Giving Oral

[UC_Gav]

Ok im a young guy, i havent had much experience with this particular field of love making, infact only once and since it was a disaster id like some advice.

I tried to follow what i thought i knew from reading, mainly from things like the stories in lit. The problem is she barely even twitched. It was as if i wasnt even there. She didnt move, make a sound or anything.

Is it possible for one guy to be so bad she goes numb?


Any advice on technique from the guys and preference from the girls is welcome.

Also take into account that particular girl was still a virgin at the time and suffered pain when 'stretched' shes fine now...but thats not the point. Basically at the time finger/tongue penetration wasnt an option.

 

[BlueElf]

Yum!

My favorite topic! lol...

First off, I would ask her what she likes or dislikes - maybe she shies away from receiving oral pleasure b/c she thinks it's dirty or that you are only doing it from obligation. Or maybe there are some areas that you can pay more attention to that she can tell you about.

Reading what others do is helpful but every woman is different and every set of nether lips and gorgeous clit too!

You can always try (maybe later) using a cough drop or ice or a breath mint (curiously strong ones ) as they tend to give a variety of sensations to all sorts of areas!!!

BlueElf

 

[Megafurvert]

here's some more advice!!

i find that working up to the act is a key part...... don't just go down on her or him... i don't know if u float like that... i go both ways.... but that's beside the point!! slow soft kisses work well!! give them to her all over her body.... try starting near the top and working ur way slowly down!!! once u get to those beautiful lips give kisses all around it ..... tease her a little...... kiss the inside of her thighs.... trail ur tongue over her upper thighs and then finally over to her pussy!! from there u'll have to find what makes her feel good!! i find that on all women sucking on their clit while pushing a finger in and out of their cunt works REAL well!!

 

[dollface007]

Being that you're her first (at least I think that's what you're saying) she may need reassurance from you during oral. The first time i received oral sex, i had no idea that i was supposed to be enjoying it or that guys actually liked doing it. I was so self-conscious that it took A LOT of convincing before i would even let him go down on me. Just keep telling her how much you love her pussy....how much you love going down on her...how you love the way she tastes, and maybe she'll be a little more enthusiastic.

 

[UC_Gav]

Oh no i wasnt her first, she was mine....kinda.

We were actually best friends, still are today. This all happened a while ago when she was single. She'd had experience like that before, it was me who was the rookie lol.

Although come to think of it she never actually told me what she wanted. I asked her if she wanted me to do it and she said yes and i got on with it.

Trust me it was more passionate than i make it sound but i dunno. Once id finished with my mediocre efforts she got up, dressed and went downstairs without a word....im not sure if i upset her or something.

For one thing, do girls like kissing again with their juices on your face. I tried to hide it but once i was done i cleaned myself up.....should i have just risked it?

 

[dollface007]

Oh no i wasnt her first, she was mine....kinda.

We were actually best friends, still are today. This all happened a while ago when she was single. She'd had experience like that before, it was me who was the rookie lol.

Although come to think of it she never actually told me what she wanted. I asked her if she wanted me to do it and she said yes and i got on with it.

Trust me it was more passionate than i make it sound but i dunno. Once id finished with my mediocre efforts she got up, dressed and went downstairs without a word....im not sure if i upset her or something.

For one thing, do girls like kissing again with their juices on your face. I tried to hide it but once i was done i cleaned myself up.....should i have just risked it?

Yes, i love the post-oral kiss! I usually end up licking the guy's face clean
May i suggest not being worried too much about the mechanics of it and just go for it passionately...focusing on teasing, licking softly, then harder and alternatiing your touch. Ask her, to tell you what feels good. She'll be relieved that you asked. I get the impression that she sensed your insecurity about it and didn't know how to react. Who knows. I'm sure you'll be great with some practice, but a little passion goes a long way.

 

[Etoile]

Any advice on technique from the guys and preference from the girls is welcome.

How about the girls with advice on technique? After all, we're the ones who know both what we like and how to do it!

 

[cg_allstar]

Re: Re: Giving Oral

How about the girls with advice on technique? After all, we're the ones who know both what we like and how to do it!

Then help him and me out here.

 

[Megafurvert]

listen to the ladies my man.... they are the ultimate experts!!!! no one not even me licks a pussy better than they do!!! ladies have a far more intimate knowledge of all the right spots to touch and when!!!! Etoile has an even better grasp on the subject than most women.... they r her feild of expertise and expertease

 

[UC_Gav]

Re: Re: Giving Oral

How about the girls with advice on technique? After all, we're the ones who know both what we like and how to do it!

Yeah sorry about that. I was thinking it over after i logged off and realised the Girls probably know more techniques than the guys.

I was going to edit it but forgot.

*Prostrates myself before you, begging Forgiveness*

 

[alvarezguy]

While I will leave to details to the women, I will relate to you what works for me:

The first step is to get her a little excited, by either rubbing her cunt, clit, tits, whatever you need to do. After that, get her talking. Tell her you want to know where to go, up, down, left right, in, out. Once you find something she likes, go for it, and do it steadily.

Techniques that my GF really likes are really lightly flicking the clit with my tongue, or sucking her inner lips (hers poke out) into my mouth, and rubbing my tongue into them.

Good luck.

 

[Blastasbird]

My bloke sure knows what I like. When he wants to give me oral he starts by rubbings my clit to make me all wet and then when he goes down he nibbles on my clit which I enjoy and flicks his tongue. He knows if I am enjoying it by the noises I make. The more noise I make the more he knows I am enjoying it.