I love giving!!!! I'd rather give than receive. Don't get me wrong, I love to receive as well but if I had to choose, I'd choose to give. Mmmmm..............
definitely. I love to pleasure ahead of being pleasured - and everything that entails; From hearing her becoming more and more turned on, or the visual, seeing a reaction to whatever sensation she's feeling. Be that through a finger light touch, grazing lips across every part of her body or some more base and obvious.
There's been a fair few times when i've perhaps timed things slightly wrong and a couple of hours in to a play session she's spent, exhausted and i've yet to find my own plateau - no matter, the act itself was pleasure enough for me, and i'll wait until she's recovered, be that later the same day or even the next.
For sure when it comes to certain elements there's no contest, i'd far rather snuggle between her legs and using my own tongue rather than have hers wrapped around me.
Just like most people here I love to give.... But possibly not for the same reasons as others.
I love watching and hearing her reactions as I pleasure her. Finding those spots, you know the ones I mean, and bringing her off on them.
This is possibly because I use those ideas to later pleasure myself as my imagination goes wild.
Once in a while I'll get the urge to lick my wife's ass. It's something we both enjoy when I do it her but I know she doesn't to reciprocate. I'm good with that as I feel it's just something one does to a woman. No rhyme or reason and I get the whole "don't knock it..." But I just don't feel like I'm missing out on anything.
It's the same thing with other men. I'd love to another man to eat my wife's ass out. But I wouldn't want her to do it to him.
Once in a while I'll get the urge to lick my wife's ass. It's something we both enjoy when I do it her but I know she doesn't to reciprocate. I'm good with that as I feel it's just something one does to a woman. No rhyme or reason and I get the whole "don't knock it..." But I just don't feel like I'm missing out on anything.
It's the same thing with other men. I'd love to another man to eat my wife's ass out. But I wouldn't want her to do it to him.
Sometimes I do get the overwhelming urge to give rather than receive. I love going down on a woman and everything about it and when I'm really into it, I love just taking my time really tasting her. I think it turns her on more too, knowing how much I enjoy it and I'm not doing it because I want anything in return.
I think thats perfectly normal? At times I just want to suck my husbands cock and want nothing more than that. I love doing it for him. I will massage him when he is sore from lifting weights and at times he will do the same for me. We pamper each other in equal amounts I think. That said, there is no such thing as him giving me oral and nothing more. Dammit, if he is down there then he is going in there also!
I don't make a distinction. I think enjoying a woman's body, pleasing her, playing with her, teasing, tasting is pure enjoyment. I get as much excitement and pleasure as she does - so it's really about receiving too. When I'm on the receiving end, say of a wonderful blowjob, I like to give in the forms of moans or sounds, or words to show how much I'm enjoying it. Giving and receiving are just two sides of the same coin; you can't have one without the other.