Tiggs said:(FYI, I was tied up and blindfolded through it all!!!! )
This point seems to be the most telling. If you are the focus, things probably will be more exciting. For me it was more like "grab what parts interest you, and go to town." I don't regret the experience, but feel that one on one is still my favourite.
Though I will admit that two women going down on me remains one of my favourite fantasies!
-T