Forced Feminization/Sissification

I've been full on wearing women's g strings for over a decade, absolutely love them, started out as a firm request from my wife after a rough period of the marriage and she caught me leaving a Lady friends place, I never admitted to sleeping with her, but wife decided that would keep me from doing that not realizing I had a repressed thing for women's panties, but she ended up liking it, and I love it, so a win-win, that was going to be my last time at her place even if my wife hadn't been waiting outside because that relationship was going down a dark path anyway.
 
I wasn’t sure if I should start the discussion here or in the BDSM section so I hope this is ok here.

First, is Feminization and Sissification the same thing? And secondly, do they both typically fall under Femdom?
I believe these are mostly part of humiliation/emasculation kinks but there are many different ways these can be played out. It wasn’t until recently that I learned that a lot of women don’t like this as being dressed in women’s clothing should not be embarrassing or humiliating. I totally agree there, but at the same time, can’t help but have this kink.

I’ve never experienced it, but my fantasies are cliche:
Wife/girlfriend is tired of macho husband/boyfriend who needs to be punished-forced into bra and panties and made to wear them daily under his men’s clothes, gets teased verbally and physically (pat on the butt in public to remind him he wears the panties-you wear the pants and are in charge) and verbally by calling him a little panty boy or sissy) he may protest but obviously he likes the humiliation. If wife has kinky friends he may be required to show his panties and bra when asked-male and female friends allowed to tease. No wigs or make up (and I’ll get to this shortly). This sounds more like a porn story and these things really don’t happen (or do they?)

The next one would be serving as French maid for a group of dominant women or men (or both) - again wearing no wig or make up but dressed in a very short satin maids dress with petticoat and ruffled satin panties being objectified and teased. Spankings for getting something wrong, a pinch on my bottom when I bend over a little and the panties peek out, having to curtsy and be a good little maid. There could possibly be other maids serving as well but we’d all be dressed similar.

The last one is just getting caught trying on lingerie or panties which leads to a dress up session.

The fantasies don’t end in sex but just humiliation/embarrassment and emasculation. I also am not interested in passing for a woman which is why wigs and makeup do nothing for me. A little lipstick being applied might be erotic but it’s not necessary.

These are typically straight male fetishes - I may be bi but am mostly attracted to men so I’m not sure why femdom is of any interest. I have an underwear fetish which is mostly anything silk and satin - it just so happens that most underwear made out of that material happens to be panties so that might be part of it. I love the look of panties/lingerie on men - forget the fantasies and I still like the look. Most gay men seem to want nothing to do with anything lingerie and panty related and I can understand that.

So I guess my question is, has anyone ever experienced these fantasies and if so did it live up to your expectations-were you really “forced” or was it just role play? Did you wear panties but not really want to?
I love wearing panties and lingerie as a Sissy. Not forced. Wearing blue mesh and satin panties.
 
I like to consider myself to be a sissy even tho I dont have a desire to wear women's clothing. Can I still be a sissy ? I have a small penis that no longer can get fully hard(honestly I've always had problems in bed) but it still feels good when I rub it and I when I look at real men fucking women or having their cock sucked. I just don't feel like a man anymore. When I look at porn like that I always picture myself in the woman's place. To be honest, I just don't think I was ever a real man anyway. In my 40s I learned that I had low testosterone and I'm sure I always have; I have very little hair on my arms and legs and none on my chest. And now when I consider myself to be a sissy it just feels like a big weight off my back - no more pressure to try to be something I never was and could never be. I just wasn't made to fuck, I feel like I would rather lick or suck and be fucked. I am submissive and I just want to give pleasure to others or be used for their pleasure. And I yearn to hear the words "good girl."

Recently I've been addicted to watching youtube videos like the following. I just love them. They just make me feel so seen, accepted and loved.



 
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After i hit post and looked at the room title again, I realized my post wasn't really about being forced. I guess I've just been yearning to share what i've been thinking lately. I really prefer to think of it as a woman seducing me and encouraging me in to becoming more feminine and more sissy for her and because she knows and accepts that is who I really am , my true self, and I just don't have the balls to do it myself.
 
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After i hit post and looked at the room title again, I realized my post wasn't really about being forced. I guess I've just been yearning to share what i've been thinking lately. I really prefer to think of it as a woman seducing me and encouraging me in to becoming more feminine and more sissy for her and because she knows and accepts that is who I really am , my true self, and I just don't have the balls to do it myself.
not unlike my own fantasies of being tricked/seduced into wearing panties and being make her boy toy and finding my inner sub in the process...
 
So I guess my question is, has anyone ever experienced these fantasies and if so did it live up to your expectations-were you really “forced” or was it just role play? Did you wear panties but not really want to?

I did it because my wife wanted me to. My wife is dominant and I’m submissive we didn’t become that way we started out that way. My wife is big into role reversal. She’s bi and I’m really the only guy she’s been with. Over the years she has introduced some feminine clothing for me to wear. Is she forcing me, no. Would I do it on my own, no.
 
I wasn’t sure if I should start the discussion here or in the BDSM section so I hope this is ok here.

First, is Feminization and Sissification the same thing? And secondly, do they both typically fall under Femdom?
I believe these are mostly part of humiliation/emasculation kinks but there are many different ways these can be played out. It wasn’t until recently that I learned that a lot of women don’t like this as being dressed in women’s clothing should not be embarrassing or humiliating. I totally agree there, but at the same time, can’t help but have this kink.

I’ve never experienced it, but my fantasies are cliche:
Wife/girlfriend is tired of macho husband/boyfriend who needs to be punished-forced into bra and panties and made to wear them daily under his men’s clothes, gets teased verbally and physically (pat on the butt in public to remind him he wears the panties-you wear the pants and are in charge) and verbally by calling him a little panty boy or sissy) he may protest but obviously he likes the humiliation. If wife has kinky friends he may be required to show his panties and bra when asked-male and female friends allowed to tease. No wigs or make up (and I’ll get to this shortly). This sounds more like a porn story and these things really don’t happen (or do they?)

The next one would be serving as French maid for a group of dominant women or men (or both) - again wearing no wig or make up but dressed in a very short satin maids dress with petticoat and ruffled satin panties being objectified and teased. Spankings for getting something wrong, a pinch on my bottom when I bend over a little and the panties peek out, having to curtsy and be a good little maid. There could possibly be other maids serving as well but we’d all be dressed similar.

The last one is just getting caught trying on lingerie or panties which leads to a dress up session.

The fantasies don’t end in sex but just humiliation/embarrassment and emasculation. I also am not interested in passing for a woman which is why wigs and makeup do nothing for me. A little lipstick being applied might be erotic but it’s not necessary.

These are typically straight male fetishes - I may be bi but am mostly attracted to men so I’m not sure why femdom is of any interest. I have an underwear fetish which is mostly anything silk and satin - it just so happens that most underwear made out of that material happens to be panties so that might be part of it. I love the look of panties/lingerie on men - forget the fantasies and I still like the look. Most gay men seem to want nothing to do with anything lingerie and panty related and I can understand that.

So I guess my question is, has anyone ever experienced these fantasies and if so did it live up to your expectations-were you really “forced” or was it just role play? Did you wear panties but not really want to?
I don't really relate to forced feminisation because nobody would be forcing me. I would submit willingly but would happily play along . I would love to be a sissymaid for a Man and embrace the humiliation and degredation that hopefully went with it. Would a strait Alpha Male submit to sissification / feminisation ? Probably not. I think a Guy would have to have a willingness and the need to submit to actually be able to do it. For some of us this comes naturally.
 
I wasn’t sure if I should start the discussion here or in the BDSM section so I hope this is ok here.

First, is Feminization and Sissification the same thing? And secondly, do they both typically fall under Femdom?
I believe these are mostly part of humiliation/emasculation kinks but there are many different ways these can be played out. It wasn’t until recently that I learned that a lot of women don’t like this as being dressed in women’s clothing should not be embarrassing or humiliating. I totally agree there, but at the same time, can’t help but have this kink.

I’ve never experienced it, but my fantasies are cliche:
Wife/girlfriend is tired of macho husband/boyfriend who needs to be punished-forced into bra and panties and made to wear them daily under his men’s clothes, gets teased verbally and physically (pat on the butt in public to remind him he wears the panties-you wear the pants and are in charge) and verbally by calling him a little panty boy or sissy) he may protest but obviously he likes the humiliation. If wife has kinky friends he may be required to show his panties and bra when asked-male and female friends allowed to tease. No wigs or make up (and I’ll get to this shortly). This sounds more like a porn story and these things really don’t happen (or do they?)

The next one would be serving as French maid for a group of dominant women or men (or both) - again wearing no wig or make up but dressed in a very short satin maids dress with petticoat and ruffled satin panties being objectified and teased. Spankings for getting something wrong, a pinch on my bottom when I bend over a little and the panties peek out, having to curtsy and be a good little maid. There could possibly be other maids serving as well but we’d all be dressed similar.

The last one is just getting caught trying on lingerie or panties which leads to a dress up session.

The fantasies don’t end in sex but just humiliation/embarrassment and emasculation. I also am not interested in passing for a woman which is why wigs and makeup do nothing for me. A little lipstick being applied might be erotic but it’s not necessary.

These are typically straight male fetishes - I may be bi but am mostly attracted to men so I’m not sure why femdom is of any interest. I have an underwear fetish which is mostly anything silk and satin - it just so happens that most underwear made out of that material happens to be panties so that might be part of it. I love the look of panties/lingerie on men - forget the fantasies and I still like the look. Most gay men seem to want nothing to do with anything lingerie and panty related and I can understand that.

So I guess my question is, has anyone ever experienced these fantasies and if so did it live up to your expectations-were you really “forced” or was it just role play? Did you wear panties but not really want to?
I wasn't forced and starting wearing my mum's panties as a young child. Nowadays I buy my own on eBay. Would I wear a French Maid's outfit willingly? Oh yes. I experience fantasies every day and I go through with some of them. I genuinely like the feel of lipstick.
 
I'm going to say the unpopular thing here: the whole sissy phenomenon as we know it now is largely an invention of porn. It's also frequently (some people would say always) misogynistic, in that it carries with the implication that to be “sissified” is to be “like a woman,” and therefore somehow “less than”. The person who is the sissified is supposed to feel humiliation. I'm all on-board with humiliation Kinks, but not ones that are at the expense of someone else. I guess I resent this particular one because there was a time in my life when I was called “Sissy”—cruelly, by my father and brother as well as by playmates— and when I started getting in touch with my sexuality, I used that term for myself and found joy in reclaiming it. And then, the porn version emerged, with its caricature of weak women, and I felt as if the term had been stolen from me.

Feminization is simply a man exploring, embracing, or reclaiming his feminine nature


Either way, they are only Femdom if a woman is in control and directing the action, and pushing the man in a direction he wouldn't otherwise go. Or of course, two people roleplaying that scenario.
Great comments and I agree with you about how the porn industry has redefined the term sissy.
 
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