erotic chat with wife's friend

[tsaurabh]

I am married for 6 years now.

Recently started chatting with one of my wife's friend - have met her only once in person. I didnt really fancy her then. But now we started doing some sexy chat. I obviously havent told my wife and dont intend to. I enjoy the sexy erotic chat with her and I believe she does too.

Scared that this might get out and spoil her relationship with my wife..

any suggestions..

 

[SweetErika]

If you continue, your wife will likely find out and you'll could end up like this guy.

 

[bobinks2]

Scared that this might get out and spoil her relationship with my wife..

You're not scared that it's going to spoil YOUR relationship with your wife?

 

[Christopher2012]

If you continue, your wife will likely find out and you'll could end up like this guy.

You really believed that guy was telling the truth? I thought for sure that was just a random post to get attention... especially on the GB!!!

OP, you have to know that's wrong. There's no defense in your case. Stop now because you might regret it later. I honestly don't think you "fancy" your wife's friend. I think you just "fancy" the thought of that taboo act of borderline cheating - an adrenaline rush.

 

[Neast19]

Just another form of cheating. Just because your not physically doing anything doesn't mean your not breaking her trust. Ask yourself how you would feel if you found out your wife had been sending erotic texts to a mate of yours, probably pretty angry?

 

[SweetErika]

You really believed that guy was telling the truth? I thought for sure that was just a random post to get attention... especially on the GB!!!

It read like something his wife made him write, especially since he posted it all over the place. We've seen the same thing before from others when they've been caught by their partners, so I'm guessing he was in the same boat.

 

[Christopher2012]

It read like something his wife made him write, especially since he posted it all over the place. We've seen the same thing before from others when they've been caught by their partners, so I'm guessing he was in the same boat.

Yeah okay, I can see that. I must admit, I would feel a little uncomfortable if I were married and my wife were talking to a bunch of guys on a forum like this... or anywhere on the internet for that matter...

 

[Eilan]

Scared that this might get out and spoil her relationship with my wife..

Your wife needs better "friends." And a better husband, too, apparently.

 

[mntcmn]

yup

It's VERY tough, but the gold standard for acceptable behavior probably is if you can't do it with your wife standing there or listening or reading what you write, you probably ought not be doing it.
M

 

[4bidnfruit]

I am married for 6 years now.

Recently started chatting with one of my wife's friend - have met her only once in person. I didnt really fancy her then. But now we started doing some sexy chat. I obviously havent told my wife and dont intend to. I enjoy the sexy erotic chat with her and I believe she does too.

Scared that this might get out and spoil her relationship with my wife..

any suggestions..

It seems to me that you are more concerned with how this will affect your wife's fiend (I dropped the r for obvious reasons) than your wife's relationship with either one of you.

 

[BertrandRussell]

Stop Now.

 

[tsaurabh]

I get the drift. Thanks.. Will probably stop now