First Time

[Viceman]

Was losing your virginity a good or bad experience for you? I suppose this is a question for the ladies as I can,t think of any men having any regrets....I could be wrong though

 

[Cheyenne]

I think this question has been covered by quite a few previous threads so that may be why you aren't getting a lot of response.

But I'd say it was a very good experience for me.

 

[Viceman]

thanx Cheyenne

I'll let it die the death it deserves then

 

[freakygirl]

Re: thanx Cheyenne

I'll let it die the death it deserves then

We have repeat threads and new people here almost daily. Why let it die?


Losing my virginity was one of the most enjoyable experiences in my life.. but yet it was one of the most horrible.

I was with a man that loved me.. and I loved him.. it was perfect and romantic..

but it was painful

 

[Rubyfruit]

I don't recall it being very painful physically, but I do remember stepping outside afterward, thinking the stars in the sky should look different.

 

[Guest]

Was losing your virginity a good or bad experience for you? I suppose this is a question for the ladies as I can,t think of any men having any regrets....I could be wrong though

Mine sucked big time. But no worries. I made up for it after I dumped him.

Cheyenne, you didn't have to make the poor newbie feel bad for a question he's never seen.

Lightnen up.

Thanks FreakyGirl, I agree with you.....

Viceman.....it ain't dieing if we don't want it to.

Moon

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I remember thinking..... "So what are they all going on about."

It was not painful and he was gentle enough. But no shooting stars.

 

[Cheyenne]

Re: Re: First Time

Cheyenne, you didn't have to make the poor newbie feel bad for a question he's never seen.

Lightnen up.

Now I'm annoyed.

I saved the thread from page 3 by posting to it BECAUSE he is a newbie. I remember what it feels like to start a thread and have it die and not know why.

Lighten up yourself.

 

[Cheyenne]

*bump* back to page one


See how that works, MoonWolf?

 

[MysticSwing]

Was losing your virginity a good or bad experience for you? I suppose this is a question for the ladies as I can,t think of any men having any regrets....I could be wrong though

My experience was kind of like Rubys. I remember thinking I should some how feel "different". That I should see things in a whole new light. But I didn't.

No real pain, no strong emotional pulls. It was just - there.

 

[Nicki19]

My first time was a good experience, although most people don't see it that way. I lost it to my friend/boss after years of fooling around. It did hurt, but it felt good too... I was hooked. I remember leaving him in his bed the next morning, trying not to wake him... Only to have him corner me in the employee break room at work a few hours later. He was terrified our friendship was ruined... We looked at each other and knew everything was fine... and tried it again that night.

 

[sacremento]

Mine was bad. More like rape. I don't like thinking about it.

 

[WhiteRose]

The guy was the right one. I'm glad I didn't wait for any of the other guys I had sex with later on. He and I didn't have a huge breakup or anything (I was visiting him on vacation), and he'd been a good friend for five years beforehand, so I have no negative memories of our relationship, only positive.

The pain...wasn't overly bad for me since I'd been technically "deflowered" by an SOB of a Naval doctor who, on request of my mother and without prior explanation to me, performed my first Pap Smear the year before (the pain THEN was significant, as the doctor can probably attest to after I kicked him several times and had a nurse wrestling me to get me to scoot back down the table.)

There was no orgasm the first time, but it was a nice gentle introduction to the act. I expected "something" to be different when we were done. I'm not sure exactly what, but I do remember thinking, "so that's what all the fuss has been about?" It got better the 2nd time...and the 3rd time... I also remember being rather numb down there for about 15 minutes afterwards when I was walking around.

 

[Cheyenne]

The pain...wasn't overly bad for me since I'd been technically "deflowered" by an SOB of a Naval doctor who, on request of my mother and without prior explanation to me, performed my first Pap Smear the year before (the pain THEN was significant, as the doctor can probably attest to after I kicked him several times and had a nurse wrestling me to get me to scoot back down the table.)

You know, I never thought about it before. But I bet that is exactly the same thing that happened to me! I was 14 when mom took me to the old geezer OB-GYN for my first exam and Pap Smear. Lord only knows why she thought I needed it at that age. But, I remember it hurt like hell and I didn't go back for another exam for years as a result. Now that I think about it, that first exam probably caused the pain I'd have normally had losing my virginity.
Hmmm... I wonder if she did me a favor after all...

 

[Viceman]

Well now I know why

you are like a big family, kind and loving with that litt6le hint of animosity. My original question was asked with a valid interest and I thank you all for your replies

 

[Cheyenne]

*bump* one last time

 

[Purrde Flower]

Mine was the worst experience possible. I am just glad I will never be that stupid again, I hope.

 

[The Squid King]

I was 13 years old, she was 14.

I have no regrets.

 

[michaelmt1]

To see two polls on this subject see the following threads:

Women First Time Regrets

Men first time regrets

30 % of women and 33% of men regret their first time to some degree.

Mike