G-Spots

[buxxxom]

Now that I'm thinking about it, I don't know that I've had an orgasm when there was gspot stimulation at the same time; if I did, it would have been what I would consider a clitoral orgasm. My understanding of gspot orgasms is that, tho they may involve the clitoris, the sensations are different than a clitoral orgasm.
Is this accurate for those in the know?

Yes, this is how it is for me. I much prefer gspot orgasms over clitoral ones. G-gasms are slower to build, and can happen over and over again. With a clit-gasm, I'm a one and done kind of gal. With g-gasms, I do feel stimulation in my clit, but indirectly as opposed to the direct stimulation of a clit-gasm. A combination of the two doesn't really feel much different to me than a clit gasm alone, because the clitoris sort of takes over. For the record, I am a squirter too. My partners know just how and where to stimulate to get the desired result.

The region Tx is referring to is, I think, known as the A spot, or the epicenter. It's like a gspot, just further into the vaginal canal. I can reach my female partners, but it's a stretch and not easily maintainable. I'm not sure I have an epicenter or A-spot, as a result of a hysterectomy. I've never felt anything remotely similar to gspot stimulation that far up. Link included below for epicenter info.

http://ehealthforum.com/health/topic124225.html

 

[vrosej10]

I have some questions. Purely for research, of course.

Ok not really.

Anyway, for years I've been on a quest for a gspot orgasm. It's become like the holy grail. My SO and I have found it, and gspot stimulation definitely makes me feel really damned good, but I don't orgasm from it, no matter what we've tried. So I'm wondering some things:

Have you (or your partner) had a gspot orgasm?
How do you get past the feels good to the oh my fucking god? (and don't say continua pressure because giving up isn't the issue)
Do you think every woman can have gspot orgasms?
Do you know women (or yourself) who are like me- enjoy it but don't come from it?
Any other thoughts on gspots, gspot stimulation, etc?

(thanks lance, for the reminder)

Don't come from it, just feels good.

 

[Lady_Guenivere]

Here is a hint...the g-spot is easier to stimulate after you have had an orgasm. Since women are capable of having many orgasms in one evening...try masterbating or having your partner bring you to orgasm "traditionally". This will do 2 things...first it will stimulate blood flow to the area making the g-spot more sensitive, responsive to touch, and easier to locate. Secondly, once you have had an orgasm, your body is more eager to receive more...you will find that a pre-heated oven will make things much much easier!!!

 

[auslit]

That to me is the one true sign that a woman is getting ready to orgasm, when she gets VERY wet and juicy. Dilation is another sign of imminent orgasm as well. At this point just about anything will work to get off. Once it starts, rubbing the finger tips briskly over the vaginal opening instead of the clitoris increases the intensity.

Have I mentioned I'm an orgasmist extraordinaire yet?

i don't know about that, i can get myself off without being wet at all

Ok reading all these responses has got me thinking of a question now.
When people refer to "g spot" orgasms, would you put a 'vaginal orgasm' in that same category. Does the G have to be specifially targeted? Because i've had the ocassional v orgasm on my own, usually going between clit and penetration but but ok yeah i'm confused. Vaginal orgasm feels like a whole body and clit feeling to me, so maybe i've had a g spot orgasm n not known haha.

 

[Lady_Guenivere]

There is a definite difference between a vaginal orgasm and a g-spot orgasm...but the way I look at it...does it really matter as long as you have a screaming good time???

 

[SlickTony]

I have some questions. Purely for research, of course.

Ok not really.

Anyway, for years I've been on a quest for a gspot orgasm. It's become like the holy grail. My SO and I have found it, and gspot stimulation definitely makes me feel really damned good, but I don't orgasm from it, no matter what we've tried. So I'm wondering some things:

Have you (or your partner) had a gspot orgasm?
How do you get past the feels good to the oh my fucking god? (and don't say continua pressure because giving up isn't the issue)
Do you think every woman can have gspot orgasms?
Do you know women (or yourself) who are like me- enjoy it but don't come from it?
Any other thoughts on gspots, gspot stimulation, etc?

(thanks lance, for the reminder)

I've had one, but I generally pay for it with some urinary tract issue.

 

[OneLustyWench]

The elusive (sometimes) G-Spot

OK, to be honest, I thought all this was a bunch of hooey until a few years ago. And up until last year, almost elusive. Sometimes you push too hard to have it and it makes it just float away.

I don't normally push toys but if you want a toy that will get the job done, everytime (so far *WEG*) get the N-Joy Pleasure wand.

Can be used with your partner, actually it is recommended as that way they can keep it going when you'd rather wrap your hands in the sheets to hold on.

I'm not saying this is the only way to have them but damn, this toy works and works well.

 

[midwestyankee]

SJ, you may have seen this thread (Try this and report back) in the How To forum here, but I thought that I'd link to it for anyone else stumbling across your thread. It contains a wealth of information about g-spot play as well as dozens of personal accounts of efforts to become g-gasm capable.

My experience with g-spot stimulation has been that it's most effective after a woman has had a couple orgasms already. As has been noted above, this may well be due to the increased blood flow to the vagina.

It may not apply in your case, SJ, but another factor is that one's sensitivity to g-spot stimulation may be quite susceptible to attitude. Just as it's often hard to have that very first orgasm with a partner if you're trying too hard and are too heavily focused on reaching orgasm, a g-spot orgasm may be similarly elusive. For several years, my wife responded very negatively to any g-spot stimulation ("it's too intense, almost painful"). Recently, though, she made some changes in her thinking about sex and now she loves g-spot play. The orgasms from this play seem to wrack her whole body.

 

[sophia jane]

OK, to be honest, I thought all this was a bunch of hooey until a few years ago. And up until last year, almost elusive. Sometimes you push too hard to have it and it makes it just float away.

I don't normally push toys but if you want a toy that will get the job done, everytime (so far *WEG*) get the N-Joy Pleasure wand.

Can be used with your partner, actually it is recommended as that way they can keep it going when you'd rather wrap your hands in the sheets to hold on.

I'm not saying this is the only way to have them but damn, this toy works and works well.

I bought the N-Joy, and while I haven't had a gspot orgasm yet, I can say that it adds a whole lot of goodness to the experience. It seems, tho, that I won't be able to do it myself because the angle I need is almost impossible for me to reach. Tho I suppose I can't complain cuz the SO using it was pretty damned awesome.

 

[OQueen]

The region Tx is referring to is, I think, known as the A spot, or the epicenter. It's like a gspot, just further into the vaginal canal. I can reach my female partners, but it's a stretch and not easily maintainable. I'm not sure I have an epicenter or A-spot, as a result of a hysterectomy. I've never felt anything remotely similar to gspot stimulation that far up. Link included below for epicenter info.

http://ehealthforum.com/health/topic124225.html

Just found this thread and read this great article. Thanks for posting it.

I have discovered the "epicenter" A spot. If, after I use my vibe and have my usual clit-gasm (love that term), my hubby then pounds me from behind, I have the most amazing sensation very very deep. I think he's hitting my cervix. Use to be, once I came, I would really just be hanging out waiting for him to finish. But ever since this "discovery", I am begging him to keep going, don't come yet, just a few more thrusts please
Inevitably, he comes too soon for anything other than these tingly feelings. This discovery has totally changed intercourse for me. But I get nothing from my g-spot. And I'm not complaining.

 

[stephen55]

This was my very first post here at lit. History only partly repeated itself and I'm still here. I'm learning about the personalities of the various personalities around here. It's certainly been an educational experience.

Fools rush in......
This is my first post and if history is repeated, it may be my last.

I used to post on forums at Redclouds. As a retired family doc, I thought I could clear up a few misconceptions about various things such as "female ejaculation", "squirting" and "the male G-spot". I tried to be objective and slightly humorous at the same time. Let's just say that some people can't take a joke. Vested interests and the usual morons either called "bullshit" or howled with laughter.

It's been my experience that whenever I try to straighten out misconceptions about diabetes or arthritis, people tend to listen and usually are thankful for the information. After all, as a doctor, I'm supposed to know about such things. Which only makes me wonder why I often get looks of incredulity or outright laughter when I try to straighten out a misconception about sex.

With that in mind, perhaps I am insane. That is, I'm going to try the same thing and expect a different result.

The G-spot. It's also know as the Gee spot. It's also know as the "Oh my God, don't stop, don't stop" spot. I've heard a few other names but you get the idea.

It's also know as the "what you're doing isn't working, so try something else" spot.

Consider the human. While our similarities greatly outweigh our differences, there are some interpersonal differences. These differences are due to many things. Genetics (nature) and upbringing (nurture) come to mind. If you think human anatomy is complicated, try human psychology. Now try human sexual psychology. This is where Angels would abandon ship. I'm not an Angel.

Personally, I think the female G-spot is real. Yes, the anatomists are still arguing and the sexual psychologists are still arguing (and will be forever). I like to think of the G-spot as a trigger or perhaps a response, and yes, I'm not a psychologist. Are all women able to have this area triggered and have a response? Damned if I know. Despite our similarities there are some differences. Perhaps some women have more nerve fibers and some less. Perhaps there are some differences in the tissue's engorgement (read: erectile) response. Perhaps there are differences in women's (insert anatomical or psychological term of your choice). Or perhaps, just maybe, as a lot of women have been saying since The Garden, men just don't get it.

There, I've rushed in. And yes, I am a Fool but I'm no fool.

If you want a second opinion, I'd say it's your gallbladder.


After weighing in on abortion, gay parenting and trying, without success to get one certain personality to accept what science is and isn't, (not my definition, but that of science itself), I have generally found the people here to be...well...people. The vested interests and the morons are here, as would be expected in a place of exchange of human ideas (did I say that?). Also here are a vast number of thoughtful, intelligent and for the most part, polite people who have interesting and meaningful things to add to the threads. A Fool, as in the Town Fool, was and is someone who used humour and wit, in an intelligent way, to make a point that often poked fun at the stuffed shirts and the various pretensions of the closed minded. In other words, the Town Fool does not suffer fools gladly, and certainly is not the village idiot. That said...

What this world needs is more Social Intercourse!!

 

[OQueen]

Thought I recognized you Doc.
But that's why my ob/gyn is a woman.

 

[lisa123414]

Don't cry for me....although i must say, be happy you have a SO who gives a fuck about your orgasms..

 

[gotsnowgotslush]

I had a few g-spot orgasms, when I was younger. And I was embarrassed.
I did not have a full understanding about what had happened.
I was not sure about what had squirted out of me.
So, I squelched it.

But I read information about the G-spot, online,

and in books, much later in life.

And, somehow, gave myself permission to experience G-spot orgasms.

To me, G- spot orgasms are the cherry on top of the sundae.

It is still a very satisfying and enjoyable sundae, without it.

But it's just a bit special, with it.

 

[OQueen]

Don't cry for me....although i must say, be happy you have a SO who gives a fuck about your orgasms..

Someone who gives a fuck is one of the keys to happiness in my life. And I do not take that for granted.

 

[JackLuis]

Ah found a relevant article on G-Spots.


"G-Spot Squabble: French, British Fight Over Erogenous Zone's Existence"

Anglo-Franco Squabble? How Quaint?

 

[OQueen]

Well, I never had a problem finding it, just getting it to do anything for me.

This article about the "G-Shot" may be interesting to some:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1027541/Ive-G-shot--YES-YES-YES-sex-life-better.html

 

[OQueen]

Can you see the ads? "Mind-blowing full body orgasms everytime, or your money back".
I'd bite.

 

[stephen55]

Ah found a relevant article on G-Spots.


"G-Spot Squabble: French, British Fight Over Erogenous Zone's Existence"

Anglo-Franco Squabble? How Quaint?

The Brits and the French will squabble about anything, so why not a dust-up over the existence of the G-spot?

Putting aside every (little) bit I know about the answer to the question, on first principles, I'll go with the French on this one.

 

[stephen55]

but then....

Well, I never had a problem finding it, just getting it to do anything for me.

This article about the "G-Shot" may be interesting to some:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1027541/Ive-G-shot--YES-YES-YES-sex-life-better.html

Now, on the other hand, if British women are now going for the G-shot, an injection of collagen to raise the spot a bit and make it easier to find (?), then it's obvious the Brit lasses don't believe Brit gynecologists.

I do see that the gynecologist giving the injection ia altruistic enough to only charge 800 pounds for the procedure.

 

[OQueen]

I do see that the gynecologist giving the injection ia altruistic enough to only charge 800 pounds for the procedure.

How much is that anyway (US $$)?
And I still want the guarantee

 

[stephen55]

How much is that anyway (US $$)?
And I still want the guarantee

Let's see.......according to my local paper's currency exchange rates, 800 British pounds would be about....$1,445.57 US.

Seeing as how a few cc's of medical grade injectable collagen would cost the gynecologist about $5.00 and a disposable needle and syringe about $2.00 and the procedure shouldn't take more than fifteen minutes, tops (three seconds to give the injection, however long the gynecologist wants to take to "find" the G-spot in the first place...I mean come on....wink, wink, tickle, tickle....there it is!!!) and a few more minutes congratulating the woman on her wisdom in getting the G-shot, that would work out to....an income of....5,754.28 an hour.

Do that for seven hours a day, say, 180 days a year, and ....$7,250,392.83 per year. Knock off about $100,000.00 for overhead (the gynecologist is going to want an office resembling the Taj Mahal, and hot Damn!!....7.150 seriously big ones a year.

I'm open for business if you're open for the shot. (Pun intended.)

And if you want a guarantee, then yes, I guarantee that you'll be getting 100% per medical grade injectable collagen (which is usually obtained from chickens).

If you want a guarantee that it works, why, have you ever seen an unhappy chicken?

 

[stephen55]

oops....

make that 100% pure medical grade .....

 

[Stella_Omega]

make that 100% pure medical grade .....

Dude, I am sold. pass me back to the receptionist, I'm making my appointment

 

[stephen55]

A small, sober second thought yoy might want to consider.....

Dude, I am sold. pass me back to the receptionist, I'm making my appointment

Before you get all excited about the quality of 100% pure, medical grade injectable collagen, I live in Canada. So what, you might ask....

Well, in Canada we get our medical collagen from 100% pure, medical grade Canadian chickens. It's likely not going to be a problem, but consider another 100% pure, medical grade Canadian health care product....medical marijuana.

No, it's not BC Bud, the best in all the world, not that I would know, never having inhaled, it's this stuff grown at heavily guarded official government "grow-ops". Those who know the stuff, again, not me, say it is cabbage. I think that is a derogatory term for inferior, low grade stuff that even Lit trolls would spurn.

So Stella, I'd be happy to give you the shot, but you might consider locally grown chicken by-products.

Don't give me any of that lousy, cheap local anesthetic, I want the imported stuff!!