Have you ever been seduced?

MsDeanne

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As in pursued.. aggressively by someone.
Guys do you prefer women to pursue or prefer to be the predator?
just curious...
 
I'm a bit on the shy side. So, personally I prefer to be seduced. A good seductress is extremely hot.
 
Not sure about seduction...but I do not like shy men at all.
I don't have to be sought after I guess...just as long as he can talk to me
 
I have been pursued and I have pursued myself. Oh if I want someone, then I'm not going to wait for them to come to me.. hahaha I like hunting :D

I like how you think. Being pursued for men is great, as it takes off some of the pressure and guesswork of "does she like me or not"...

:D
 
I don't fall into either camp. I don't pursue, and I've never been pursued. I approach things more cautiously, but that doesn't mean to see that I can't communicate.

I don't tend to ask a woman out in a great hurry though. I take my time. If the woman in questions wants me to be more direct, she has to give me strong signals that this is what she really wants.
 
I don't fall into either camp. I don't pursue, and I've never been pursued. I approach things more cautiously, but that doesn't mean to see that I can't communicate.

I don't tend to ask a woman out in a great hurry though. I take my time. If the woman in questions wants me to be more direct, she has to give me strong signals that this is what she really wants.

So what would you consider a "strong signal"?
 
Yes, I have. Fresh out of separation, I met up with a friend from another forum. She wanted to keep me company and so we got chatting. Although she lived in the complete opposite end of the country, she travelled a lot for work. Our first conversation on the 'phone lasted a good three hours.

She brought me here, but more because we were being watched everywhere else as much as anything.

We met up. Ended up sleeping together a total of seven times over the space of about four months. Quickly found we'd have been perfect for each other if she wasn't married to another guy. It all came to a head when he made her choose between him and me.

She made the right choice and decided to return to her own life. It still ruined three lives though, and it's something I wouldn't wish anybody to be tangled up in. I don't know where she is now, most likely having a perfect life and between them making a family she so desperately craved.
 
I've been on both ends of the equation....I loved being seduced by an older woman when I first got to college. Now, it usually me doing the seducing. There is a real pleasure to both, but if I had to pick. I'd love to be seduced by a woman of about my age who loves word play, has a certain look in her eyes and a sexy smile
 
I'd much rather be the seducer, especially early on. I need her to be engaging and show interest...but don't come after me hard or it freaks me a little.


I love a good mind fucking.. but let me do it first.
 
So what would you consider a "strong signal"?

Being touched frequently, strong eye conduct, and a low personal space threshold are the three things which spring immediately to mind. There are probably others though.
 
I'd much rather be the seducer, especially early on. I need her to be engaging and show interest...but don't come after me hard or it freaks me a little.


I love a good mind fucking.. but let me do it first.

Kind of hard for a woman to seduce you when you have her bent over your knee....:D:D
 
There's nothing that I enjoy more than a good seduction. It's fun coming up with individual ways to seduce a woman that she will never see coming. I've never been seduced though. Oh well.
 
Kind of hard for a woman to seduce you when you have her bent over your knee....:D:D



lol...knucklehead..


actually, she does seduce me then. Giving yourself in that manner is a powerful thing for both of us. Playing a role, and submitting can be very intense. Perhaps surprising is that it's very liberating for the one doing the submitting..so for her to offer it up, causes my testosterone to rage.


Wouldnt that be considered seduction?
 
I'd much rather be the seducer, especially early on. I need her to be engaging and show interest...but don't come after me hard or it freaks me a little.


I love a good mind fucking.. but let me do it first.

Kind of hard for a woman to seduce you when you have her bent over your knee....:D:D

Not wanting to hi-jack this conversation...but, from what I understand that IS the seduction. :cool:
 
lol...knucklehead..


actually, she does seduce me then. Giving yourself in that manner is a powerful thing for both of us. Playing a role, and submitting can be very intense. Perhaps surprising is that it's very liberating for the one doing the submitting..so for her to offer it up, causes my testosterone to rage.


Wouldnt that be considered seduction?

:p

hmmm....the first time I met someone?...not so much..:D
 
:p

hmmm....the first time I met someone?...not so much..:D



being a bit facetious today?


I've never spanked anyone on a first date. I know I like to play around with it on here, but you need to remember that I do the spankings as much for them as for me. I dont hate women and Id NEVER hit one in anger.. I don't have control issues either. Its just some role play that I, and a handful of women have found amazingly hot.


id prolly spank your butt on the first date tho... now that i think about it
 
being a bit facetious today?


I've never spanked anyone on a first date. I know I like to play around with it on here, but you need to remember that I do the spankings as much for them as for me. I dont hate women and Id NEVER hit one in anger.. I don't have control issues either. Its just some role play that I, and a handful of women have found amazingly hot.


id prolly spank your butt on the first date tho... now that i think about it

...yep going out with him!!:D:D:D;)
 
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