Get a girls number...

[spacemanness]

ok here is my thing ... (just shoot me if this type of question has been asked before)

(background informantion) I am 18 and about to grad from high school, and i havnt really had any serious relationship experiance. I guess you could say that I do not really seek to get with any girls, i just kind of "lay low"(ok that was short)

Now here is my problem -
I am scared to ask this girl for her number I dont know why i am, i usually dont ask girls out (i guess i am just to shy), out of the.. *takes a minute to count* 7 or 8 girls I have asked for there numbers i have got all 7 (two others asked for mine, and one gave me hers , and she was the hottest one of them all) ... yet i guess i have a huge fear of rejection. All of the above girls i had know for a while before i got there #'s, this new girl I have only said hi to a couple of times for 6 months i have "known" her, so how do I do this, with minimum chance of rejection?

Anyfeedback welcome.

 

[krustyalice]

yet i guess i have a huge fear of rejection. All of the above girls i had know for a while before i got there #'s, this new girl I have only said hi to a couple of times for 6 months i have "known" her, so how do I do this, with minimum chance of rejection?

Buddy I don't know of anyone who is not scared of rejection.

Best way is to be up front with her yes she might reject you but hey your 18 a young adult and im sure she wont laugh in your face or be completly rude.

With age we all understand how hard it is to ask someone for their number and respect another person for having the courage to ask.

 

[phoenix1224]

I agree... Just tell her you like her and would like to get to know her better. I know it's difficult, but anytime you approach a woman, there's always going to be a 50% chance of rejection.

But, if you really like her, you'll HAVE to take that chance...

Just remember, confidence is the key... Women just love confident men... it's a huge turn on (and they hate men who approach them looking like a deer caught in the headlights).

 

[firefighter02]

Perhaps taking out the Mr. Man and laying it on the table, handing her a felt tipped pen and asking for her number so you can call her later.

 

[sheath]

Perhaps taking out the Mr. Man and laying it on the table, handing her a felt tipped pen and asking for her number so you can call her later.

*snicker*

Just be sure to get falling-down-drunk first, so you have an excuse the next day for your astounding behavior of the night before.

S.

 

[Betticus]

Females can smell desperation or lack of confidence from a mile away and it makes them run like hell. Spend time talking to a girl that you are interested in. Get to know her and you will get a clue as to whether or not she is interested in you. Just be yourself. If she isn't interested then move on, there are about three billion females on the face of the planet.

Also, don't just stare at her tits. She has a lot more to offer than just her body and every other lecherous bastard has already come on to her in a drunken stupor.

 

[lovechild27]

just be yourself. EVERYONE gets rejected sometimes. Its really NOT that bad.

 

[firefighter02]

*snicker*

Just be sure to get falling-down-drunk first, so you have an excuse the next day for your astounding behavior of the night before.

S.

Well just don't fall asleep in your car with your hand wrapped around your dick...Hmmm..cum??? The missing ingredient to my felt tip pen remover....??

 

[Pimptress J]

Females can smell desperation or lack of confidence from a mile away and it makes them run like hell. Spend time talking to a girl that you are interested in. Get to know her and you will get a clue as to whether or not she is interested in you. Just be yourself. If she isn't interested then move on, there are about three billion females on the face of the planet.

Also, don't just stare at her tits. She has a lot more to offer than just her body and every other lecherous bastard has already come on to her in a drunken stupor.

Unless she has a shirt on that says "look at my tit's when I'm talking to you". Then it's ok.

 

[MagicFingers]

ok here is my thing ... (just shoot me if this type of question has been asked before)

(background informantion) I am 18 and about to grad from high school, and i havnt really had any serious relationship experiance. I guess you could say that I do not really seek to get with any girls, i just kind of "lay low"(ok that was short)

Now here is my problem -
I am scared to ask this girl for her number I dont know why i am, i usually dont ask girls out (i guess i am just to shy), out of the.. *takes a minute to count* 7 or 8 girls I have asked for there numbers i have got all 7 (two others asked for mine, and one gave me hers , and she was the hottest one of them all) ... yet i guess i have a huge fear of rejection. All of the above girls i had know for a while before i got there #'s, this new girl I have only said hi to a couple of times for 6 months i have "known" her, so how do I do this, with minimum chance of rejection?

Anyfeedback welcome.

It sounds like you are doing GREAT! No rejections, one hot one, and even had 2 ask for YOURS! I think that's above average.
Keep asking, and CALL when you get their numbers. Getting a number is just the start. I hear many women complain that guys never call them after giving their numbers out. Don't be one of those.

It sounds like you have something to offer them, either good looks, good personality, long tongue, something. So keep asking. Rejection is one of the hardest things for us men. women just don't understand how devastating it can be to us. Keep asking and don't let it bother you if one or two say no. There are many reasons why they might reject you. Many times it has nothing to do with YOU. Be cheerful and smiling and confident, even if you are not inside. After time, you WILL be if you keep it up.

I have dated several drop-dead gorgeous women, all because I got up the nerve to ask them to dance, or said HI in the laundromat! Women also have "issues" with self esteem and acceptance. They would love to meet a nice guy for a change.
Go For IT!

 

[sheath]

Well just don't fall asleep in your car with your hand wrapped around your dick...Hmmm..cum??? The missing ingredient to my felt tip pen remover....??

Ummm.

I am SO tempted to comment...but...I won't....



S.

 

[MagicFingers]

Go for the best

Had to post this somewhere and this seems like the right place.
Just got this in email. I don't necessarily agree with the last part but it is still a good thought to take with you overall, men and women.

To all the good apples out there.... cheers!!


Women are like apples on trees.
The best ones are at the top of the tree.
Most men don't want to reach for the good ones
because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt.

Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the
ground that aren't as good, but easy.......

So the apples at the top think something is wrong
with them, when in reality, they're amazing.
They just have to wait for the right man to come
along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the
way to the top of the tree.

Share this with other women who are good apples,
even those who have already been picked!

And remember.................. Men are like a fine wine.

They start out as grapes, and it's up to women to
stomp the shit out of them until they turn into
something acceptable to have dinner with.