Female Ejaculation

[teacherman570]

I've heard a lot of different myths and stories about femail ejacualtion but with my girlfriend having done it twice, I'd like to know how others have made it happen either to their partners or themselves. I was wondenring if there was a key top making it happen.
Both times it has happened, I've been licking her clit and stimulating her upper wall firmly...

 

[sassy_girl1963]

It sounds like you have stimulated her gspot - I've seen a couple of different threads about the gspot here in the "How to..." section. You might want to read up on it.

Your gf is a very lucky girl!!!!

Have fun!

 

[Eilan]

Try This & Report Back

 

[kitedemon]

Try This & Report Back

also here.

 

[teacherman570]

Thanks

I figured that there was significant discussion about this already, but couldn't find it. Thanks to all! I'll be sure to report back.

A thought just popped into my head. Those times that I was fortunate enough to make my gf squirt, the taste was rather salty, not strong. Is this about what it should be?

 

[CorsetLvr]

I think that a lot of women are capable of squirting but confuse the sensation with urinating and as a result they fight it instead of relaxing and just letting it happen.

 

[Eilan]

This is an interesting thread.

 

[MR.GGG]

1) it is NOT urine. That's not to say that if YOUR woman has weak muscles she may lose a bit of pee while she is violently G-gasming but the fluids that are secreted (some under pressure - others just lots of dribbling) during G-gsams are NOT urine and anybody who sez they are is an idiot or has never actually tasted / smelled those fluids and are trying to screw up your enjoyment because they're jealoius and probably have never got to 2nd base with anything other than a rubber doll.

"Is this about what it should be?"

NOTHING is "as it should be" Your woman is unique. Her cycles are different almost every day/month and NOTHING should be compared to the "norm" because there is NO norm. Her tastes will change over the month. The texture and viscosity will change from clear fluid slightly thicker than water to opaque goo that is stringy and has a sickly sweet smell / taste. HER tastes, smells and fluidity changes may be something entirely different too.

When you get to know her REALLY REALLY well you'll be able to play her the way she needs to be aroused because you'll associate a certain taste or smell with a mood and you'll know what she needs. It is one of the joys of getting to know ONE woman like she is part of your own body.

Enjoy.

 

[littlerat]

many women fake it...i guess....but i dont understand what is the fluid that comes out when they fake it.....is it pee???

 

[MR.GGG]

Doubt it.

It is virtually impossible to FAKE a G-gasm if you're paqying atention - and you should be.

Her heart will be beating at about 180bpm, her vagina will be pushing at your fingers or thumb and clenching in a push out motion about 40 times a second with periodic longers stronger muscle contractions, she will barely be able to breath let alone scream "OH GOD OH GOD you're SO ... HUGE!!" over and over again like the porn queens and cheep hookers do. Of course they can do that in their sleep so that's no big deal.

I would say ditto for oral sex. If you are involved there are just too many autonomic nerve reactions going on in and on her bod that she can not control unless she's a 85 year old Tibetan Monk.

First off though you should have the kind of communication where if "it" ain't working she tells you and you try something else or *shock* - ASK her what she wants you to do. She is THE best person to ask and you shouldn't feel you should somehow naturally know HER bod better than she does. Faking is LYING and during the most intimate times a couple ever shares this is, I suggest, NOT a good time to lie.

 

[CorsetLvr]

many women fake it...i guess....but i dont understand what is the fluid that comes out when they fake it.....is it pee???

Supposedly some porn actresses fake FE by peeing during a faked orgasm. Thre are some pornsters out there that actually slow-mo the vids and check the color of the fluid to see if its faked. My hubby ran across that on some website and thought it was so funny that anyone could be that into it that he had to show me. They had some pretty heated discussion on the website about whether their favorite porn actress was faking FE or not. That's one of those "get a life" things in my humble opinion.

 

[TBKahuna123]

1) ...fluids that are secreted (some under pressure - others just lots of dribbling) during G-gsams are NOT urine and anybody who sez they are is an idiot or has never actually tasted / smelled those fluids ...

Or maybe has never taste urine? I mean, you have to have a control group, right? OK Pepsi Challenge time! I'll taste the wunder secretions, who's gonna chug the big glass of urine?

Sorry, I'm in a mood today.

So Master, the ejeculation happens through the urethra, correct? That would explain why the uninformed would confuse it with urine.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Supposedly some porn actresses fake FE by peeing during a faked orgasm. Thre are some pornsters out there that actually slow-mo the vids and check the color of the fluid to see if its faked. My hubby ran across that on some website and thought it was so funny that anyone could be that into it that he had to show me. They had some pretty heated discussion on the website about whether their favorite porn actress was faking FE or not. That's one of those "get a life" things in my humble opinion.

Yeah...BTW, if anyone ever sees me so involved with porn that I start rewinding them looking for inconsistencies, please shoot me. Now, where'd I leave my remote.

 

[teacherman570]

Taste Test

I'm not daring enough to do a test taste but I'm sure someone out there would. I've searched for squirting in porn and found quite a few that were literally spraying across the room, that has to be peeing during a fake orgasm. Crazy stuff. Imagine a guy being able to shoot cum that far.

 

[CorsetLvr]

I've searched for squirting in porn and found quite a few that were literally spraying across the room, that has to be peeing during a fake orgasm.

Actually I have known of women that can ejaculate like that. I've never seen a woman able to pee like that.

 

[teacherman570]

I stand corrected

It shows you how much I know about the female body and how it works, which is really why I started this thread in the first place. Thanks for setting me straight.

 

[fungirl911]

taste test

It shows you how much I know about the female body and how it works, which is really why I started this thread in the first place. Thanks for setting me straight.

Let me be one of the first to say,,,,,,,I would not chug urine,,,,,,,friggin' nasty !!! But out of curiousity one night, I pulled up the sheets and looked at the matteress, no color. And with 3 kids I know what color urine is.........lol Also did a smell test of the area............no scent at all......quick lick of my fingers.....hmmm, no taste either......Just a clear, slippery liquid. And quite the puddle I might add.

 

[CorsetLvr]

It shows you how much I know about the female body and how it works, which is really why I started this thread in the first place. Thanks for setting me straight.

That's OK, you're just a typical male... in other words totally clueless about femal anatomy.

 

[teacherman570]

That's OK, you're just a typical male... in other words totally clueless about femal anatomy.

Touche. But unlike most males, I'm willing to learn about my partner, learn what she likes, and put her pleasure above mine.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Preach borther! The few, the proud, the real men!

 

[CorsetLvr]

Touche. But unlike most males, I'm willing to learn about my partner, learn what she likes, and put her pleasure above mine.

OK, then you are an exceptional typical male. Well... at least above average.

 

[MR.GGG]

Experts don't either

""It shows you how much I know about the female body and how it works ...""

Don't feel bad. Most of the best sex researchers in the world would find some of the stuff we discuss in here absolutely unbelievable ... can't be true! One famous RECENT and (self proclaimed) definitive study of the G-Spot used 13 cadavers. The conclusion? There is no GSpot. "Nope. We couldn't find a thing"

Unfortunately I'm completely serious. This is the standard of sex research that is happening even today. It sounds like it was done in the 13th century but I'm pretty sure that one was done in 2001 !!

Another research project had 7 women all jigged up to monitors and recording deevices and some dude with a rubber glove "manipulated" the anterior wall (the legendary home of the elusive G thingie according to ancient lore) of volunteers' vaginas. Results were mixed but they did actually admit that of the 7 women 3 "claimed" to have increased lubrication and feelings of pleasure. This claim was UNsubstantiated so it was generally dismissed by other "experts.'

Itz why I came here to Lit. Share the joy. You'll never get anything from the experts. Although they consider themselves experts I've come to the conclusion they couldn't find the ocean in a dingy. So at least in here most of us aren't encumbered with FACTS about the NONexistence of the GSpot and REALLY enjoy making our women feel as good as this technique can make them.

Pass the info on to friends, tell them what the URL is if you're embarrassed to discuss stuff like this. Just tell them "go read the stuff at ..." and watch their faces the next time you see them. Drop in every once in awhile and tell a story or describe a technique, position, scene or variation that has worked for you and your DW/SO/GF or HO.

 

[teacherman570]

Questions

I've always had questions about things like this, and experience is better than scientific research in my opinion (and I'm a scientist!).

And I'll gladly take above average

 

[pupper]

Mr. GGG, You are absolutely correct.Finding the g-spots in cadavers(talk about a needle in a haystack)I would liken that to testing E.D. drugs on male cadavers.My wife also says that the trust has to be there to achieve such a heightened state of arousal.The G-spot is an erectile tissue that responds to arousal,not rubber gloves of a complete stranger in some cold laboratory somewhere LOL.The G-spot is distinct in texture and feel when engorged, It can cause multiple orgasms and ejaculation, and convulsions of Vaginal muscles.When you learn your womans body, you can make her ejaculate(as well as orgasm)any time you like.My wife refers to the ejaculation as the ultimate orgasm.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Before the Master pipes in, I'll steal his thunder. Don't get too hung up on ejaculation as a sign of success! Not all women squirt, but that doesn't mean they can't experience a g-gasm. My wife is a classic example, she doesn't squirt but she has sure as hell reacts to g-spot stimulation.

Of course, this is an ejaculation thread, so, I'll shut up now.