Erotic massage cream?

[DrimeDrive]

What's the best erotic massage oil out there? Both my friend with benefit and me need some.

 

[SweetErika]

Are you talking about those arousal creams that are massaged into the genitals to increase bloodflow? If so, save your money and buy a good lube instead.

Or an actual massage product that's safe to use on/in the genitals?

Have you tried silicone lube yet? It's condom-safe, super slick and doesn't promote infections or irritation like many products. It can also be used in the shower and for total body massage.

In general, you should not use oil in the vagina. It destroys latex and can promote infection.

 

[DrimeDrive]

Are you talking about those arousal creams that are massaged into the genitals to increase bloodflow? If so, save your money and buy a good lube instead.

Or an actual massage product that's safe to use on/in the genitals?

Have you tried silicone lube yet? It's condom-safe, super slick and doesn't promote infections or irritation like many products. It can also be used in the shower and for total body massage.

In general, you should not use oil in the vagina. It destroys latex and can promote infection.

I'm looking for something that I can massage her inner thight, boobs, ass and back with;D

 

[Firebrain]

Palmer's cocoa butter. Smells like chocolate and doesn't taste too bad either. Is also fabulously moisturising! Just don't use it as lubricant.

Otherwise, just normal olive oil is good.

 

[DrimeDrive]

Olive Oil is pretty nasty lol, but I'll check out Coca Butter;D

 

[SweetErika]

I'm looking for something that I can massage her inner thight, boobs, ass and back with;D

That's easy enough.

Most of my massage therapists have used Biotone products, and I really like them because they're hypoallergenic, moisturizing, non-greasy and don't stain fabrics.

You should be able to find plenty of non-greasy massage lotions and such online and in local stores. If you want to go the oil route, a light-medium weight oil like grapeseed is a good choice.

 

[bobinks2]

Most of the massage oils that I've seen run about US $1.00 per ounce. ($10 - $12 for 8 - 10 ounces.) That works out to roughly $128 per gallon. That's a lot.

Last year, I purchased "MHP SpaMaster Essentials 1-Gallon Massage Oil Kit, 1 Gallon Oil, 8oz 'Session Bottle' & Pump" on sale from Walgreens online for US $39.99 with free shipping. It's now $49.99 and one penny short of free shipping. Amazon has it for $53.99 with free shipping.

It's good stuff. I have no complaints. If you're just looking for a decent all around massage oil and are willing to buy in bulk, this would do the job.

 

[NippleMuncher]

a light-medium weight oil like grapeseed is a good choice.

Yup! all natural, nearly flavorless, and good for you all in the same neat package.

 

[DrimeDrive]

Yup! all natural, nearly flavorless, and good for you all in the same neat package.

I've heard grapeseed being mentioned somewhere else too, deff going to check it out;D

 

[DrimeDrive]

If I'm going to buy a bottle of both coca butter and grapeseed online where would the best place be?

 

[DrimeDrive]

If I'm going to buy a bottle of both coca butter and grapeseed online where would the best place be?

Any suggestions?;D

 

[SweetErika]

Check out health and natural body care stores locally. They may be cheaper that way, vs. paying for shipping. I got our grapeseed oil at SuperSupplements - I think it was like $6 for a pint.

Otherwise, use google to see what your best online option is, then make sure you check out shipping charges before you buy. A lot of retailers get customers in with low prices then tack on exorbitant shipping and handling fees to pad their profit margins.

Cocoa butter can be hard to get in 100% natural formulations (like the Palmer's that's available everywhere has mineral oil and a bunch of junk added to it to soften it and make it more attractive to use - true cocoa butter is a harder product that melts w/ body heat, like chocolate), so you may want to opt for coconut oil, shea butter, or something else instead. Just make sure neither of you is allergic to what you buy.

Another option would be buying 100% natural massage bars. They come in different formulations and are harder, like a bar of soap, but melt when rubbed on the skin. I like them a lot and even made my own for us and Christmas gifts a few years back.

 

[DrimeDrive]

Cocoa butter can be hard to get in 100% natural formulations (like the Palmer's that's available everywhere has mineral oil and a bunch of junk added to it to soften it and make it more attractive to use - true cocoa butter is a harder product that melts w/ body heat, like chocolate), so you may want to opt for coconut oil, shea butter, or something else instead. Just make sure neither of you is allergic to what you buy.

I got some grape seed oil from the health food store now, but was spelling very weird, is there different forms of grape seed oil? And yes mineral oil is horrible for massages.

 

[Kitty_Schrödinger]

I'm looking for something that I can massage her inner thight, boobs, ass and back with;D

I use baby oil, best to get unscented one. I add few drops of jasmine essencial oil (OK, quite few, I love jasmine ) and fewer, very little of bergamot and sandalwood.
Jasmine oil is known to have aphrodisiac properties and is a known mood simulant too.

You can use it for massage and its safe to ingest- should you lick skin. Great for hand/ blow jobs too.

 

[SweetErika]

I got some grape seed oil from the health food store now, but was spelling very weird, is there different forms of grape seed oil? And yes mineral oil is horrible for massages.

What do you mean by "was spelling very weird?" Is that a typo, and do you mean it smelled weird?

If so, it shouldn't smell weird, and I'd suggest taking it back if you think it might be rancid. The grapeseed oil we got had a very light natural scent, but it wasn't anything that could be smelled from more than an inch or two away. With repeated microwaving, it started to take on a fried food smell, but that's our own fault for heating the whole bottle up each time.

So, maybe you got an old bottle or one that was kept in sunlight or heat and went rancid, like most oils will do with time, light and heat (that's why good olive oil comes in cans or tinted bottles).

If it's just a light organic smell that you find disagreeable but you like the way the oil works, you might try adding a couple of drops of an essential oil that you both enjoy and find relaxing to it.

 

[khlarrissa]

I worked in an adult novelty store in my area for about 6 months last year and one product that a lot of people liked once they tried it was a soy-based candle that, when melted, turned into a massage oil. I believe soy melts at a lower temperature, so it's not as hot as typical candle wax would be. I can't recall the line we carried -- but all of them were yummy scents, like strawberries & cream, chocolate truffle, etc. -- but if you Google "soy massage oil candle," you should find some examples.

 

[SweetErika]

I worked in an adult novelty store in my area for about 6 months last year and one product that a lot of people liked once they tried it was a soy-based candle that, when melted, turned into a massage oil. I believe soy melts at a lower temperature, so it's not as hot as typical candle wax would be. I can't recall the line we carried -- but all of them were yummy scents, like strawberries & cream, chocolate truffle, etc. -- but if you Google "soy massage oil candle," you should find some examples.

Yes, soy melts at a really low temperature.

We started with a soy candle when we started wax play because we happened to have one lying around and heard they could be used for massage, but it was too lukewarm and messy to remove, so we moved to regular candles quickly.

So, basically, if people want to go the soy candle route, any 100% soy candle that works on the inside of the forearm will likely do, but natural oils and other massage products will probably provide a much better value, more cleanliness and uses for the money vs. even non-erotic/specialty soy candles.

 

[swampydonkey]

What did you mean by erotic message cream? did you mean lubricant? You can use KY jelly as a lubricant. I used it, really effective man just try it.

 

[xander1083]

thanks for all the informative information I was searching this too. Thanks for this thread!

 

[m468h]

Are you talking about those arousal creams that are massaged into the genitals to increase bloodflow? If so, save your money and buy a good lube instead.

Or an actual massage product that's safe to use on/in the genitals?

Have you tried silicone lube yet? It's condom-safe, super slick and doesn't promote infections or irritation like many products. It can also be used in the shower and for total body massage.

In general, you should not use oil in the vagina. It destroys latex and can promote infection.

What particular product would you recommend, Erika? Thanks.

 

[SweetErika]

What particular product would you recommend, Erika? Thanks.

In reference to what, silicone lube?

We've used ID Millennium for years, but only because I found it for a fantastic price at Gamelink when we first wanted to try it. When our current pint runs out (we're about halfway through it and have had it for several years), I'll comparison shop based on price+shipping again; Gamelink's price has gotten more competitive since I bought that last bottle, so I don't know if it still has the best deal. But even if a pint is more like $40 now, it's still a great deal considering all it does and how long a bottle lasts us!

There are some differences in consistency among silicone lubes, but for the most part, one 100% silicone lube is just as good as the next.

I've even added some silicone to a small bottle of water-based Wet for travel, and it works great. It's kind of the best of both worlds, with more staying power but easier cleanup (though having silicone residue on your body is usually no biggie because it's silky and moisturizing). I think the silicone may act as a preservative when it's added to water-based lube, too: at least in pure form, it doesn't go bad from just sitting there (I'm not sure if bacteria can live and grow in it, but we have a pump bottle to keep it clean). Because it lasts forever and is a real multitasker (masturbation, sex, massage, moisturizer, etc.), I don't mind buying the bigger bottle if it's the cheapest.

 

[m468h]

In reference to what, silicone lube?

We've used ID Millennium for years, but only because I found it for a fantastic price at Gamelink when we first wanted to try it. When our current pint runs out (we're about halfway through it and have had it for several years), I'll comparison shop based on price+shipping again; Gamelink's price has gotten more competitive since I bought that last bottle, so I don't know if it still has the best deal. But even if a pint is more like $40 now, it's still a great deal considering all it does and how long a bottle lasts us!

There are some differences in consistency among silicone lubes, but for the most part, one 100% silicone lube is just as good as the next.

I've even added some silicone to a small bottle of water-based Wet for travel, and it works great. It's kind of the best of both worlds, with more staying power but easier cleanup (though having silicone residue on your body is usually no biggie because it's silky and moisturizing). I think the silicone may act as a preservative when it's added to water-based lube, too: at least in pure form, it doesn't go bad from just sitting there (I'm not sure if bacteria can live and grow in it, but we have a pump bottle to keep it clean). Because it lasts forever and is a real multitasker (masturbation, sex, massage, moisturizer, etc.), I don't mind buying the bigger bottle if it's the cheapest.

Yes, that's what I was referring to. Thanks for the info.

 

[Luna_Bella]

I like my silicone lube , it works great for massages is tasteless,scent-free and is not oily or greasy and it doesn't stain I love its silky texture!!!

I use Swede 100% silicone, it is on the pricey side but a little goes a long way

 

[herecomestherain]

We've used Rachel Perry French Massage formula for years - it's nice.

http://www.amazon.com/Rachel-Perry-Massage-Formula-Capsicum/dp/B000F8JLZ2