Englishman looking for a lady to have a conversation with via voice chat

Fuck, Queen had an effect on me.

I want to give you some honest advice, Michael. This is real advice, from a human to another human, because I recognize that you have that very human urge that we all do to meet somebody. I'm not being funny, or condescending, I'm just going to try to be helpful. It can be very, very easy to meet people here, for whatever you're after, but to do so you need to put yourselves into the shoes of others.

Think about what you would really want to see if you were looking for somebody. You'd want to know about them, you'd want to know some details about their lives, the things they like, the things they don't, the things that shaped them, a little glimpse into their lives. You'd want them to be sociable and willing to share themselves. And you'd want them to talk to you like a human being. It can be harder than it sounds, but it's very doable--I bet you do it every single day in your real life. Transcribing it to a forum can take some practice.

Reach out to different communities. Comment on people's posts elsewhere just like you were meeting them at a party or in some social setting. Find the people who share your interests and be polite, playful, or engaging. It takes time, but it works. Maybe take a little time away form the personals, for yourself, then try again with a different approach.

Best wishes, sincerely, whether or not you choose to believe it.
 
because they're cunts. it's a form of bullying
Fuck, Queen had an effect on me.

I want to give you some honest advice, Michael. This is real advice, from a human to another human, because I recognize that you have that very human urge that we all do to meet somebody. I'm not being funny, or condescending, I'm just going to try to be helpful. It can be very, very easy to meet people here, for whatever you're after, but to do so you need to put yourselves into the shoes of others.

Think about what you would really want to see if you were looking for somebody. You'd want to know about them, you'd want to know some details about their lives, the things they like, the things they don't, the things that shaped them, a little glimpse into their lives. You'd want them to be sociable and willing to share themselves. And you'd want them to talk to you like a human being. It can be harder than it sounds, but it's very doable--I bet you do it every single day in your real life. Transcribing it to a forum can take some practice.

Reach out to different communities. Comment on people's posts elsewhere just like you were meeting them at a party or in some social setting. Find the people who share your interests and be polite, playful, or engaging. It takes time, but it works. Maybe take a little time away form the personals, for yourself, then try again with a different approach.

Best wishes, sincerely, whether or not you choose to believe it.
Both comments are very valid I’m happy to interact with people who are interested anyone can pm to know more no need to do it in public
the funny part is all the people who comment are not interested at all
 
My interest was in helping you promote yourself so that others might become interested. 🤷‍♀️. Even in PM, you only gave your Skype without wanting to get to know each other first.



Maybe there are women here who do that. Who knows? Has it worked for you, yet?
 
why do you keep replying when you have no interest at all I notice criticise on many threads
 
If there wasn't interest, do you think we'd bother?



Personally, I saw your first post and thought, "I can help him.ut Z I gave good advice AND bumped your thread so others might notice you. I'm sorry I bothered and wasted my time and efforts.



After your responses and the pathetic hello/good nights posts, I'm done. If you ever get someone to Skype, please have them post here so we know if TRULY your voice is sexy!
 
yes I have and they liked
thanks for all the criticism from people who are not interested
So are you saying that the people criticising you have actually helped you connect with somebody on Skype and they liked your voice?

If that person liked your voice, but you are still actively looking for somebody, what was it that didn’t click between the two of you? Not criticising you but trying to find a way to save you and somebody else time if you aren’t going to click. If the voice isn’t enough for some people, what else about you do other people find interesting?
 
My interest was in helping you promote yourself so that others might become interested. 🤷‍♀️. Even in PM, you only gave your Skype without wanting to get to know each other first.



Maybe there are women here who do that. Who knows? Has it worked for you, yet?
Never, ever, I mean never, pass up help from BFG. Biggest mistake you could make.
 
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