fairly easily because I have strong fingers and thumbs. My hands look strong, thus they look like they can cause pain. *shrug* It's appearance, just like a proper waist to hips ratio on a woman is an indicator of capacity to bear children.

And fisting is SUCH a no-go here. Fisting is something I watch (with enthusiasm).
I had that exact conversation with Raven today. My mind sees multiple things when I look at his hands. They're large and engulf mine when he holds my hands. It makes me think of strength and protection. But I see his hands and also realize that the strength and the size of them have and can inflict great pain .... either in pleasure or punishment. You could say I have a healthy respect for what his hands can accomplish.
 
"Dental Surgery" words that put the fear of God in me....

Stud has ugly hands. Freckled, small, stubby, un-artistic looking in the extreme, and I've never had more *potent* ones laid on me in my life. Hands that forced me to believe in magic, unseen energy, and even God once again on a good day, reluctantly. You can't see it, like all the best things. In my eyes they're beautiful. They can push qi around and create compliant limp agony on me or fix what's ailing. He can tell when I'm on my period and if I had a cocktail the night before from the way I flinch when he touches spots on my legs. He can put someone into a hospital or get them out of one with the same two instruments - his hands.
 
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nh23 said:
You know fisting has proven to be impossible for me. I have a heart shaped pelvis (my son was 6lbs and broke it during delivery bad enough that I can't have more children) It's only ever been tried on me with men though. Maybe if I tried with a woman hmmm.. Yoo Hoo..BiBunny, Bi_kitty, where are you guys.. I have an idea. :devil:


Sorry. I'm here now; I've been taking pictures. Yeah I'm up for that. I enjoy fisting! :) :devil:
 
bisuzn said:
oh my, I love that collar Luna!

very sexxy !

it was her play collar ...

she wasn't full time..both she and her hubby were my play pets for almost 4 years..*grin*
 
Luna_Wolf72 said:
it was her play collar ...

she wasn't full time..both she and her hubby were my play pets for almost 4 years..*grin*

mmmmm ... meow :devil:
 
doveofserenity said:
That is a gorgeous collar, Luna.

And the feathers? ~shivers and thinks of tickle torture~ :eek:

I used that feather in many many different ways, dove...I love feathers..*grin*
 
Luna_Wolf72 said:
I used that feather in many many different ways, dove...I love feathers..*grin*
Yeah, their good for cleaning dust bunnies too.
~looks around, all innocent like~
 
I just remembered this pic

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Still more wonderful photographic contributions to this thread.

Thank you all so much, it adds a wonderful providence :rose:

I would ask the favor please that while some general banter adds to the providence of the thread and is welcome, could we please consider taking the dedicated fisting conversation to a thread more suitable.

My apologies in advance to anyone that may choose to take offense at this request.

I am extremely uncomfortable in having had to make it at all.

I believe I made it clear at initiation that this thread was to explore hands as a tribute in a sense of art.

~ Rebecca
 
@}-}rebecca---- said:
Still more wonderful photographic contributions to this thread.

Thank you all so much, it adds a wonderful providence :rose:

I would ask the favor please that while some general banter adds to the providence of the thread and is welcome, could we please consider taking the dedicated fisting conversation to a thread more suitable.

My apologies in advance to anyone that may choose to take offense at this request.

I am extremely uncomfortable in having had to make it at all.

I believe I made it clear at initiation that this thread was to explore hands as a tribute in a sense of art.

~ Rebecca

I'm sorry Rebecca... :rose: :rose:
 
Awww nh23 & Luna, you're going to make me cry, you know. It was sooooooo close there for a minute.

I love that you have been generous enough to apologize but honestly it's not necessary. These things happen when people get enthusiastic for a topic, I have done it myself. I was finding the change in thread aesthetic upsetting and knew people would understand when I explained.

It would pain me to deliberately offend people here or to make anyone feel uncomfortable and I really appreciate how gracious you both have been regrading this.

Luna the image is exquisite I'll cherish it, thank you :rose:
 
Whoops.

To be fair, it's not often you get a literary paen on anything from me, though, so hopefully everyone savors that much.
 
Netzach said:
Whoops.

To be fair, it's not often you get a literary paen on anything from me, though, so hopefully everyone savors that much.

I enjoyed it. Especially as I've had those sorts of hands on me. Maybe not quite that serious, but "w" is amazingly good at Reiki, and you can feel the energy in her hands when she touches you.

I was so very glad that she is a good person, as I would've promised aaaaanything when she was working on me.
 
Sorry Rebecca for the thread hijack. I didn't realize that we were bringing the discussion outside of what you wanted this thread to be about.
 
It's :cool: all, specific off topic was exceeding 20 posts so...........

I spoke up. Don't do that to me again !

Damn dem sadists.

: chuckles :
 
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