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kkoozz
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corrections...
A few corrections...she's about 20 years older. It not a "circle" but rather a few guys. She's a nudist (but not at work).
Does the age difference complicate stuff?
FurryFury - i think she's be pissed if I tell her outward.
buxxxom - I can't get her (yet) to show her tits...although she did buy a cheap porno for me to watch (she accidentally broke it b4 I got a chance 2 see it.
A few corrections...she's about 20 years older. It not a "circle" but rather a few guys. She's a nudist (but not at work).
Does the age difference complicate stuff?
FurryFury - i think she's be pissed if I tell her outward.
buxxxom - I can't get her (yet) to show her tits...although she did buy a cheap porno for me to watch (she accidentally broke it b4 I got a chance 2 see it.
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kkoozz said:
"WORKS FOR ME" is the operative phrase here. Don't even go there unless you are damn sure you won't get in legal troubles.
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That doesn't make a difference - she still works for you and you could still be brought up on sexual harassment charges criminally and civilly.kkoozz said:
She also likely has some kind of code of conduct she must/wants to uphold as a caretaker/nurse/aide/whatever, so it'd be unkind to press her into breaking that.
Leave this alone, as it sounds like you're the only one interested. If that's not the case, she'll likely let you know she's interested in more than a friendly working relationship in no uncertain terms.
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Jenny_Jackson said:
I agree
The whole porno thing made me have second thoughts for a second but if she is taking care of you then it seems like it's just as likely she thought it might brighten your day.
I think there would be more signs if she was interested.
I wouldn't push it.
Don't lust after her, get to a place where you don't really want it, get to know her and you never know what will happen.
If you do lust after her and do want it you will just be another one of the (I am sure) many other dirty bastards she probably deals with.
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why you dont just aske her for lunch or diner we thohg its easy in u.s.a like we was wrong.
Jenny_Jackson when man think in sex he dont care if he go to prison or go to hell he only think by his dick, why you think ther a lot of men in prison
Jenny_Jackson when man think in sex he dont care if he go to prison or go to hell he only think by his dick, why you think ther a lot of men in prison
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We have laws in this country. Not only would he go to prison, but would then have to register as a "SEX OFFENDER" when he was eventually released. He would be branded for the rest of his life as a pervert and criminal.aymanmosstfa said:
He needs to keep his willy in his pants and forget this woman.
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yes...
SweetErika & yoshimitsu
Your both correct. I don't want to lose a friend because my hormones and stupidity has taken the best of me. I believe my major flaw is not realizing when too much is too much. I will be happy with being friends and will just have to wait for my first-ever more-than-friends relationship.
aymanmosstfa - the best idea.
Thanks everyone for straightening me out.
SweetErika & yoshimitsu
Your both correct. I don't want to lose a friend because my hormones and stupidity has taken the best of me. I believe my major flaw is not realizing when too much is too much. I will be happy with being friends and will just have to wait for my first-ever more-than-friends relationship.
aymanmosstfa - the best idea.
Thanks everyone for straightening me out.
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let me see if i have work in u.s.a and get love with woman work for me or just want have sex with her and dont force her or any thing like that i cant do this cus the law?Jenny_Jackson said:
and what i amen was the man dont care about any thing when his dick think for him why you think ther many marry woman want kill ther huby and just knew some men have sex with and made thim kill the hubby and ther work since i dont knew when till now and maybe for ever and at all world
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Um, the woman is talking to him about her sex life and bringing him porn... I think we can assume that she is a bit more flexible on the caretaker-client boundaries here!!!
Kkoozz, consider this option: ask her for advice on getting someone LIKE her. For example, tell her that you admire her sexual frankness and feel you can trust her with your interest in finding a similar "friends with benefits" relationship.
She may know someone OR take the hint.
No harm, no foul.
Kkoozz, consider this option: ask her for advice on getting someone LIKE her. For example, tell her that you admire her sexual frankness and feel you can trust her with your interest in finding a similar "friends with benefits" relationship.
She may know someone OR take the hint.
No harm, no foul.
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She works for you, and you want to screw her. But you don't want to ask her like that. You want to ask her, "Can I please be in your friends with beneifts buddy group?" If you like her, just be straight and ask her out. Why be in her friends with benefits group when you can be the main guy. Make it work related even, like attending a seminar that has a lunch break. That's an opening. Or go out with the office for drinks after work and talk with her there.
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