Females Do You Want Help?

[TheAA]

I am an owner who has helped out previous subs and slaves to achieve some of their aims. These have included giving up smoking, thinking before talking, better organization skills and time management, masturbation control, weight loss, procrastination and even more.

I have recently released my last female from our relationship because she has managed to get to her ideal weight and also kept it there for the last few months. We have not officially want our own ways. Therefore, I am looking for another female to take on and try to help her achieve her aims.

Some of the reasons why I find that people fail to achieve their aims are because they do not have a person to make sure that you stick on the straight and narrow. Unable to talk stuff over that might be coursing you problems with sticking on your aims or even have the required skills for you to complete the required tasks.

But one main reason why people some people cannot stick to what they want to is because there is no come back if you slip off the path like punishment. But for each person punishments and methods that I used to help people to achieve there aims are different. As everybody is not exactly the same, and so what works with one person might not work with another.

Therefore anything that I do is not over night solution, as parts of it will involve myself, changing your views about stuff, teach you new methods to achieve your aims and even talking with you to find out exactly why you did something that you should not have and take the approach action.

I am only looking for females or at a push couples, which would want me to help you to achieve your aims through an online environment. If you are interested and serious about me helping you to achieve all your aims, even ones that I have not listed please PM me at and tell me more about yourself, what you want to achieve with my help, what you have done in the past to try to achieve this and why you would want my help in doing so.

If I do decide to take you on, please expect to be in regular contact and providing me with any required evidenced. The type of evidence that I would require will be something that we will talk about after I think that you are serious about this relationship and will do anything within reason to achieve your aim.

I have had my share of time wasters in the past, so I will not be taking you on after just one email or even a few short sentences until I am 100% sure that you are serious like I am.

Sir

 

[Essene]

Hello Sir,

I was just thinking that I would have a much easier time sticking to my diet if I had someone to hold me responsible.

I actually considered posting a serious thread asking for help with this, but I didn't think I'd get much of a response.

Can you give me an example of how this works?

Thank you!

-Essene

 

[TheAA]

essence

I will reply to your PM fully in a minute, but I thought it would be a good idea to post a reply to your question so that if others have the same one. They have got an idea from the answer.

The best way to give an example is to use to my experience with another female. One of her core problems was that she wanted to loose weight for a wedding that she was attending in six months time. She as tried dieting, exercising etc yet one major problem that she was having, Is sticking to it. Her husband was not much help either, just sitting around and not supporting her.

One of the first things I did was to talk to this woman about what she tried in the past, why did she fail, what was her final aim etc. After I got the basic information from her I started to design an action plan for both me and her so that we both knew where we stood. The type of things that I would do is approve a weekly food plan that we both agreed on from the very start. This included approved food that she could select and select which meals to eat this, and if she was good the previous week, one or two non approved treats like chocolate, ice cream, sweets etc. If I approved this, then she would have to eat this.

We also agreed on a designed exercise plan, this involved her doing more stuff in real life. Like using stairs, instead of lifts, walking instead of using cars for short distance stuff etc. But also got her to buy an exercise DVD/video to work out also at home at set times.

I also expected a daily email from her telling me about her day, letting me know about anything that is happening or she is failing on. In time I would pick up the tell tail signs of why she was failing to stick to stuff or if there is a pattern forming on why she would be comfort eating. When I identified stuff like this, I would punish her but also we would sit down and discuss the issue and devise another action to add to the action plan to hopefully stop her from doing this.

We also agreed on punishment/reward system. If she had been bad, failed to hit a set target then she would have been punished. This punish could have been time out in the corner, self spanking, humiliation, remove of rights like going out after work for a week or a more stricter regime until she made it up again. If she did something well or hit a set target, she could ask for a reward in return for that number of points. She changed some of these points in the past for the right to masturbate and cum, going out with friends, having a forbidden food, having a day off from doing the exercise video the following week etc.

But the rewards/punishment system is something that we discussed and we both agreed on. If I/she felt something was working correctly, if there was something wrong we would discuss this and see how best to solve this problem.

Within the six months, she managed to loose the weight in herself and greatly improved her self confidence in herself, that she want to the wedding in the dress that she wanted to. Also a side affect of this, she got promotion at work that her manager had been pushing her to go for the last year. But she lacked self confidence in herself because of the weight. She has not looked back since.

Unless of course stuff is getting too much for her and she is feeling like she is loosing control again. She would contact me for a short (few weeks/month sessions) to re-enforce her confidence and mind set.

I hope that this answers your questions, and give you a better idea of what I would do with you.

Sir