Guys please help..Tricks to BJ

[iemtzingu]

I do fair giving blow jobs, atelast I can get the job done. I just want to please him more. I want to be the best. Tell me what gets the motor running. what drives him crazy he, that he is almost begging to stop?

Lastly ~ swallowing. I am okay in little spurts, I manage just fine. I want to be able to take it all the way in , deep in throat. Any pointers would greatly help. Especially the men folk.

Thanks!

 

[PertPerth]

There is only one person you need to ask - and that's your man! Every guy (just like every gal) likes something different.
My boyfriend doesn't like to cum in my mouth, so usually he end up coming somewhere on me - like my boobs for example. He thinks that's really hot.
Deep-throat...I'm sure there is a thread on that one. Relaxing and getting the right position/technique is vital. Also maybe try to practice with something so you can reduce your gag reflex.

 

[stageleft]

fave

my g/f has the technique to drive me wild when she,s in the mood for a great b/j.
she is very pretty & loves nothing more than rubbing my cock all around her soft dainty face.it drives me wild as my rigid cock dwarfs her small pretty face & she hightens the tension by teasing : "dont you dare cum all over my face while im doing this ! "
when she does finaly take my cock in her soft mouth it feels so much more intense.
she also loves to enhance the massive thrill by asking me to hold her head & drive my cock in & out.not many women allow a man to hold her head in both hands & freely fuck her face & she knows the level of lust & excitement it generates.
as for taking it deep she often encourages me to press the top of her head down tapping my behind when she needs to come back up for air.its mindblowing to feel the head of my cock being engulfed tightly in her throat.
i tried once to cum with my cock lodged in her throat but she choked as the first initial spurts are very rapid & strong.
instead she pulls back & lets me complete in my most fave way....spurting all over her lovely pretty face.
try it !

 

[iemtzingu]

Thank you for the replies. I don't have issues with him playing, I was curious on how to. I like the idea of the man holding my head and fucking my face. I just need help dealing with my issues, swallowing every drop, What all can I do with my hands. I want the next time I give a BJ it is the best experience ever. I love being dominated,

 

[Jackotheshadows]

Something to consider is there are two things going on, what looks hot, and feels good. They overlap some, but those seem to be the two things (at least for me!). Having my partner pull her mouth off of me after the first spurt and let it fly all over her is hot, but keeping me in her mouth the whole time feels better. Mix it up some, but pay attention to the "finishing move", whatever makes your guy go over the edge. For me, it's having her get her hand wet, grasp the shaft midway, take the head in her mouth, and move fast up and down with hand and mouth. The tight friction (and eye contact) is a killer.

Keep in mind, face-fucking is hot in porn, but throwing up on your guy's crotch because he triggered your gag reflex is something neither of you will forget...

 

[iemtzingu]

Interesting. Thanks for the info. Back to I want to please him in any way possible. hermmm is there any way at all with anything. I am ready for kinky, crazy, basically a no holds barred. Make sense?

 

[Jackotheshadows]

Sure does! Like said above, find out what really drives him nuts. Ice cubes in the mouth, Altoids, holding a vibe to his cock as you suck, there are a ton of things, but if you want to please him, find out what gets him going. Make him think about it, as most guys are just excited to find someone like you, so they may not be comfortable saying "Do this instead, I like it better.".

Lucky guy!

 

[albertaboy]

My wife kind of rolls her fingers over the head fromthe underside in bewtween sucks and that just about sends me over the edge. TRy playing with his ass while you are doing it.

 

[SubNebGuy]

the best BJ's also involve one or more hands, stroking the shaft, rubbing the balls...maybe a little prostate massage action.

don't make your mouth provide all the pressure, or you'll quickly tire.
mouth for moisture, tongue and hand/fingers for the more intense stimulation.

feels like heaven!

 

[str8butkinky]

anal play and talk also

Fingers or toys up the ass.. very hot.
Also talk about how much you love it.. and how much you want him to cum..

Drivers me nuts

 

[iemtzingu]

Sure does! Like said above, find out what really drives him nuts. Ice cubes in the mouth, Altoids, holding a vibe to his cock as you suck, there are a ton of things, but if you want to please him, find out what gets him going. Make him think about it, as most guys are just excited to find someone like you, so they may not be comfortable saying "Do this instead, I like it better.".

Lucky guy!

Thanks a bunch for these ideas. Never thought of Altoids before. Mmmm

 

[iemtzingu]

My wife kind of rolls her fingers over the head fromthe underside in bewtween sucks and that just about sends me over the edge. TRy playing with his ass while you are doing it.

Thank you for the ideas, and yes would love to send him over the edge.

 

[iemtzingu]

the best BJ's also involve one or more hands, stroking the shaft, rubbing the balls...maybe a little prostate massage action.

don't make your mouth provide all the pressure, or you'll quickly tire.
mouth for moisture, tongue and hand/fingers for the more intense stimulation.

feels like heaven!

Ahhh, I have done that with my mouth before. Thanks!

 

[iemtzingu]

Fingers or toys up the ass.. very hot.
Also talk about how much you love it.. and how much you want him to cum..

Drivers me nuts

Ohh I love to talk dirty, and toys for him. Nice, thank you.

 

[bigtazz]

Two words

Rim job! Always gets me to cum and cum hard I do!

 

[littlebitshe]

Just a few pointers that I have learned.....

LOTS and LOTS of saliva! Love feeling all that wetness.
Use your tongue! While I'm sucking my hubby's cock, I move my tongue along his shaft as I suck him in and out.
A fun technique.... Go down (cock goes in) and when coming back up suck in air too. This creates a breeze of air going over his saliva soaked cock. My hubby LOVES this!
I also position my self where he can play with my pussy and ass while i'm sucking his cock... (almost in 69 position, but I'm not stradled over his face... i'm to the side of his head)
If he's into it.... massage his pucker. That will send him over the edge or send him off the bed... LOL!
cup and play with his balls while you suck his cock.
Watch the teeth!!! This is important! Be careful not to scrape his cock with your teeth.... OUCH! Nothing ruines a good BJ like TEETH!
To help with the teeth situation... wrap your lips over your teeth and tightly wrap around the cock and suck up and down the shaft. Nice and tight!

And most importantly.... Enjoy giving him pleasure and take pride in it! He will be even more turned on to know that you take pleasure in getting him off!

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

My girlfriend and I discussed this today. What we concluded was premium blow-jobs are custom tailored to the man and the woman. You need to be in rapport with your partner; that is, the unconscious signals need to be sent and received and acted on. You need to know your partner.

 

[iemtzingu]

bigtazz
Rim job! Always gets me to cum and cum hard I do!

Mmmmm, I can do that. Thank you.

GWalters65
Oh yeah, Ice cubes in the mouth will do it everytime. You can also take one and rub his sack while your sucking.

Oh yeah!! I love ice.... Thank you.

littlebitshe
Just a few pointers that I have learned.....
LOTS and LOTS of saliva! Love feeling all that wetness.
Use your tongue! While I'm sucking my hubby's cock, I move my tongue along his shaft as I suck him in and out.
A fun technique.... Go down (cock goes in) and when coming back up suck in air too. This creates a breeze of air going over his saliva soaked cock. My hubby LOVES this!
I also position my self where he can play with my pussy and ass while i'm sucking his cock... (almost in 69 position, but I'm not stradled over his face... i'm to the side of his head)
If he's into it.... massage his pucker. That will send him over the edge or send him off the bed... LOL!
cup and play with his balls while you suck his cock.
Watch the teeth!!! This is important! Be careful not to scrape his cock with your teeth.... OUCH! Nothing ruines a good BJ like TEETH!
To help with the teeth situation... wrap your lips over your teeth and tightly wrap around the cock and suck up and down the shaft. Nice and tight!

And most importantly.... Enjoy giving him pleasure and take pride in it! He will be even more turned on to know that you take pleasure in getting him off!

Wowzas!!! You're a pro. Great advice... makes me hot just reading what you wrote. Much appreciation.

JAMESBJOHNSON
My girlfriend and I discussed this today. What we concluded was premium blow-jobs are custom tailored to the man and the woman. You need to be in rapport with your partner; that is, the unconscious signals need to be sent and received and acted on. You need to know your partner.

Nice input, thanks a bunch.


Thank you everyone for all your input. I am anxious to get busy. Alot of great ideas. Muahs!

TZ

 

[77Cobra]

As said before lots of saliva,give a wet sloppy blowjob,lots of noises,sucking noises and most of all show him that it is not just for him,show him you love to have a stiff cock in your mouth,and nasty talk,and moaning as you stroke him and suck,play with yourself as you blow him,tell him you want him to cum,that you want his cum,slide your lips all the way down as far as you can take it then slip your toungue out underside of his cock and lick his balls.When you sense he is about to cum really get after it with more moaning like you are starving for a big load of baby batter.Most important to me is a woman acting like she loves to suck me more than anything.

 

[Cardinalduke]

You wanted to hear from the guys.

One thing I do frequently is watch blowjob videos. They definitely turn me on. One thing I notice is that every woman seems to do it a little different. Some radically so. My suggestion is to take advantage of the plethora of videos out there with nothing but blowjobs.

Download them for free and watch them. There are tons of amateur videos that are fantastic. I always wished a girl I dated would take some time to watch the videos and try different techniques. I wish they had the same thing for cunnilingus but sadly there doesn't seem to be as much out there....some just not much.

I learn all kinds of amazing things I'd like to have done to me by watching. As an example, a german chick made a guy come by just tickling it out of him with her tongue licking the top underside of his shaft right at the end. It is a very hot vid and a unique thing you can try. You could get 20 ideas like that pretty quick by watching other women.

 

[Carnevil9]

Two ideas from my experiences:

1. Put his cock half way into your mouth, and rotate your head in a circle (no, not like Linda Blair; move as if you are drawing a circle with a pen in your mouth). This slides his cock head around the inside of your mouth. It drives me wild.

2. If you have long hair, put it in a ponytail or a top-knot. Guys love to watch the beautiful face of the woman that is sucking their cock.

 

[littlebitshe]

As said before lots of saliva,give a wet sloppy blowjob,lots of noises,sucking noises and most of all show him that it is not just for him,show him you love to have a stiff cock in your mouth,and nasty talk,and moaning as you stroke him and suck,play with yourself as you blow him,tell him you want him to cum,that you want his cum,slide your lips all the way down as far as you can take it then slip your toungue out underside of his cock and lick his balls.When you sense he is about to cum really get after it with more moaning like you are starving for a big load of baby batter.Most important to me is a woman acting like she loves to suck me more than anything.

GREAT advise and I COMPLETELY agree! Sucking and slurping noises are FANTASTIC! I know the guy loves to hear noises while you are sucking his cock!

 

[madjon]

Be careful with the Altoids - too many at one time can give a rather uncomfortable burning sensation - like Ben Gay

 

[his_lil_secret]

Ok...this may sound a bit funny but here's my practice/warmup technique (and my guys love to watch me do this because by now they know what's cumming afterwards)

Get yourself and nice fat strawberry- if you can't find strawberries a thick chunk of soft melon or peach works nicely too- and give that berry a good tongue lashing. Holding it by the stem end begin at the narrow end of the berry. Run the tip of your tongue over it a few times then put just the tip between your lips and almost kiss it. Drag your lips over the top a few times as you let more and more of the berry inside your mouth. If your teeth are in the "wrong position" you'll be able to see because the berry will be bruised, but if you're doing it right it'll be warm and wet and beginning to release it's flavor onto your lips.
Next slide the whole berry into your mouth down to the stem and make a huge production out of slurping and sucking on it. Slide it in and out of your mouth, run your tongue over it. You want to use a steady, firm sucking action until basically the berry has turned to mush in your mouth without even taking a bite. If your guy watches this little performance there'll be no doubt in his mind what you want to suck on next.

As to the actual BJ...use your hands as well as your mouth. I like to grasp the shaft at the base and as my lips and mouth cum up off his cock I pump with my hands in a rotating motion before slurping him back up again. I also like to use my tongue and flick it quickly across the slit of his cock while he's in myy mouth. It always makes him twitch in the most delightful ways.
I like to leave my hair down so that he can put his hands in it and pull me deeper onto his cock when he's about to cum for me. He loves to play with my hair while I'm going down on him and the added sensation of the hair brushing against his thighs often makes him more stimulated.
I make lots of noise and keep things wet. Lots of moaning and slurping. Try moaning while he's as deep in your throat as you can get him. The vibration against his cock should feel really nice and I've yet to meet the guy that doesn't like to see a woman moaning in delight over sucking his cock.

As to the gag reflex, it passes/eases with practice but until it does you can try sucking him off with your head hanging slightly off the bed. Have him straddle your face for a change. This position can open up the back of the throat a bit more and make it easier to take him deeper. Also try dropping your jaw before you start. Relax your lips and imagine your cheeks almost sinking in. Your jaw should relax enough to drop down and this also makes deep throating easier.
Don't be worried about swallowing every drop. I was once told that one of the sexiest things my guy saw me do was wiping the little bits of cum I couldn't swallow off the corner of my mouth with my fingers and licking them clean.
Other then that my only advise is to let him see and hear exactly how much you're enjoying what you're doing. An enthusiastic partner is more arousing then any learned technique IMO!

 

[PassionateLady]

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