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RubenesqueAphrodite said:
I am considering a local FWB...not that cyber can't be fun, but there's definitely something missing..
Hell.. I'd consider giving up Reese's Cups for some good...and I mean really good, throw my head back "don't-stop-now-or -I'll-snap-you-in-half"...sex... lol

Have any of you, ladies included, had any success with this?
Seems kind of dangerous,. I know, but I've got at least a couple years where I'm apparently going to be thinking of nothing but hard cocks and orgasms, so I'm trying to just go with the flow.

I'm impulsive, hence this post, but as of right now, I'm trying to figure out my options.
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Gee. I could be you. We have similar issues. Dildos, cyber, phone... Anything but the real flesh-on-flesh deal is never quite ever, ever—sometimes oh so close—but never, not ever is it enough to completely satisfy me, really... ever. So far, anyway.
 
I understand the frustration ! There is nothing like warm flesh on flesh and it's been way to long for me also :). Phone / hearing a nice voice as we both orgasm can help and at least fill some of the void and make you feel at least somewhat connected ...but its not the same . Would be nice to connect with a sexuual and local woman . FWB would be very welcome . Till then a soft voice with a healthy sex drive to match my deep voice and healthy sex drive would not be unwelcome . Put fresh batteries in your dildo and vibes ... They are welcome also :)
 
pfflyerhot said:
Gee. I could be you. We have similar issues. Dildos, cyber, phone... Anything but the real flesh-on-flesh deal is never quite ever, ever—sometimes oh so close—but never, not ever is it enough to completely satisfy me, really... ever. So far, anyway.
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Thanks! Was beginning to think I was the only girl on my thread! :)
 
TE=Maxell46;42479872]I understand the frustration ! There is nothing like warm flesh on flesh and it's been way to long for me also :). Phone / hearing a nice voice as we both orgasm can help and at least fill some of the void and make you feel at least somewhat connected ...but its not the same . Would be nice to connect with a sexuual and local woman . FWB would be very welcome . Till then a soft voice with a healthy sex drive to match my deep voice and healthy sex drive would not be unwelcome . Put fresh batteries in your dildo and vibes ... They are welcome also :)[/QUOTE]

Yes, Maxell, you're absolutely right. Regardless of the "wild monkey sex" I called it in my "Hormones" piece, there still has to be connection on more than just a physical level for a FWB relationship to work. If that's not there, well, you're little more than an unpaid prostitute.
Being made to feel like a whore because you're female and horny, well, that's a double-standard at best, since I believe that when men feel horny they're called "normal."
 
I feel very lucky that I get to have regular sexy contact at the moment, but before my current (lovely) guy I did get to have some very fulfilling cyber/phone chat. I found that with long term chat partners I could eventually get incredibly personal and naughty and things just got more exciting the more I found out about someone. There's nothing better than a big sexy guy in my bed, but an hours long, detailed and naughty skype/IM convo can be amazing too!
 
RubenesqueAphrodite said:
TE=Maxell46;42479872]I understand the frustration ! There is nothing like warm flesh on flesh and it's been way to long for me also :). Phone / hearing a nice voice as we both orgasm can help and at least fill some of the void and make you feel at least somewhat connected ...but its not the same . Would be nice to connect with a sexuual and local woman . FWB would be very welcome . Till then a soft voice with a healthy sex drive to match my deep voice and healthy sex drive would not be unwelcome . Put fresh batteries in your dildo and vibes ... They are welcome also :)
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Yes, Maxell, you're absolutely right. Regardless of the "wild monkey sex" I called it in my "Hormones" piece, there still has to be connection on more than just a physical level for a FWB relationship to work. If that's not there, well, you're little more than an unpaid prostitute.
Being made to feel like a whore because you're female and horny, well, that's a double-standard at best, since I believe that when men feel horny they're called "normal."[/QUOTE]




I agree 100% with that . There has to be a connection ... some kind of caring ...otherwise it's not going to happen . I don't need to be in love but I definately need to be in like . One night type things I've no interest in . A mental connection is a must . Excite my brain .... the body will follow.
 
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Maxell46 said:
Yes, Maxell, you're absolutely right. Regardless of the "wild monkey sex" I called it in my "Hormones" piece, there still has to be connection on more than just a physical level for a FWB relationship to work. If that's not there, well, you're little more than an unpaid prostitute.
Being made to feel like a whore because you're female and horny, well, that's a double-standard at best, since I believe that when men feel horny they're called "normal."




I agree 100% with that . There has to be a connection ... some kind of caring ...otherwise it's not going to happen . I don't need to be in love but I definately need to be in like . One night type things I've no interest in . A mental connection is a must . Excite my brain .... the body will follow.
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Absolutely. A friend I've been chatting with recently pointed out (the obvious, I might add) that sex is mostly mental. Especially for women, I think, since men seem to be ready to go at a moment's notice. Not that slow and steady intellectual seduction does not work on men, on the contrary, it most certainly does, it's merely that women are special creatures. As such, we require a bit more than wham-bam-thank-you ma'am. Even when all we may want is a wham-bam-thank-you ma'am, we may still *need* more. One of nature's biggest conundrums..

I may need a moderator to move this thread to the discussion section, as opposed to the Personals. I'm enjoying hearing people's thoughts on this, regardless of whether I get to meet them or not.
 
...There has to be a connection ... some kind of caring ...otherwise it's not going to happen . I don't need to be in love but I definately need to be in like . One night type things I've no interest in . A mental connection is a must . Excite my brain .... the body will follow.
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Same here.
 
If there is no real fucking available it's a wonderful substitute...with the right person. The connection must be there, a sense of intimacy and trust with each other.
 
Wait a minute. What the heck is trust? Come to think of it. What in the world is intimacy? I guess that's when you change your partner less than you change your shirt.

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Aquagal said:
If there is no real fucking available it's a wonderful substitute...with the right person. The connection must be there, a sense of intimacy and trust with each other.
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Man I wish I could go back to the days where cybering could do it for me. I used to love playing with words to build scenes with another person.

Aaaaand then I got fucked in several ways, lol. Now I just wish I could capture that old magic of cybering.
 
Weepingguitar said:
Man I wish I could go back to the days where cybering could do it for me. I used to love playing with words to build scenes with another person.

Aaaaand then I got fucked in several ways, lol. Now I just wish I could capture that old magic of cybering.
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The art of cybering is still around, you can a still play with words, but you have to find the right person. I am affraid like most things its been replaced with more omdern means of communicating something called Web Cams, which I understand leaves nothing to the imagination.
 
Hmmmm...interesting question.

Before coming to Lit, I had actually set out to work a FWB thing with a guy from high school. I was in my home town(ish) - and given my screen name...it's a pretty big town so no worries about word getting out - and made arrangements to meet him for lunch. I chickened out...

I just couldn't bring myself to do it. Though I wanted more than what I was getting at home, I couldn't do it.

So, yes...I have found my cyber experiences very fulfilling. When I can hear a man it is even better.

My one caution is that I think that it's hard to maintain a FWB relationship...one person ends up wanting more and then things get sticky (well they were already sticky I guess, but not in the good way).

Do I want that skin to skin contact? That moment of feeling some hard body pressing into me as my entire body shudders? That moment where my body tingles when he touches me? HELL YES!!

Am I willing to lose my family and life that I know for it? I just don't think I am. And I think in the end, that's the question that counts the most.

Good luck in whatever you decide to do (not judging or preaching - just throwing out that side of the coin).
 
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