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Mindaugas said:
one thing i am not and thats a fake
just because a sub as spoken out, which she as every right too
does not make her a fake, i have had 2 "real" Masters and i have
submitted to them both knowing i would be looked after and protected.
You think its your right to own a sub, but just remember a sub will only submit to a Master if she can put her trust in him ... afterall it is herself that she is "giving " to her master ....
also a real master would take advise offered to him ..without him being rude.
If you still think i am rude then thats your problem,my Master as read all my comments and as given me permission to post them... thats a true Master.
MelancholyBaby
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Obviously his true Domly status is evident by his capitalization of "My" and "Me" in all of his posts.
MelancholyBaby said:Obviously his true Domly status is evident by his capitalization of "My" and "Me" in all of his posts.
oh well just because he uses the capitals in "His and "My that in itself must make him a Dom
DarkSteven
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Mindaugas, you've been singularly uninterested in listening to anyone, so I doubt this will do much good, but I'll try to give you some advice.
1. You've misused the term PYL. There's no shame in asking what it means, but misusing it shows that you're trying to bluff. A true Master would be confident enough to be honest.
2. Your posts are gratuitously disrespectful to the readers. You hint that they have low education and intelligence. This would ordinarily be simply condescending and arrogant. However, in your case, combined with your own poor writing abilities, it actually creates a situation that is comical.
3. This one post: "As a Dom I have some experience both online and in real life. My kinky loves include spanking, orgasm denial, teasing and other delights that would ensure my sub takes great pleasure in pleasing me. I am physically and mentally strong and I will ensure discipline." is actually pretty good. It shows your interests and experience level. If you were throughout simply stating that you are a beginning Dom who wants to have a submissive to experiment and learn more with, I would give you props for honesty and clarity.
But this is in no way comparable to being a Master. I have about six years RL experience as a Dom and maybe eight years of online, and nobody in their right mind would consider me a Master. A Master (in my own humble opinion) is someone of at least local prominence who willingly teaches others, by example if not formally.
4. Namecalling is entirely appropriate for a three year old. It is NOT appropriate for an adult - it indicates a serious lack of maturity. A Dom should be above that. If you cannot control yourself, how can you control another?
My suggestion is to join a local BDSM group, and perhaps an online community or two. Not just for a hookup, but to learn. See who others look up to, and emulate them. Take training as offered.
I wish you well.
Steven
1. You've misused the term PYL. There's no shame in asking what it means, but misusing it shows that you're trying to bluff. A true Master would be confident enough to be honest.
2. Your posts are gratuitously disrespectful to the readers. You hint that they have low education and intelligence. This would ordinarily be simply condescending and arrogant. However, in your case, combined with your own poor writing abilities, it actually creates a situation that is comical.
3. This one post: "As a Dom I have some experience both online and in real life. My kinky loves include spanking, orgasm denial, teasing and other delights that would ensure my sub takes great pleasure in pleasing me. I am physically and mentally strong and I will ensure discipline." is actually pretty good. It shows your interests and experience level. If you were throughout simply stating that you are a beginning Dom who wants to have a submissive to experiment and learn more with, I would give you props for honesty and clarity.
But this is in no way comparable to being a Master. I have about six years RL experience as a Dom and maybe eight years of online, and nobody in their right mind would consider me a Master. A Master (in my own humble opinion) is someone of at least local prominence who willingly teaches others, by example if not formally.
4. Namecalling is entirely appropriate for a three year old. It is NOT appropriate for an adult - it indicates a serious lack of maturity. A Dom should be above that. If you cannot control yourself, how can you control another?
My suggestion is to join a local BDSM group, and perhaps an online community or two. Not just for a hookup, but to learn. See who others look up to, and emulate them. Take training as offered.
I wish you well.
Steven
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DarkSteven said:
What a tremendously well considered and written piece of advice.
Just one of my extremely rare two cents worth.
ID.
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