First vibrator for my g/f

[tom_novak]

Christmas is coming soon, and I thought I'd get a special present for my g/f, one that can't be opened in front of family. Any suggestions?

First of all, she's never had one, so I don't want to intimidate her. I'm thinking of something like one of those pocket rockets.

Thanks everyone!

 

[JadeDragon]

x-mass gift

I would sugest for a first timer, you get a double egg. That way you both can play with it. Or one of those smaller more slick vibrating dildo's.. Nothing that will overpower or scare her. The next one should be her choice. Let us know what you pic and how she likes it!

Jade

 

[SexyChele]

Damn, I wish a man was buying me a vibe for Christmas!

Oh....okay...sorry about that!

Thinking back on the time before I had a vibrator, I think I would have liked something that could be inserted, but also that could be used against the clit. Smallish and nice looking. A pocket rocket is a fun idea, but they cannot be inserted. There are the vibes that are simple, cylindrical, tapered devices and usually come in different colors. For some reason, gold or silver always appealed to me. Seemed classier than the "flesh" toned or the funky colors.

I'm sure anything you pick out will be a hit - I know I would have enjoyed it if a man had done this for me. Good luck and enjoy!

 

[lovechild27]

For a first timer, I would go simple. My bf bought me my first sex toy...such a sexy experience! She is a lucky girl!

 

[Guest]

Yes! Buy a simple vibe - elegant in color - perhaps on the smaller side - good for insertion and all sorts of naughty play - she's a lucky girl!!

(don't forget the batteries!)

 

[pw27]

A slim waterproof vibe, round shape maybe not one that looks like a penis is a good choice and not too intimidating.

 

[tom_novak]

Thanks for the advice. There's little downside to this whole idea of mine, which is nice.

It's good to know that when sex is great, it can be even better.

I can imagine using it on her pussy while I lick her clit, or rubbing it up and down her slit while I suck on her nipples.

 

[lovechild27]

hehehe....you guys are gonna have such a good time

 

[sluttygirl4u22]

wish I was getting one for christmas. I want one of those ones with the pearls that rotate, and the little clit teaser.... mmmmm yes oh yes, now I just need to find a guy in the next few days hahaa

 

[lovechild27]

oo slutty....I SO want one of those. They are so nifty looking!

 

[sluttygirl4u22]

i agree lovechild... it's the main reason I am planning a toy party... so I can get a discount and free stuff, the first thing is going to be one of those

 

[Lust Engine]

i agree lovechild... it's the main reason I am planning a toy party... so I can get a discount and free stuff, the first thing is going to be one of those

We've come a LONG way from the days of Tupperware haven't we?

Not that I'm complaining either!

 

[Beginner Guy]

I haven't seen it mentioned here and maybe it's not big in the states, but what about the fukuoku. I think it's called the fukuoku 9000, it's about half the length of a finger and just clips onto your finger. My gf loved it and it runs on a little bigger than a watch battery. Do a net search for it and you'll find what I'm talking about.

http://www.condom.com/fukuoku.html

it even comes in different colours

 

[Lust Engine]

I haven't seen it mentioned here and maybe it's not big in the states, but what about the fukuoku. I think it's called the fukuoku 9000, it's about half the length of a finger and just clips onto your finger. My gf loved it and it runs on a little bigger than a watch battery. Do a net search for it and you'll find what I'm talking about.

http://www.condom.com/fukuoku.html

it even comes in different colours

Who comes up with the names of these things?!

 

[liz3030]

our toy experience

My husband this year became obsessed about introducing toys into our sex life. Some have worked and others went into the garbage.

First off, the ones that worked are
A) Fukuoko 9000
Thus far my favorite. Does not look at all like a vibrator and either he or I can slip it onto a finger and really work me over. I orgasm every time using this. We have gone through several batteries.

B) Pocket Rocket
This is good for a quick orgasm, although I can only use it after really getting into foreplay and being wet. Otherwise it tends to quickly numb me out in the sensitive spots.

c) Japanese Pearl Rabbit
I think my husband gets more out watching me use this than I do. A big visual plus for him. I like the rabbit buzzing my clitoris. He loves watching the pearls gyrate around. If I am in the mood, this toy hits all the buttons.

The ones that have not worked for us were the butterfly. I had to wear some straps around my waiste and thighs. Too distracting. Another one was an egg. I didn't care for that.


The most important thing is to start slow. Do not go overboard and purchase something too phallic to quickly. ALSO, do not start using your toy until she is really in the mood, really wet. You will get a much better response.

Good Luck