Edging so hard that it starts to hurt?

[Rugburn349]

I become a little obsessed with edging sometimes. As great as climax is, the steady, constant build is the most addictive part. However, I run into a problem when I’ve gone too long where I have a profound pain in my urethra after peeing.

I’m not sure if it’s related to the prostate, or maybe the urethra itself being irritated. I wouldn’t mind a little pain, and perhaps it would even enhance the denial aspect of the edging, but it’s pretty extreme and won’t go away until I cum (and the pain lasts like 30 minutes to an hour after still) or if I pee enough times (and large enough amounts.) it can result in having the sensation to pee every 5 minutes, and it’s pretty hard to deal with if not at the comfort of home.

I’ve steered clear of outright edging for the time being, but was curious if anyone else ran into similar problems. I go days or even weeks without touching myself, and that’s fine, but any degree of masturbation without completion after going for a while brings the problem back.

 

[leftwantingmore]

IMHO. Easy fix... Always end your edging session with an ejaculation. Always. For me edging is about the pleasure of the buildup. Never about denial of climax. After all the pleasure of the long slow buildup, why would I NOT cum? It's the "cherry on top".

 

[IARainman]

IMHO. Easy fix... Always end your edging session with an ejaculation. Always. For me edging is about the pleasure of the buildup. Never about denial of climax. After all the pleasure of the long slow buildup, why would I NOT cum? It's the "cherry on top".

For me, sometimes it's a let down, all that build, the slick hardness, gone.

 

[leftwantingmore]

For me, sometimes it's a let down, all that build, the slick hardness, gone.

I get that, because it's the end of the pleasure. The op is getting himself "backed up, clogged if you will". Then that denial causes him pain. Me, I don't like pain. For me pain is not sexy. Growing up I always delayed my orgasm. With a man or a woman, I wanted to make their pleasure and mine last as long as possible.
Also, after 2 to 4 hours of edging, if I didn't cum I would not be able to get to sleep.

 

[Don_private]

I get that, because it's the end of the pleasure. The op is getting himself "backed up, clogged if you will". Then that denial causes him pain. Me, I don't like pain. For me pain is not sexy. Growing up I always delayed my orgasm. With a man or a woman, I wanted to make their pleasure and mine last as long as possible.
Also, after 2 to 4 hours of edging, if I didn't cum I would not be able to get to sleep.

I also love edging…as I am bi, and have been with dozens and dozens of women, men and couples…my edging can go in any direction as my desire suits me during that specific playtime…just recently, I have been getting extremely high before I start my edging…it adds to the sensation quite a lot…my edging ing goes three to four hours, but I did in fact go 5 1/2 one time…would love to talk to people who love edging about their experience and best techniques

 

[Smoothshavendad]

My balls are aching for release…

 

[Crownvic]

My balls are aching for release…

 

[empteeguitar]

It is a rare but amazing feeling for me and then when you cum again and you can’t even get hard.

 

[Shanes_OralOrations]

I'm an edger too myself. I like the total mental sex intoxication I can feel after a couple days of it. I've experienced pain like that before that I though might have been "dried up" cum or precum in my urethra that crystalized and got sharp and irritated it, but it certainly isn't every time. Sounds like maybe what you're getting? Maybe try staying a lot more hydrated and peeing right after an edging session to "rinse it out" (or even frequently during one- love trying to point that stiff rocket into the toilet, right?)

If I edge and delay cumming too long I end up with pretty severe blue balls and aching. They sometimes go away if I give the edging a break for a bit, but usually I need to cum to fix it. Can be really annoying to have blue balls at work, or a social event, so I try to find the middle ground between edging a bit and not going too long.

But if I have a blowjob and facial scheduled with my wife, I always edge for a bigger load and need to time it right to not get too sore. The best blowjobs always start with a bit of blue balls though- makes the eventual release so much nicer!

 

[Don_private]

I'm an edger too myself. I like the total mental sex intoxication I can feel after a couple days of it. I've experienced pain like that before that I though might have been "dried up" cum or precum in my urethra that crystalized and got sharp and irritated it, but it certainly isn't every time. Sounds like maybe what you're getting? Maybe try staying a lot more hydrated and peeing right after an edging session to "rinse it out" (or even frequently during one- love trying to point that stiff rocket into the toilet, right?)

If I edge and delay cumming too long I end up with pretty severe blue balls and aching. They sometimes go away if I give the edging a break for a bit, but usually I need to cum to fix it. Can be really annoying to have blue balls at work, or a social event, so I try to find the middle ground between edging a bit and not going too long.

But if I have a blowjob and facial scheduled with my wife, I always edge for a bigger load and need to time it right to not get too sore. The best blowjobs always start with a bit of blue balls though- makes the eventual release so much nicer!

You might enjoy the thread I started
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/best-edging-techniques.1644824/

 

[Don_private]

I become a little obsessed with edging sometimes. As great as climax is, the steady, constant build is the most addictive part. However, I run into a problem when I’ve gone too long where I have a profound pain in my urethra after peeing.

I’m not sure if it’s related to the prostate, or maybe the urethra itself being irritated. I wouldn’t mind a little pain, and perhaps it would even enhance the denial aspect of the edging, but it’s pretty extreme and won’t go away until I cum (and the pain lasts like 30 minutes to an hour after still) or if I pee enough times (and large enough amounts.) it can result in having the sensation to pee every 5 minutes, and it’s pretty hard to deal with if not at the comfort of home.

I’ve steered clear of outright edging for the time being, but was curious if anyone else ran into similar problems. I go days or even weeks without touching myself, and that’s fine, but any degree of masturbation without completion after going for a while brings the problem back.

You might enjoy this tread I started…lots of interesting discussions
https://forum.literotica.com/threads/best-edging-techniques.1644824/