Fantasy swinging

Onceuponatime1972

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Despite both having had threesomes, and visited swinging clubs etc separately (before we knew each other), my wife and I have already decided not to risk what we have by adding a third person into our dynamic. However we have found a fun alternative. Fantasy Swinging!
We jointly create a fantasy involving one or more strangers. We alternately write paragraphs until the fantasy is finished. No details about the other parties are included, other than their gender. We then go out in our local city, usually on a weekend, and pick real strangers to insert into the fantasy story.
It's great fun surveying strangers, who have no idea what we're doing. It's not just about their physical attractiveness but also their behaviour, so that the fantasies can be adapted to fit.
It has also enhanced or sex life as we are able to, within reason, replicate the fantasy using toys and our imaginations.
 
This sounds like a fun game! I love the idea of writing a story together! Have either of you ever read what your partner wrote and said "WTF! I didn't know they were into that." I can just envision some of the conversations if hubby read some of my fantasy writings! Haha
Nah, we're pretty open in our discussions. We've completed BDSM questionnaires and other stuff
 
We jointly create a fantasy involving one or more strangers. We alternately write paragraphs until the fantasy is finished. No details about the other parties are included, other than their gender.
It has also enhanced or sex life as we are able to, within reason, replicate the fantasy using toys and our imaginations.
Great idea. Is it copywrited? Are you selling rights to it? ;)

I think this would be just the addition my wife and I need.
 
Despite both having had threesomes, and visited swinging clubs etc separately (before we knew each other), my wife and I have already decided not to risk what we have by adding a third person into our dynamic. However we have found a fun alternative. Fantasy Swinging!
We jointly create a fantasy involving one or more strangers. We alternately write paragraphs until the fantasy is finished. No details about the other parties are included, other than their gender. We then go out in our local city, usually on a weekend, and pick real strangers to insert into the fantasy story.
It's great fun surveying strangers, who have no idea what we're doing. It's not just about their physical attractiveness but also their behaviour, so that the fantasies can be adapted to fit.
It has also enhanced or sex life as we are able to, within reason, replicate the fantasy using toys and our imaginations.
My wife amd I do the same. We don’t go amd pick people out at least not yet. But I think we will start. It does add amd is hot.
 
This sounds like a fun game! I love the idea of writing a story together! Have either of you ever read what your partner wrote and said "WTF! I didn't know they were into that." I can just envision some of the conversations if hubby read some of my fantasy writings! Haha
I should have added to my original reply, that we first met online in a single parent support Facebook group at the start of the covid pandemic Once we had started chatting privately she would occasionally send me brief stories, encounters including me and a number of other men, in which she was effectively used as a sex slave. A lot of forced oral and also multiple men giving her golden showers. Having not even met her at the time (lockdowns and distance), they were an eye opener. 😃
 
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Thursday, August 13th was International Swingers Day which we stretched out thru the weekend with our own celebration of that day. A total of five couples came by to the house at diferent times with three of those hanging out Saturday afternoon and evening for an outdoor cookout, games and adult fun!
 
We've been busy recently, so hadnt made it into the city. On Saturday we went to a music festival a couple of hours away. We were sat in a pub avoiding the rain, it was busy with locals and festival goers. I asked her if there was anyone who would fit the bill for our latest fantasy, she initially said no. After a few minutes she said "Actually, brown t-shirt behind you, sat down.". I waited a few secinds then turned ti look, the guy was around 40 years old, average height and build, tanned. So now we have our protagonist. We haven't acted it out yet, but the premise is a chance meeting in a hotel bar, where he is celebrating his birthday with friends, we offer to help him celebrate by telling him our room number and inviting him to join us for an hour without telling his friends. We adjourn to our room and he arrives 5 minutes later. We share my wife, initially him fucking her whilst she sucks my cock, then she suggest we try DVP, and to finish she kneels before us whilst we both finish over her tits (the DVP and how we finsihed were both parts of the story she wrote).
 
I am friends with a couple and we used to have threesomes.

I now live in a different country, so no longer get to have physical fun with them.

I still keep in touch with them on WhatsApp. During their sex sessions they always give me a mention and I am usually the dildo.

Prior to them having sex, I will message them (usually the wife) and get them horny by telling them what I would like to do with them.

Afterwards they message me telling me what happened. Who went first etc.

They say our fantasy messages keeps their sex life in a good place.
 
I am friends with a couple and we used to have threesomes.

I now live in a different country, so no longer get to have physical fun with them.

I still keep in touch with them on WhatsApp. During their sex sessions they always give me a mention and I am usually the dildo.

Prior to them having sex, I will message them (usually the wife) and get them horny by telling them what I would like to do with them.

Afterwards they message me telling me what happened. Who went first etc.

They say our fantasy messages keeps their sex life in a good place.
Good friend indeed! Wish we had a friend like that!
 
Despite both having had threesomes, and visited swinging clubs etc separately (before we knew each other), my wife and I have already decided not to risk what we have by adding a third person into our dynamic. However we have found a fun alternative. Fantasy Swinging!
We jointly create a fantasy involving one or more strangers. We alternately write paragraphs until the fantasy is finished. No details about the other parties are included, other than their gender. We then go out in our local city, usually on a weekend, and pick real strangers to insert into the fantasy story.
It's great fun surveying strangers, who have no idea what we're doing. It's not just about their physical attractiveness but also their behaviour, so that the fantasies can be adapted to fit.
It has also enhanced or sex life as we are able to, within reason, replicate the fantasy using toys and our imaginations.
Haha! I don't have the colourful life that you both have had but years ago an ex girlfriend turned one fantasy into a reality just by doing what you did....out in the city looking for that random stranger, except we did end up engaging one nice looking bloke to fulfil my fantasy.

Extraordinary at the time, absolutely no regrets has spawned many later fantasises.
 
Despite both having had threesomes, and visited swinging clubs etc separately (before we knew each other), my wife and I have already decided not to risk what we have by adding a third person into our dynamic. However we have found a fun alternative. Fantasy Swinging!
I think your fantasy ritual is great! It allows each of you to scratch the itch of being with other people without taking on any of the risks...

Like you, I love hearing my wife express sexual attraction toward other men. ..It serves as proof that she's physically and emotionally well, AND that her sexual furnace is still functioning.

You and your wife have have figured it out: Being devoted to one another does not mean attraction to other people ends. ..So, LEAN INTO IT!
 
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I think your fantasy ritual is great! It allows each of you to scratch the itch of being with other people without taking on any of the risks...

Like you, I love hearing my wife express sexual attraction toward other men. ..It stands as proof that she's physically and emotionally well, AND that her sexual furnace is still functioning.

You and your wife have have figured it out: Being devoted to one another does not mean attraction to other people ends. ..So, LEAN INTO IT!
We very much lean into it. We regularly complete a variety of sex questionnaires to discover new doors to open,
 
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