Gentle Domination

[SweetAngel36]

How many men are really into gentle domination with none of the humiliation or torture? And why do you prefer one over the other?

 

[rustyrabbitt]

I've left the site forever

 

[RandallKinds]

How many men are really into gentle domination with none of the humiliation or torture? And why do you prefer one over the other?

That's an interesting question. The idea of being dominated by a woman really works for me, right up until the humiliation 'lick my boot' line. At that point, I'm out. I'm not sure why that is, exactly. I don't mind having a woman dominate sexually (really, I don't!) but she doesn't have to be mean about it.

EDIT: *laugh* Oh, you mean men into gently dominating women! Gotcha. I think you have to respect your partner and her boundaries. There are always rules of engagement. Domination does not mean you MUST do things as I want them - your partner should be able to work within your areas of comfort.

 

[Wildcat2222]

I love to command, but not demeaning. I want the girl to be able to vocialize her pleasure.

 

[SweetAngel36]

I'm a natural submissive, I prefer gentle domination. But it would be nice to understand the drives behind the diff choices you like

 

[PaRebel44]

it would depend on your definition of torture , I suppose , I do like to inflict a little pain i.e. spanking , nipple clamps , hair pulling , stuff like that . Humiliation has never really been my thing though

 

[Sly_William33]

Good Question

Hard question to answer quickly but I have always preferred gentle domination. I think there is a slower/longer term build up that is exciting and seems to always (if done right) leave the woman wanting more. It's also about the personal self control. Shoot me a note if you ever want to discuss in more depth.

 

[Kurizu]

I guess it depends on who i am with. some girls i have been with do like physical punishment and dominion, but others do not. I think that being gentle can be just as dominating as being rough. it is not about the physical punishment that guides your sub, but the knowledge that she did something that you didn't approve of which can be shown with a look or a single word.

 

[SweetAngel36]

I guess it depends on who i am with. some girls i have been with do like physical punishment and dominion, but others do not. I think that being gentle can be just as dominating as being rough. it is not about the physical punishment that guides your sub, but the knowledge that she did something that you didn't approve of which can be shown with a look or a single word.

It truly hurts me when I disappoint the one im with, it literally brings tears to my eyes

 

[LibraStud]

It truly hurts me when I disappoint the one im with, it literally brings tears to my eyes

you can only disappoint if expectations are unfulfilled. since we are all human, many times it is not possible to fulfill needs all the time. communication is the key to both understanding and misunderstanding.

 

[CaliGuy60]

How many men are really into gentle domination with none of the humiliation or torture? And why do you prefer one over the other?

I'm very into that. I'm nto much into the trappings either. I think it's a very consensual thing, and something that people can be very nice about.

 

[Kurizu]

It truly hurts me when I disappoint the one im with, it literally brings tears to my eyes

That can be the case from time to time, but in our errors, we have the chance to grow not only as individuals, but as a couple. maybe it was more than you could handle or maybe they thought that it should have been able to been reached by you. when ever my girl would do something that disappointed me, i did talk to her and let her know why it did and what she could do so that it didn't occur again.

 

[Veronicababy91]

I enjoy being dominated by my Master. While I don't mind if it's a little rough now and then, I'm not into the heavy bondage and pain. Gentle domination can be a lot more thrilling for me depending on the situation.

 

[ButtAnalMan]

If you can consider romantic erotic spanking as gentle domination, so i like it a lot

 

[Blase]

How many men are really into gentle domination with none of the humiliation or torture? And why do you prefer one over the other?

I think I'm quite gentle even though I will, if a girl enjoys it, include some humiliation. I think that the feeling behind what you're doing in play tends to come across pretty well, and my girls realize that I still regard them with respect and affection even when I'm saying things that, taken at face value, are objectifying and demeaning.